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Getting wife involved.advice please
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During sex my wife is up for arranging to meet another hung guy for mmf or a couple for fun but doesn't mention it again until we have sex again.is she hinting at sorting this or just fantasising?I have asked her wen not havin sex and she blows hot and cold.she comes on fab with me and looks at profiles and is instantly horny.don't wanna pressure her either.thoughts please |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I think it is just a fantasy for her, at least at this moment in time. I have known people with similar situations, getting very excited when they are turned on about stuff they never actually really want to do, they enjoy as fantasy.
In fact there are a few things I fantasise about... But I definitely do not want to actually do. |
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Been asked the question many times "how did u start", always watched porno's, mrs said one night as we were having a drink, y u watch that shit paid models making noises, so i sat her down and showed her a home made foursome movie, a few more films and a few more drinks, get my card we r joining a site got her chatting to guys and couples, it was a buzz, a few weeks later she agred to meet a guy, so got her loads of pics of guys picked one we both liked, that was 9 yrs ago lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s probably just a fantasy and she enjoys talking about while having sex because it probably helps her to orgasm, my ex wife always enjoyed by saying to her would you like a guy to join us so you can feel another mans cock deep inside you and the sex was great and she would orgasm every time, but when I asked her about arranging someone to join us she would always say it’s a fantasy and will stay a fantasy, it was only when we separated after a long marriage I decided to start swinging and to help other hubbies to watch me with their wives so they can enjoy another guy joining them for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"U think.maybe I should and see does she mention it again.wud be such a turn on tho"
Personally I can't think of anything more tedious than a partner constantly harping on about something I'm not particularly keen on. Lots of people fantasise about things without having any desire to actually do them, also your wife may have reservations about how it may affect your relationship. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Being very clear is always helpful in this lifestyle to make sure everyone’s happy.
Could always go to a club so you’d be amongst it all, but very easy just to stick to each other if she’s not 100% to start with. See how that goes and how she feels about the whole thing after. We don’t play at a club every time so it doesn’t have to be something that’s odd.
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