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By *r Oreo OP Man
over a year ago
Croydon |
just wondered if anyone was at abfabs on sat night as there seemed (well to us ...) a fair few working gurls there.
Was our first time there on a sat night and that rather surprised me.
Potentially this is me being naive. |
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By *r Oreo OP Man
over a year ago
Croydon |
agreed!!
And they were with whoever had brought them there for the duration of the evening not walking about er 'touting'!
Have no problem with it - and guess its cheaper then a hotel room for a few hours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres lots of clubs now that have paid women there, some clubs will advertise it some will try to hide it
At the end of the day you dont have to play with anyone you dont want to if you have a 'bad' feeling about someone stay clear of them |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
harrow |
I think Abfabs would be rightly offended by the suggestion. Who brings whom as a partner is entirely between the couple.
I was there early in Jan and there were some gorgeous girls in outrageous costumes for the night. They were with partners and just having fun.
Perhaps I walk around with my eyes closed, but I don't think I have ever been to any club on a regular members night when I have thought there were people paid to attend.
Its a different matter when a club is taken over by a group for a private party. Then I think they will have paid girls to be there in order to encourage attendance by more men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok stupid question time...
We're curious. If the girl/girls stayed with whomever they arrived with all night how do you know they were working girls?"
Glad you asked as I was thinking the same. We attend abfabs at least once if not twice a month and would never know if there was working girls there or not. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion "
I honestly don't see much of a difference really other than one gets paid for it and the other dose not.. though I have read many a womans profile that has stated something along the lines of "take me out for a nice meal then back for fun" , that's paying for the sex to, though in shape of being treated out.
Either way, you're shagging total strangers in a club, just some may get paid by the club owners. |
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As long as the working girl didn't expect any money from us then I'd have no problems playing him her and her "partner". What she does to earn her money has little importance to me, car mechanic, air hostess, hooker or hairdresser it doesn't matter as long as she's polite.
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion
I honestly don't see much of a difference really other than one gets paid for it and the other dose
not.. though I have read many a womans profile that has stated something along the lines of "take me out for a nice meal then back for fun" , that's paying for the sex to, though in shape of being treated out.
Either way, you're shagging total strangers in a club, just some may get paid by the club owners."
That's just me, I don't want to play with someone who is being payed by the owner of a club to play with ppl, it's no the shaging a stranger, it's I don't want or need ppl to pay other people to shag me lol. Each to there own but I rather not x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to work there and the owners would never pay for working girls to attend. If they did attend then they were brought by someone, not paid for by the club x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as the working girl didn't expect any money from us then I'd have no problems playing him her and her "partner". What she does to earn her money has little importance to me, car mechanic, air hostess, hooker or hairdresser it doesn't matter as long as she's polite.
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"As long as the working girl didn't expect any money from us then I'd have no problems playing him her and her "partner". What she does to earn her money has little importance to me, car mechanic, air hostess, hooker or hairdresser it doesn't matter as long as she's polite.
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Just a question.... what if your entrance fee was in part being handed over by the club to pay her?
I know that is not what is being implied, I am just curious. |
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By *r Oreo OP Man
over a year ago
Croydon |
Just to clarify... i am in no way sugesting that the girls were paid for by abfabs!!!! god no!!!!
They were there with their gents... i know of other clubs who do pay for 'help' on greedy girls nights, but i so cant ever see abfabs doing that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to work there and the owners would never pay for working girls to attend. If they did attend then they were brought by someone, not paid for by the club x"
100% agree with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to work there and the owners would never pay for working girls to attend. If they did attend then they were brought by someone, not paid for by the club x
100% agree with you "
Hey Zena, hope you are well. Have to catch up some time in the summer xxx |
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"Just to clarify... i am in no way sugesting that the girls were paid for by abfabs!!!! god no!!!!
They were there with their gents... i know of other clubs who do pay for 'help' on greedy girls nights, but i so cant ever see abfabs doing that."
bloody hell...my dream job...where do i apply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion
I honestly don't see much of a difference really other than one gets paid for it and the other dose
not.. though I have read many a womans profile that has stated something along the lines of "take me out for a nice meal then back for fun" , that's paying for the sex to, though in shape of being treated out.
Either way, you're shagging total strangers in a club, just some may get paid by the club owners.
That's just me, I don't want to play with someone who is being payed by the owner of a club to play with ppl, it's no the shaging a stranger, it's I don't want or need ppl to pay other people to shag me lol. Each to there own but I rather not x"
but you always have the choice, all because some clubs do put on women that does not mean you have to have sex with them, at least in clubs where they lay on women it takes the pressure off the customers not to have single guys following you around all night
How many times have you read on here woman moaning on about guys in clubs, follwing them about, not leaving them alone? you go to a club where they put on women and all these guys are going to be playing with them leaving you to walk around un hasstled and choice who you want to play with at your own leasure without having 3 guys touching you up every time you stand still, leave your couples to the other couples ot have time alone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to clarify... i am in no way sugesting that the girls were paid for by abfabs!!!! god no!!!!
They were there with their gents... i know of other clubs who do pay for 'help' on greedy girls nights, but i so cant ever see abfabs doing that."
They may have been they may not have been only the club will know that, but there are lots of clubs now days that pay a couple of women to go in on singles night to cater for the men and told to keep it quiet as the club dont want people to know they are doing this, i could reel you off a hand full right now
at the end of the day if paying a couple of women a couple of hundred pounds each attracts 10+ more men the clubs on a winner and at the end of the day swinging clubs are a buisness |
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"Just to clarify... i am in no way sugesting that the girls were paid for by abfabs!!!! god no!!!!
They were there with their gents... i know of other clubs who do pay for 'help' on greedy girls nights, but i so cant ever see abfabs doing that.
bloody hell...my dream job...where do i apply "
Mine too so I couldn't believe it when they were asking for hosts only a few weeks ago, unfortunately I didn't read the email for a few days and hence I was too late.........damn it!  |
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion "
Fa real fa real. |
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Knowing this club pretty well, we can say they do NOT employ girls of this type.
There are only a couple of clubs that do this in the UK and ADFABS is NOT one of them. There are also a few clubs that are known to have working girls using the premises, not with the consent of the club, but the clubs are aware of it, ADFABS is also NOT one of these.
The suggestion seems to be more that working professionals were hired by single men to go to the club with them for the evening. This is very common on the scene and nothing new at all. |
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"Just to clarify... i am in no way sugesting that the girls were paid for by abfabs!!!! god no!!!!
They were there with their gents... i know of other clubs who do pay for 'help' on greedy girls nights, but i so cant ever see abfabs doing that.
They may have been they may not have been only the club will know that, but there are lots of clubs now days that pay a couple of women to go in on singles night to cater for the men and told to keep it quiet as the club dont want people to know they are doing this, i could reel you off a hand full right now
at the end of the day if paying a couple of women a couple of hundred pounds each attracts 10+ more men the clubs on a winner and at the end of the day swinging clubs are a buisness"
paid women does not make it a swinging club....
I mean come on...its prostitution and I'm sure that if a complaint was lodged the owners would loose their reason for trading and it also gives a false impression of how the club operates or how popular it is...monies may not be being passed directly from members to the girls but discretely by owners to them and again this cant come under the description of being a swingers club?
yes you dont have to 'play' with them but as someone else has said you go along with the hope that you will play with people who want to play with you because the find you attractive be that through conversation or what ever other means of attraction. |
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So how much do thay pay ? I am sure alot dont go with loads of money to clubs ... you never know if safe to have alot of cash with you at swingers clubs . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean come on...its prostitution and I'm sure that if a complaint was lodged the owners would loose their reason for trading and it also gives a false impression of how the club operates or how popular it is...monies may not be being passed directly from members to the girls but discretely by owners to them and again this cant come under the description of being a swingers club?
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and thats why a lot of clubs do not advertise that fact they put women on
Xtasia for one, i know for a fact they put on women on a friday night to attract the number of single guys to go but you ask them, as some have and they will deny it till the death and say they are just customers, and xtasia isnt the only club that does this
Like it or not it happens it seems the way clubs are going now days, single guys keep these clubs going as they pay the most money so it pays clubs to cater for them to keep them coming back
Not saying its right or wrong, or if its swinging or not just stating a fact that it happens, clubs have greater competition that ever with swinging be so popular now days and clubs opening all over they need something to attract people and as i have said before its a business and lets face it if theres two clubs near to you and you pay to get on one and know your going to get sex or go in another and just have couples moaning about single guys all night i know which most guys will go back to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion
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what about escorts that go to clubs in their own time, i mean when not working but just going for fun, how do people feel about that or would you still not want to play with her knowing shes a hooker? |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business 
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
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do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .  |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see . "
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday"
wow I really must start wearing my glasses |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
closer than you think |
"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday
wow I really must start wearing my glasses "
haha you said the other day you were as blind as a bat without them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday
wow I really must start wearing my glasses
haha you said the other day you were as blind as a bat without them lol "
sshhhh  I am but its only suppose to be for close up |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
closer than you think |
"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday
wow I really must start wearing my glasses
haha you said the other day you were as blind as a bat without them lol
sshhhh I am but its only suppose to be for close up "
secrets safe with me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone wishes to pay for someones company to enable them to go to a swingers club then I cannot see the problem as long as the "paid" half of the couple is not touting for business
It is pretty obvious who these "couples" are - well it is to me lol
do they go on a Friday then Zen or is it Im too blind to see .
seen them on a Wednesday/Friday and Saturday
wow I really must start wearing my glasses
haha you said the other day you were as blind as a bat without them lol
sshhhh I am but its only suppose to be for close up
secrets safe with me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Knowing this club pretty well, we can say they do NOT employ girls of this type.
There are only a couple of clubs that do this in the UK and ADFABS is NOT one of them. There are also a few clubs that are known to have working girls using the premises, not with the consent of the club, but the clubs are aware of it, ADFABS is also NOT one of these.
The suggestion seems to be more that working professionals were hired by single men to go to the club with them for the evening. This is very common on the scene and nothing new at all. "
Agree on this one.
Back last year spotted a couple of guys walking round with 2 girls.
Watched them play in the caged bit but the girls just laied there with their eyes closed while the blokes were on top of them. No flicker of enjoyment at all.
Then on another night hubbie walked out of the dark room with the lady he was playing with(i was still in there busy) and was jumped on by part of a fantasc looking couple we were watching earlier.
Was told this bloke would sort his fantasies out for him and gave hubbie his web site.
So no i dont think Fabs hire people they just come.
My dream job tooo.
Off to fabs this sat if anyone wants to join up xxx  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion
what about escorts that go to clubs in their own time, i mean when not working but just going for
fun, how do people feel about that or would you still not want to play with her knowing shes a hooker?"
O:-
If they are going not working and as there free time on a night out, they are entitled to do so like any of us and I have no problem with that, but personally no we would not play with them. Nothing against hookers I have a friend who is a Escort, just cause I like her don't mean I wanna shag her lol x |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
First off all......i am a clubbe
There has been numerous occasions where I would say there has been a working girl and a partner in a club.
Normaly this is an older gent with a 20 year old girl. When I mean older gent like 60. For me this is either a suger daddy or a working girl.
For me if I had a choice I would not play with them. I would prefer they wasn't in club but it's not my club |
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If we had a choice we would rather there weren't people in a club cheating on their partner or spouse either, as we don't believe that is swinging, but hey ho... we don't get to choose who goes to a club.
We do choose who we play with though.
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Would like to point out that there are women men and couples on here who meet for free, that also have a well known escort website profile. So yes they obviously like shagging strangers and wouldn't mind making some money whilst doing so.
Swinging is a broad term and can't simply be narrowed down to a specific action. Some say shagging a girl who is being paid isn't swinging. "0 men shagging that same girl is certainly a GB. GB is a swinging activity right? |
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"I think it's wrong, I go to have fun with swingers not hookers, and if we was looking for a single lady to play with and a working girl said she wanted to play, but didn't tell us she was a working girl I would be well pissed off if I then found out. Swingers clubs are NOT the place for hookers. Just my opinion
what about escorts that go to clubs in their own time, i mean when not working but just going for
fun, how do people feel about that or would you still not want to play with her knowing shes a hooker? O:-
If they are going not working and as there free time on a night out, they are entitled to do so like any of us and I have no problem with that, but personally no we would not play with them. Nothing against hookers I have a friend who is a Escort, just cause I like her don't mean I wanna shag her lol x"
Yeah but I might want to. Whats her name
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By (user no longer on site)
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Normaly this is an older gent with a 20 year old girl. When I mean older gent like 60. For me this is either a suger daddy or a working girl.
For me if I had a choice I would not play with them. I would prefer they wasn't in club but it's not my club"
What's wrong with that, you've heard of cougars with 18 year old lads... I call that equality ?
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ps. If I can pull 20 somethings at 60 purely on the merit of me bald head and bus pass I will consider myself to be not doing too badly at all |
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What a fab idea, I wouldn't mind that job, I am no problem what so ever about people getting paid for sex, it does disturb me a little if the girls are in no way enjoying it and a comment above regarding the girls laying there with there eyes shut is sad. There is many men I have talked to which have asked for things from payment so I can completely believe there are women who are been paid to go with the man, nothing to do with the club.
I don't have much to complain about if the clubs did pay for girls to be around there still have the choice who to meet it's not as if there saying right you have to meet x,y,z and have sex 6 times a night |
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