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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?
Me?
A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed.  |
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A large number of veris doesnt mean someone will play with just anyone.
Ordinary single guys are wasting their time just on here, get out to clubs and socials and meet people if they want to get anywhere on here.
The social side is just as important for most swingers that have been on the scene for a few years
Going into a club isnt like just being in a mass orgy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?
Me?
A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed. "
A lot of the 'women' are really guys wanking over ur dick pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone on fab is looking for easy nsa sex so come and join the fun, fill your boots but be nice... that’s what everyone thinks the reality is ... your better of trying to meet someone in a pub or a bar it’s far easier and those old fashioned values never die out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this. |
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this."
Do you think that's us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this."
Bollox, you've blown my cover! |
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this.
Do you think that's us? "
Or us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though you have taken time out of your hectic schedule to message someone “hi love your pics you free now?” Or similar garbage. This doesn’t mean you are entitled to a meet, or even a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can be getting on great with someone and then for no apparent reason they just stop communication. Don't over think it , it's them that has bad manners , not you  "
I could've written this myself,had a great meet with a guy last week,was quite willing to explore a lot of new things with him(ahem lol) however communication with him since then has been sketchy to say the least lol.
I've already moved on,his loss and all that |
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"Be yourself - don’t copy other people’s profile wording or nick chunks off the internet - doing things like that is easily spotted and makes you look like a loser. "
Especially when their private message is poorly written when they profile is well written. |
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this."
Most couples?
Not having much luck eh fella? |
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this."
We're sure with this comment your meet success is going to go through the roof... |
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"If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?
Me?
A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed.
Realy?
A lot of the 'women' are really guys wanking over ur dick pics"
Realy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.
The wife usually knows nothing about this.
Most couples?
Not having much luck eh fella?"
Hit the nail on the head I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try to be genuine in your messages. Nothing clichéd, don’t copy and paste. Try to pick up on certain things in their profile and comment on them.
Chances are your message won’t get read or maybe even deleted but on the offchance it is then you’ve started on the right foot. |
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opinions are like assholes as they saying goes.
that said you'd be better off just focusing on your chances and bettering your own profile rather than pandering to the egotisical or superfical on here. then not worrying about it after.
there's probably a ring of truth to the common themes. if you have no game, aren't attractive have only dick pics... these and are male you're wasting your time unless you like chance or a challenge. and all that effort for wait is most likely a mirage or clickbait.
i guess i'm saying be reflective and confident enough to not a mule for others and play your own game. you'll be better off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For single female friend I'd say grow a thick skin, have a sackful of salt for the numerous pinches you'll need to take and have fun!
A male friend....good luck! And always flush the loo..
To couples I'd say don't ever stop talking and go enjoy your fantasies 
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Add five/ten years to everyone's ages & you've probably a better than 50% chance of being right.
Don't mistake what people say they'll do with what they actually do.
It takes more effort to get a meet on here than in the real world of pubs & clubs (not swingers clubs).
So if you struggle there, good luck here!!
If a single unverified by meets woman makes first contact there's a more than 85% probability its a bloke.
If a couple contact you there's a good chance again that its a bloke. Or at least a bloke that will do all the talking.
Socials are just that unless anything else has been agreed prior to the meet.
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Single guys assuming they’ll get a meet because they own a cock and internet connection will never get a meet.
Single guys with no meets will always whinge in forums and ask others to judge their profile/pictures/bio and ask why some women only want BBC.....the pity party will be the red flag to nearly all and they’ll continue to get no meets.
Single men joining thinking everyone just wants sex because they’re on a swingers site...you’ll not get any meets.
Single men offering money/drugs for meets...will never get meets.
Single females are like unicorns so even if you’re physically repulsive you will get meets.
Single females will no doubt end up leaving or just blocking single males because the constant bombardment/stalking.
Some “couples” are just single guys jerking off pretending they’ll meet as that is some how fun for them.
Some couples one will be amazing the other hideous and they’ll wonder why they don’t get past social meets.
Couples get bombarded with messages from males saying “wanna fuck” so block all males.
This is just from my experience of being on here as a single male and a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be prepared for a lot of rejections, don't take it personally, and be careful what you say to someone as it may be misconstrued and you may end up being blocked and not know why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re talking to someone over 40, there’s a 50/50 chance they’re using photos from the early 2000’s"
That isn’t true in our case our pics are all taken in the last year . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re talking to someone over 40, there’s a 50/50 chance they’re using photos from the early 2000’s
That isn’t true in our case our pics are all taken in the last year . "
Mmm ours are generally uploaded the day they are taken |
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