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Where do you draw the line ???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I draw the line at having swinging meets at my work place or yours. (Except you are an estate agent) I think that is no longer kinky or naughty, just plain irresponsible.
Where do you draw a line ??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In a hotel that we're expected to pay for when both couples can quite easily travel or accommodate "
That’s just wrong, they should pay if they want it so bad. |
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"In a hotel that we're expected to pay for when both couples can quite easily travel or accommodate "
Whats your thoughts if the guy offers to split the cost. I often feel like i should book the hotel but with no shows its a concern. Its different if itz someone ive met before though i guess |
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If it's agreed to split the cost and we're meeting at a halfway point due to excessive milage then fine.
But when it's within local(ish) distance and we're TOLD we will travel to the other couples town and we will be expected to pay for the hotel room despite us being able to accommodate is a no thanks for us.
People say "well maybe they can neither travel or accommodate" if they can travel to a hotel I'm pretty sure they can travel to our home that we are willing to host them in |
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"If it's agreed to split the cost and we're meeting at a halfway point due to excessive milage then fine.
But when it's within local(ish) distance and we're TOLD we will travel to the other couples town and we will be expected to pay for the hotel room despite us being able to accommodate is a no thanks for us.
People say "well maybe they can neither travel or accommodate" if they can travel to a hotel I'm pretty sure they can travel to our home that we are willing to host them in"
Thats faie enough, wheneved someone can accom i try to travel but i dont mind a bit of a drive, well as long as it isnt 3+ hrs away |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it's agreed to split the cost and we're meeting at a halfway point due to excessive milage then fine.
But when it's within local(ish) distance and we're TOLD we will travel to the other couples town and we will be expected to pay for the hotel room despite us being able to accommodate is a no thanks for us.
People say "well maybe they can neither travel or accommodate" if they can travel to a hotel I'm pretty sure they can travel to our home that we are willing to host them in"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would draw the line at meeting a couple or single at their house when their child is asleep upstairs. It’s shocking how many times it’s been suggested
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This is actually alright with me as I know that sorting a sitter everything you want to play can be both difficult and expensive in some cases. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anywhere that's not my house x"
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ? "
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x |
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"I would draw the line at meeting a couple or single at their house when their child is asleep upstairs. It’s shocking how many times it’s been suggested
Mrs"
this infuriates me...I state quite clearly that I won't accommodate at my house due to it being my children's home and still the push for me to "just let them sneak in" no thanks ..... blocked.... |
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"I would draw the line at meeting a couple or single at their house when their child is asleep upstairs. It’s shocking how many times it’s been suggested
Mrs this infuriates me...I state quite clearly that I won't accommodate at my house due to it being my children's home and still the push for me to "just let them sneak in" no thanks ..... blocked...."
Good on you your kids come first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would draw the line at meeting a couple or single at their house when their child is asleep upstairs. It’s shocking how many times it’s been suggested
Mrs this infuriates me...I state quite clearly that I won't accommodate at my house due to it being my children's home and still the push for me to "just let them sneak in" no thanks ..... blocked...."
A block is definitely right in that instance. It has to be the couple who propose it. I would never instigate such a move. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would draw the line at meeting a couple or single at their house when their child is asleep upstairs. It’s shocking how many times it’s been suggested
Mrs this infuriates me...I state quite clearly that I won't accommodate at my house due to it being my children's home and still the push for me to "just let them sneak in" no thanks ..... blocked....
Good on you your kids come first "
I’m guessing everyone puts their kids first. That should be a default |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x"
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with "
Why x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with
Why x"
Because the options are rather limited. Especially for private play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with
Why x
Because the options are rather limited. Especially for private play "
We meet at our house x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with
Why x
Because the options are rather limited. Especially for private play
We meet at our house x"
Blimmey misread your original post. So sorry about that. You are a good one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with
Why x
Because the options are rather limited. Especially for private play
We meet at our house x
Blimmey misread your original post. So sorry about that. You are a good one lol "
It's fine
I actually thought I was going doo lally for a minute there lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with
Why x
Because the options are rather limited. Especially for private play
We meet at our house x
Blimmey misread your original post. So sorry about that. You are a good one lol
It's fine
I actually thought I was going doo lally for a minute there lol x"
Yeap silly moi |
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"Anywhere that's not my house x
So I put the question to you, will you travel to the meets house or are you willing to pay for the hotel if they are coming to you ?
I wouldn't travel or meet in a hotel x
You will be one difficult couple to sort meets with "
How rude!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Outdoors/public not for me!
My house is fine when the kids aren't there. Hotels too, when going further afield. If I pay for the train, I'd like them to pay for the hotel. If it's a hotel locally then I'd go halves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I draw the line at having swinging meets at my work place or yours. (Except you are an estate agent) I think that is no longer kinky or naughty, just plain irresponsible.
Where do you draw a line ??? "
Haven’t read the whole thread yet. But my first thoughts are why’s it ok to meet at your place of work if your an estate agent? Is this still not unprofessional? In fact even more so having sex in somebody’s home whom entrusted you with their keys? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I draw the line at having swinging meets at my work place or yours. (Except you are an estate agent) I think that is no longer kinky or naughty, just plain irresponsible.
Where do you draw a line ???
Haven’t read the whole thread yet. But my first thoughts are why’s it ok to meet at your place of work if your an estate agent? Is this still not unprofessional? In fact even more so having sex in somebody’s home whom entrusted you with their keys?"
The Porn industry is taking one on the chin for this. They reprogrammed me to think this way  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I play at other people’s work places. No one else around so not as if they’ll get in to trouble.
I prefer hotels as then I don’t have to clear up and it’s good to get out the house.
I draw the line at being asked to meet in the middle of the night by a stranger. Yes it happens often as I’m near an airport! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a Fab lady turn up at my house uninvited. Scary shit.  "
Same but it was a man, while I was a single mum, this dude, who I'd met socially previously, came to my house while I was cooking the tea....
Told him where to fucking go.
Fb |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having a Fab lady turn up at my house uninvited. Scary shit.
Same but it was a man, while I was a single mum, this dude, who I'd met socially previously, came to my house while I was cooking the tea....
Told him where to fucking go.
Fb"
I just don’t get people sometimes, that’s mental. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having a Fab lady turn up at my house uninvited. Scary shit.
Same but it was a man, while I was a single mum, this dude, who I'd met socially previously, came to my house while I was cooking the tea....
Told him where to fucking go.
Fb"
I would not know how to react to that but it will certainly not be good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having a Fab lady turn up at my house uninvited. Scary shit.
That’s bat shit crazy
Ya, I was like: “Er, hello.....”
Hotels ever since."
I think that’s a good decision. Picture her turning up to your work place lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't like to play at my house, one we have a child who comes first obviously. Two i dont want to share my bed, its mine and Mr's bed and to me it stays that way. Three for safety reasons of someone returning uninvited.
Bella x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't like to play at my house, one we have a child who comes first obviously. Two i dont want to share my bed, its mine and Mr's bed and to me it stays that way. Three for safety reasons of someone returning uninvited.
Bella x "
All valid points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly draw the line at strangers. Never meet anyone I havnt got to know first. We'd have to meet up before hand coffee/drink... if I get a good vibe all good if not.... see ya  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I certainly draw the line at strangers. Never meet anyone I havnt got to know first. We'd have to meet up before hand coffee/drink... if I get a good vibe all good if not.... see ya "
That’s a good measure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No hotels, no cars/outdoor spaces.
That’s quite normal. Might I ask why no hotels ? "
Single guys can accommodate, but when you’re married/gf and cheating it’s less easy to do. I don’t want to be part of anyone’s lies and betrayal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In a hotel that we're expected to pay for when both couples can quite easily travel or accommodate
Whats your thoughts if the guy offers to split the cost. I often feel like i should book the hotel but with no shows its a concern. Its different if itz someone ive met before though i guess"
I use the the website, Dayuse. You get discounted rates and you can pull out with financial penalty at short notice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's a huge amount of stuff that goes on on Fab that I'd draw a red line on now. But even the stuff I'm still curious to try... I don't really see the point of doing it with anyone other than someone I really like. So I'm almost red lined out of here 
But maybe I'll feel differently in a few weeks time when I'm desperate for a shag  |
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"But my first thoughts are why’s it ok to meet at your place of work if your an estate agent? Is this still not unprofessional? In fact even more so having sex in somebody’s home whom entrusted you with their keys?"
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought this! It’s ok to have sex in someone else’s house without their knowledge?! That’s surely worse than having sex with someone in their office with the door locked on their lunch break! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's agreed to split the cost and we're meeting at a halfway point due to excessive milage then fine.
But when it's within local(ish) distance and we're TOLD we will travel to the other couples town and we will be expected to pay for the hotel room despite us being able to accommodate is a no thanks for us.
People say "well maybe they can neither travel or accommodate" if they can travel to a hotel I'm pretty sure they can travel to our home that we are willing to host them in"
yes that does seem unreasonable, I don't care how far I travel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In a hotel that we're expected to pay for when both couples can quite easily travel or accommodate
Whats your thoughts if the guy offers to split the cost. I often feel like i should book the hotel but with no shows its a concern. Its different if itz someone ive met before though i guess
I use the the website, Dayuse. You get discounted rates and you can pull out with financial penalty at short notice"
just looked at dayuse and wowwwww. Where has this been all my life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No hotels, no cars/outdoor spaces.
That’s quite normal. Might I ask why no hotels ?
Single guys can accommodate, but when you’re married/gf and cheating it’s less easy to do. I don’t want to be part of anyone’s lies and betrayal. "
Well that’s not necessarily true. I couldn’t accommodate in the past when I lived with friends. Difficult explaining to your mates that you are having a threesome with couple in your bedroom. |
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