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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Because of *

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's a serious question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

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By *apstarMan over a year ago

Harpenden

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Drop ya age too 30 and I'll prove 2 you I'd be happy 2 be seen with you

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

I'm not a man

But I like women , and honestly it's more the person than the butt size that appeals

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By *ltGirl24Woman over a year ago

Redcar

I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time!

Just didn't read very well x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a serious question"

I just don't understand why you would ask something like that because that's suggesting only men that are desperate would consider going near a larger woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time!

Just didn't read very well x"

i understand that was i've been some very contentious threads about this recently so i don't understand why another 1 would be started.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a serious question"

You can see why this would be offensive to bigger women right?

It's down to what people like individually, what floats ones boat, won't float another's. What doesn't tickle one's pickle will tickle another's. I thought that was obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a serious question

I just don't understand why you would ask something like that because that's suggesting only men that are desperate would consider going near a larger woman. "

It’s something she is thinking out loud, what better place to ask than an (almost) anonymous multi media platform x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

Wales

There are folk who genuinely couldn’t give a flying fuck how big a person is, but you will always get some knobber who just tries to tell you what they think you want to hear in order to get their end away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time!

Just didn't read very well x"

Thanks gorgeous X

I was thinking out loud after too much wine and a cancelled meet because I feel shit about myself.

It was an honest question x

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

I genuinly like the look, I think as long as the woman is happy too!!!

Really am very much attracted too

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By *ain n MableWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I love fat birds, but it's a shame that when you're in bed you have to roll them in flour to find the wet spot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

I’m not offended in the slightest and i’m Fatter than Poca x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm one of those sad twats that values personality.

#notwhiteknighting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Oh of course, we all get like that.

Even slimmer women do. I know the guys get like that too sweet.

Honestly, don’t look on it as are you good enough for them, sod that! Are they good enough for you darlin x

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I think you have low self esteem.

You just need to find the right people....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love fat birds, but it's a shame that when you're in bed you have to roll them in flour to find the wet spot.

You’re obviously doing it wrong then sweetcheeks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

Pixie you look good!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Oh of course, we all get like that.

Even slimmer women do. I know the guys get like that too sweet.

Honestly, don’t look on it as are you good enough for them, sod that! Are they good enough for you darlin x "

Thanks lovely X

I think it's maybe time for me to have a

Fab break!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go into hiding or do what i’ve done and make yourself almost invisible xx

You’ll get there my lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pixie you look good!!

Thank you kindly *bows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess.

I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Being honest but I don't think Fab is the best place for anyone feeling insecure to the degree I sense you are.

It gets to us all like that occasionally I usually just hide my profile and take a break did do fairly recently as a spell of poor health as left me less active and the pounds went back on as a result, now I'm getting them off again I feel more like my old self

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X "

Really??? What is with people?

Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block.

There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them.

You do you and crack on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X

Really??? What is with people?

Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block.

There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them.

You do you and crack on

I guess I shouldn't have even entered the thread because I know it can be a bit like a red rag to a bull to me sometimes. of course I do that one it's private messages it's just some of the abuses come on the forums so like I said it's probably my own fault for entering the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

It's not just you women who have body confidence issues. Us men are just the same though most don't admit it.

Though I can only speak for myself. When I see a gorgeous,sexy and attractive woman I just see what I see. It bares no relevance to the size or shape you think you are. It is everything that is you. Body, mind and soul!! Beauty comes from within and follows from there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X

Really??? What is with people?

Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block.

There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them.

You do you and crack on

You should never feel like you can’t comment on a thread sweet, that’s absurd!

Feel like I need to start a thread about getting women’s confidence up.

You have great pics, your veris are good, I don’t think you have anything to doubt darlin x

Someone will always try n bring you down, women as well as men. Hold your head up cause you know you got this xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

It's not just you women who have body confidence issues. Us men are just the same though most don't admit it.

You Sir, win the t’internets today!

Couldnt have said it better myself.

It’s taken me a while to feel totally confident in myself, helped by a wonderful man friend.

But now i won’t let anyone drag me down x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't mean to offend

I was asking a question.

I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X

Really??? What is with people?

Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block.

There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them.

You do you and crack on

You should never feel like you can’t comment on a thread sweet, that’s absurd!

Feel like I need to start a thread about getting women’s confidence up.

You have great pics, your veris are good, I don’t think you have anything to doubt darlin x

Someone will always try n bring you down, women as well as men. Hold your head up cause you know you got this xx"

That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread.

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By *ldaCouple over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

But, and this is something I've commented on before, why are there never threads on how great fat blokes are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Some fellas on here would stick their willies in the crack of a pavement and hump it, so you should be O.K.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But, and this is something I've commented on before, why are there never threads on how great fat blokes are. "

But this wasn't a thread about how great fat women are!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"But, and this is something I've commented on before, why are there never threads on how great fat blokes are. "

There's loads, just search for BHM on the forum search.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both myself and boo are BBW lovers XX Mel is a beautiful big girl and I love everything about her x

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo.

I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that."

I did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that.

I did.

I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that.

I did.

I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes"

Not tolerating abuse or offensive comment does not make someone a snowflake!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love women of all shapes and sizes, I can’t explain it but I find women with a voluptuous figure more appealing outgoing and fun to be with, might just be the women I know, (bones for dogs meat for men).... sorry that might have been derogatory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that.

I did.

I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes"

You get reported for being a snowflake??

But your profile says easy going.... don’t get it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you kidding?

I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that.

I did.

I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes

You get reported for being a snowflake??

But your profile says easy going.... don’t get it

Sorry but I didn't laugh out loud to your post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size has never really been an issue for me. Sense of humour, confidence and the ability to engage in intelligent conversation are far more important. Chemistry, and whether or not we ‘click’ depends a lot on the above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo.

I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so. "

You have your partner.

And I fail to see how you're any bigger than me

I'm envious of you - you're gorgeous and kind and have someone that loves you.

Regardless of how fat you Are!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I love women of all shapes and sizes, I can’t explain it but I find women with a voluptuous figure more appealing outgoing and fun to be with, might just be the women I know, (bones for dogs meat for men).... sorry that might have been derogatory.

Your post is your opinion and you're entitled to it but your "bones for digs meat for men" comment is incredibly derogatory.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

*dogs

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo.

I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so.

You have your partner.

And I fail to see how you're any bigger than me

I'm envious of you - you're gorgeous and kind and have someone that loves you.

Regardless of how fat you Are!

Xx"

Bless you that's very kind.

I got him via my mind not my size, it fluctuates a lot.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

What I find incredible is that a woman makes a post on here which asks a simple question . The very same question so many women ask themselves on a daily basis . Then she gets grief for asking it by other women !

I applaud the op . For asking the question , for being so honest , for showing photos of herself that aren’t the result of hours of trying to show the most flattering shots . For simply having the gumption to ask the question that most women ask themselves .

And the answer is this .

There are plenty of me who wouldn’t be seen dead with a fat woman in public , but who will happily fuck them in private . And sometimes that’s ok as it’s just sex . But if anyone wants more than that , look for the guys who genuinely don’t care what size the lady is , and who would be proud to take them out . There are plenty of men like this too .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*dogs"

Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What I find incredible is that a woman makes a post on here which asks a simple question . The very same question so many women ask themselves on a daily basis . Then she gets grief for asking it by other women !

And the answer is this .

Deep

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"*dogs

Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs.

No need to apologise but its appreciated

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

And the answer is this .

This

don't just be used.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have read the post and personally if i find a woman attractive big or small i wouldn't care what anyone else thinks. I do prefer a nice big butt to be perfectly honest but if i click with the person and get on with them then it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*dogs

Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs.

No need to apologise but its appreciated

some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"*dogs

Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs.

No need to apologise but its appreciated

some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first

Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do.

Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser

in my case flaming old

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

My kind of man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*dogs

Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs.

No need to apologise but its appreciated

some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first

Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do.

Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser

in my case flaming old

Experienced not old

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"*dogs

Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs.

No need to apologise but its appreciated

some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first

Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do.

Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser

in my case flaming old

Experienced not old

. I'll take that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Great pics great figure far from fat from what I can see. But everyone has an opinion and people like and dislike what suits them the way I see it if someone doesn't want to be with me because of my size that's ok, that's their choice.

I'm fat but I am strong both physically and mentally. Go to the gym regularly, last very dead lofts love doing squats but I love my food. I have a Good job, raised a kid alone, own house and am happy with my life and one thing I've noticed as I have got older no matter what size you are, what sex you are etc people will like you or they won't.

So op don't worry about it keep your head up and wiggle that sassy ass

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By *edsguyMan over a year ago

south of Bedford

I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Xx"

Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. "

How about the term lady end of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim.

How about the term lady end of "

Tell that to the lady who started a thread on BBWs

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By *oul BrothaMan over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

The joke is, the OP isn’t even fat.

Men, just like women have preferences. Me personally, I love curvy women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. "

Wondered when you would find the thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Xx"

Hi there handsome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Known my luck they'd knock someone out

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve never felt like a chap was with me because I was the only thing available. I don’t see much of that attitude around.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Known my luck they'd knock someone out

One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce

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By *osmocoupleMan over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you look great OP. I'd love to have your figure (in more ways than one

) and no it's not the male talking. Lol.

I am not a fan of my figure..but I have found that a lot of guys really do genuinely prefer it. We just have to learn to embrace it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy a bbw so much more than a skinny Minnie,beauty is in the eye of the beholder and OP you look great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Known my luck they'd knock someone out

One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce

May have to try that tactic nothing else working

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm grateful to hump anything

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I’ve never felt like a chap was with me because I was the only thing available. I don’t see much of that attitude around. "

Likewise in relation to fab and "the real world"

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm grateful to hump anything"

Are you part staffy?

Mine lives of when the coffee table puts out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm grateful to hump anything

Are you part staffy?

Mine lives of when the coffee table puts out

No part Randy Jack Russell

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By *elloIntrigueMan over a year ago

North West UK

I find lots of things nice or attractive about women. I don't think I've ever thought of anyone as "any hole is a goal"

Confidence is a plus for me, so head up high OP and don't let any insecurities trip you up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Known my luck they'd knock someone out

One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce

May have to try that tactic nothing else working

Can't see why not. Looking good to me. Proberly the lull before the Storm. Either That or it's too cold to meet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set.

But now, I just enjoy it.

I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex.

I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol

BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs

I wish I could just get over myself!

I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss

Isheeeeeews!

Known my luck they'd knock someone out

One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce

May have to try that tactic nothing else working

Can't see why not. Looking good to me. Proberly the lull before the Storm. Either That or it's too cold to meet lol "

Irish men are dreadful lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sexiness is about how you carry yourself. So you have some big women who aren’t attractive but you have some who are the epitome of the acronym BBW. I’ve met BBW, and had some of the best sex of my life because they are gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Guys fuck me too so it really could be a goal thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not the size or shape for me, it’s the passion of the person inside. However, in my experience I had the most passionate sex with curvy ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is and you knew that before you hit post, so no point back tracking now.

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By *edsguyMan over a year ago

south of Bedford

Hi ya xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love BBW ladies

Skinny does nothing for me

Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim.

Wondered when you would find the thread

Took a while, but I’m here now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as I am attracted to the face and the personality (meaning she is not a wacko) I do not mind about her dress size

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I'll know it when I find it.

Hope you're feeling better today Op.

I always get the 'I'm fat' wobbles because, well, I am. But I try and remember that I'm still attractive - men might just want to fuck you (and you them!) but sometimes they don't give a toss about being seen with you in public and actively encourage it. They fancy you wobbles and all.

Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Your not fat u have a lovely figure wish I had your figure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

You have THE perfect body shape x

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Some fellas on here would stick their willies in the crack of a pavement and hump it, so you should be O.K.

WTF! Are you for real?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I love a dad bod!

The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope you're feeling better today Op.

Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x"

Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me.

I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment.

It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I love a dad bod!

The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy

I like a dad bod too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I love a dad bod!

The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy

I like a dad bod too

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find lots of things nice or attractive about women. I don't think I've ever thought of anyone as "any hole is a goal"

Confidence is a plus for me, so head up high OP and don't let any insecurities trip you up.

You're so right- confidence is attractive but I just haven't got any at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find lots of things nice or attractive about women. I don't think I've ever thought of anyone as "any hole is a goal"

Confidence is a plus for me, so head up high OP and don't let any insecurities trip you up.

You're so right- confidence is attractive but I just haven't got any at the moment

You look good and like I’ve said to you before your curves look great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have lovely curves and what I can see a pretty face,so would love to be seen out with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all feel like this sometimes. It's more about how we feel about ourselves than actually look. Sometimes a break does wonders. Take care of yourself x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx"

Ironing boards!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I disagree, there are many women like myself that prefer chunkier guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll meet any women regardless of size, as long as I’m attracted to them. I find curves attractive And so does a lot of folk. I wouldn’t be worried about the size you are you look lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m one of them but don’t feel entitled to speak for all men as we are all different - and so are women.

So just for me: a pretty face and a nice personality will always trump a body, no matter its shape or size.

PS: Poca, I’m still haven’t found where FuckMeHardVille is on the map. Would you give me a clue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

But you're not fat

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By *hortfuseWoman over a year ago

Belfast

Er.... You're not fat!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all about confidence regardless of size... men prefer a confident woman (confident in their size)than someone who's always adjusting clothing and looking in the mirror whether they're size 6 or size 26....you got to rock it girls and the guys just love it!!!

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By *RCADIAN HAZE TashaCouple over a year ago

Rotherham

Firstly ur not fat u (not that it would matter if u was)

Secondly what are you looking for from a meet? If you are just looking for a shag then to be fair find the fittest bloke u can and use them right back! If it's a good meet it could be a reg thing...don't want to be seen in public who cares ur to busy shagging

If you are looking for more than that wouldn't you meet in public first for a drink and stuff first then you would see how they act with you in public anyway and always safer to meet in public first anyway

But if ur confidence is really that low then forget meeting for now and work on how u are feeling because no meet will be a good meet if you don't feel good about urself x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

aint life great nearly every bbw post finds away of attacking slim women and nearly every slim post finds a way of attacking bbw but until the women stop slagging each other off then we have no chance of the guys doing so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all feel like this sometimes. It's more about how we feel about ourselves than actually look. Sometimes a break does wonders. Take care of yourself x "

Whole heartedly agree with this, most people at some point will feel like this regardless of their body type. I know I feel like you sometimes and I’m determined to do something about it. Have started eating healthier again which isn’t too hard my worst problem is fluid intake I struggle to drink enough water, set my self goals now that if I drink at least two litres a day that I will have a treat on Friday. It might not be a big treat but it’s something to strive for. Think positive if you can, there are some lovely men out there.

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By *inloveMan over a year ago

lincs

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I disagree, there are many women like myself that prefer chunkier guys"

Bring them to me pleeeease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx

Ironing boards!? "

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa

I disagree, there are many women like myself that prefer chunkier guys

Bring them to me pleeeease"

I don't actually know any others hunny, but they are out there somewhere

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx

Ironing boards!?

My thoughts exactly! "

Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

I personally wouldnt want to sleep with anyone I wouldnt be seen with...and why wouldnt I be seen with a bbw? They are people and most of the ones I have met are very nice people albeit with 'fat' issues cos they have been told for most of their lives that being fat is wrong and they are ugly stupid lazy and all the rest of the bollocks that ingnoramus twats spout about being bigger. Well I love bigger women and I'm proud and happy to be seen with one on my arm...proves I am able to cope with a real woman rather than a barbie doll. So fuck the ignoramuses and be loud and proud of who you are!

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By *napppaMan over a year ago

London

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Can't speak for all men, but yes, I like 'fat' women (though I must say, you wouldn't fall into the Fat category in my opinion).

What's more, your full body pics are my favourites of yours.

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By *racknell SexMan over a year ago

Bracknell

I think physicality can play a role in sexual compatibility.

And heck of a lot of women go on about loving a big fat cock. So, seemingly, more important to ladies than to men.

And this question is similar to - do you like big tits or little one's.

I love them all. In different ways. On different people. Sporting different looks. At different times. Lots of factors come in to play.

Tits are sexy. So are people.

Every dress size available is represented amoung most gorgeous, most fuckable, ladies in the world.

And yet ...now that I have a belly and moobs I fucking hate it. I really feel my life is over!

So yeah. I agree. Its definitely how you feel abut yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Speaking from experience:

I have had slim and big GF over the years .

Married to a BBW for 11 years - during that time she got more looks , chat ups and offers of sex than all the slim girls put together.

If she went away with her freinds - gym bunny middle class types - she got chatted up much more than them - by young fit guys

I discovered later I had freinds who positively lusted after her

Men like curves - its a basic , animal desire - hips and ass are class .

Skinnies might have fine legs but thats it - they feel like a bag of bones !

Just my opinion- but you asked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say it's more about confidence. I'm definitely a bbw and I'm confident in who I am and what I look like and that guys are attracted to me! That beimg said sometimes I definitely have moments of insecurity and hating what I'm looking at in the mirror, but then you just have to think of all the times someone has called you beautiful and genuinley meant it x

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By *osmocoupleMan over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would say it's more about confidence. I'm definitely a bbw and I'm confident in who I am and what I look like and that guys are attracted to me! That beimg said sometimes I definitely have moments of insecurity and hating what I'm looking at in the mirror, but then you just have to think of all the times someone has called you beautiful and genuinley meant it x "

You are gorgeous hunni xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are gorgeous hunni xx"

Thank you my lovely xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Hope you're feeling better today Op.

Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x

Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me.

I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment.

It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it

I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that.

You are beautiful. Ms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

I have no problem with larger ladies. Have no problem being seen in public with larger ladies. Lets make a date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone’s attractiveness isn’t based on one physical attribute. It is true that someone’s attractiveness does change with their weight. The bigger a person gets the fewer people will find them attractive.

With that in mind, if you are perceived as less attractive to a greater number of people this effectively cuts your choice of perspective partners.

Eventually you will reach a point where the only people who find you attractive are people who no one else finds attractive, and indeed they may not even find you attractive but have a choice settle or remain celibate.

There is also the possibility that a perspective partner of greater attractiveness selects a less attractive partner knowing that they are at a disadvantage. I have seen this happen, to both males and females.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some men do actually have the ' any hole is a goal' mentality. By his own admission my ex was one of them but i think it is unfair to ask if this is the sole reason why men meet the more fuller figured lady. If men genuinely disliked this demographic and only viewed them as holes within which to pleadure themselves, every BBW in the world would be single!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not all about being fat, there are other attributes a man might make a selection on.

These days the fuller figured lady is actually the norm, slim people men and women will one day be considered a fetish because they will be so uncommon.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Besides, you could look like Meghan Fox, but by virtue of being on Fab there are men who wouldn't be seen dead with you.

You only have to read certain threads. There are men, who will happily fuck a gorgeous married women but have no respect for the couples and would never share!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nowt wrong with curves lady’s

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope you're feeling better today Op.

Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x

Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me.

I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment.

It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it

I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that.

You are beautiful. Ms"

Aw thankyou - I don't feel it.

I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence.

But I just don't know where to start.

I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again.

Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy.

I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Hope you're feeling better today Op.

Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x

Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me.

I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment.

It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it

I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that.

You are beautiful. Ms

Aw thankyou - I don't feel it.

I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence.

But I just don't know where to start.

I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again.

Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy.

I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am.

That person has got to be you. Once you like yourself you will stop thinking everyone else dislikes you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx

Ironing boards!?

My thoughts exactly!

Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down.

Absolutely! They obviously don't get called out on it enough to keep repeating it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx

Ironing boards!?

My thoughts exactly!

Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down.

Absolutely! They obviously don't get called out on it enough to keep repeating it

Ironing boards... damn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time!

Just didn't read very well x"

Agreed. I will add there is nothing more powerful than loving yourself. Beauty truly does come from within. Always be yourself and proud. Going to release a new tag...

#OwnIt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aw thankyou - I don't feel it.

I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence.

But I just don't know where to start.

I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again.

Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy.

I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am.

YOU.

ARE.

NOT.

FAT.

And fuck those who say so

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By *rzambiqueMan over a year ago

Edmonton

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

I find you are actually the ideal woman I'm looking for on fabs. I genuinely love everything I've seen x im not saying that because I'm cuddly myself. It's because I am attracted to women like you

I would love to get to know you anyday x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of you females that say you are fat are actually a normal shape

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By *redjMan over a year ago

gloucestershire

Ever heard the phrase “big is beautiful” well there are actually some of us that believe it !! And OP be confident

you have a lot of things in your favour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a curvy woman. I love someone I can play with without worry of breaking them. Bigger is more beautiful. Can’t get enough of you buxom beauties xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

Can I say something...

I'm a little confused over the low self esteem issue, when you have a clear picture of yourself fully nude

I know as a larger lady with a muffin top belly. I'd never have the bottle to take a picture in that way! Surely right now, it's just how you're feeling at this moment in time (low point) and it usually passes....

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By *sm81Couple over a year ago

warwickshire

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

This is how I feel when people want to meet too

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By *CheshireMaleMan over a year ago

Middlewich

mmm cant beat a sexy BBW, love you ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to look at it this way. If you owned a Ferrari would you rather drive it up and down a motorway, or take it on this countries twisty turny curvy B roads using the gear box and steering to it’s full potential.

I thought so!!!

curves are the way forward xxxxx

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By *osmocoupleMan over a year ago

East Sussex

Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

Hugs and happy birthday

Damn shame we not closer no way would we stand you guys up x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rally like and appreciate a nice bbw lady. I seen for time that bbw turn me one more quickly.

I recommend you be happy about who you are hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

I've had that happen, whatever their reason was...

I always have a plan B now x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

It's not nice for anybody to get stood up.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

I can imagine that could knock anyones confidence

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By *osmocoupleMan over a year ago

East Sussex

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

I can imagine that could knock anyones confidence "

Yes sat waiting in the pub for an hour on my own. Still looking for a younger guy to join us at pleasures tomorrow...nobody seems interested. I'm beginning to wonder why I bother

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By *elloIntrigueMan over a year ago

North West UK

Sending good thoughts and a smile the OP's way as its been a few days since my last messages on this thread.

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Everyone is different and has differing tastes and fantasies

Large or small or somewhere in between we all have something someone else is attracted to

Don’t winge about it get out there and find them and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aftter looking at your pics, I’d be happy and show off walking down the street and would love to go into a club with you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

You look so goddam delicious. To answer your questions yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attention seeking. I feel sad for you x

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence.

But I just don't know where to start.

I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again.

Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy.

I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am.

Read that back. It says your happiness is not dependent on your weight. That's the way it should be. I try and control my weight for health reasons, and deal with my self-confidence issues separately.

Easier said than done. But next time you're having a good day a) take more pics

b) message the guy you cancelled on and reschedule...

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

You're part of a couple, you have all your mother gave you on show on a sex site, you have over 100 verifications...I don't lack confidence but would not pose as you do, so I'm not understanding your comment if I'm honest. Disappointment at missing out on a birthday treat - that I get, but confidence denting?!!

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By *osmocoupleMan over a year ago

East Sussex

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

Just because I have pictures that show my figure doesn't mean I don't have confidence issues.

And it's hard to take it personally when you get stood up. Obviously he didn't want a social

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

"Men

Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal?

Would you be seen with us in public?

I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive.

I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious.

Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji )

I proudly take out my BBW partners in public, make out with them, show the world I adore them.

Love your curves. I'd adore them.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too

Just because I have pictures that show my figure doesn't mean I don't have confidence issues.

And it's hard to take it personally when you get stood up. Obviously he didn't want a social

My point is, why would you automatically assume it's because of your size? You have full, clear, pictures. Earlier in this thread I posted that for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know.

You're right.

It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Positive attracts positive , i’ve taken my time to read though this post and wow....

Please never let another persons actions or views dim the light on who you are.

If you continue to think negative , nothing will get better.

Stop thinking negative about yourself and if you do have meets in the future. Have a few public socials to get the vibe of the person.

When I think about it , I’ve found women from all different body shapes attractive and I’ve then had dates in public.

My mind set wasn’t every hole is a goal , I just had an attraction and wanted to find out more.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know.

You're right.

It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret.

It really is down to how you choose to look at things.

I prefer to keep my Fab life separate from my home/family life. I therefore wouldn't see myself/playmates as a "dirty secret" - just part of my private life. We are all different, and it's not for me to tell people how they should feel, but who do you think has a happier frame of mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know.

You're right.

It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret.

It really is down to how you choose to look at things.

I don't have a family so we probably see things differently

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By *olexMan over a year ago

Hull

Some of my favourite partners have been larger ladies. Both in Fab life & real life. If i like someone, i like someone. Size is unimportant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll relate to this but from an older woman prospective. I like younger guys. If they will not meet in public for a drink first, we aint meeting end of. An absolute rule I have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly this thread has confused me....

You declined a meet because you’re feeling self conscious about how you look....

But the guy you were meeting saw your pics , like what he saw and wanted to meet.....

By no fault of his own he has gotten blown off...

So what did he do wrong?

What can he change about himself to finally get to meet you?

You’re one of my favorite posters, but I can’t co sign your actions....

You really just wasted this guys time....

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