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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!
I'm sick of abusive messages!!
Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?
Just a thought?
If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?
I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!
I'm sick of abusive messages!!
Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?
Just a thought?
If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?
I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that! "
Feel better now? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will be instantly blocking anyone who's message I read and delete or don't read and delete!
I'm sick of abusive messages!!
Maybe when we all join we should be sent an automated message to say (amongst other things) that if someone deletes your message without replying, take it as a not interested. If you are reported for sending an abusive message (said message forwarded to admin) then you get a 24 hour ban on sending messages, 2nd offence 48 hours, 3rd account deleted?
Just a thought?
If I send a message, I don't EXPECT a reply. Why do others?
I'm glad I deleted his message if he's going to be like that!
Feel better now?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree.
I don't understand the need to be abusive to anyone else just because they are not interested.
Yes it's a disappointment but by being abusive you are just proving that they were right to block you in the first place.
Unfortunately these people create mistrust and ruin it for everyone else.
It would be better if there was a report system that would out this attitude and block those responsible from messaging to protect everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have different ways of coping with rejection. Getting abusive is the easiest way. Being mature and acting like an adult not so much.
Ignore and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ditto - I have had to do similar over the time here and it would be helpful if we had a tool/tab we could hit to help out - in the meantime my "blocked" list gets longer
Happy fabbing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seriously can't believe blokes spend all that time searching profiles and sending random messages.. I seriously don't have the patience "
I look at profiles but hardly ever message them, doesn't seem much point. |
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