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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone ever browsed or been serching profiles and recognised any friends/ family or neighbours on fab or any other swing sites? It amazes me the amount of people posting pics with there face blocked out but you can still see tatoos or the bedroom or any part of there house which can be recognised by people who know them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! I've recognised a few people, but the question is do you let them know lol. I personally just pass them by, mind you I've sent a pic and the other person has recognised me! I always blurt out anything recognisable in my pics, especially the background. |
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I've never recognised anyone but just in the past few days had a couple of messages on POF asking if I'm on fab. I have to say I don't like it when they message me on another website. Just message on here if you feel the need to ask.   |
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Got chatting late one night to a lady ...
Had a giggle and I asked for a pic ..
I recognised her straight away as a lady ( married) who lives about 50 yards further down my small housing estate ..
I didn’t say I recognised her , I just said you’re not for me sorry.. |
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I'm actually a little surprised I've not seen anyone I know considering how this is one of those towns where you always see someone you know on a night out. But at the same time I'm not surprised because one of the reasons I'm on Fab is that my friends who live nearby are all too busy being vanilla and raising small kids at the moment, hence me using a website to find new people. |
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"I've never recognised anyone but just in the past few days had a couple of messages on POF asking if I'm on fab. I have to say I don't like it when they message me on another website. Just message on here if you feel the need to ask. "
Wow. That seems like a strange thing to do; maybe your Fabfilter is stopping them from contacting you on here?
Also it would put me on the defensive straight away unless they were very cool and open about it. |
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This only happened to us last week, we arranged a meet with a guy (23) for outdoor sex and when we got there he was the son of our friends lol and yes I still fucked him  and told him to be quiet about it, I am meeting him again Tuesday lol |
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We have been recognised by a couple we met at a vanilla event, had no idea they were swingers, or them us until they saw our profile. They sent us a message asking if it really was us and did they mind the contact. We didn't mind! We haven't played as they are much younger than us, but it shows you never can tell who swings. |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
I've recognised a guy who is married to a friend of my daughters. He says on here that he's single but obviously he's not.
Also seen a couples profile and the female half works with me.
Neither have any idea that I know (or at least I think they don't know). Both have been blocked, what happens on fab stays on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine were 2 fems who i lived near in my village.
Another 2 guys who used to work at same company, both turned out were bi.
Another guy friend of a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Living in a largely rural county, the chances of me coming accross anyone I know is fairly remote to be honest. But of course, IF it did happen, I would be very descrete about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 5 guys in the last couple of years all that we know and all of them was bi and playing behind the wife's back we don't not meet them as we do not help people cheat just block and move on |
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We had a message and face pic of one of our daughters school friends dad who was quite often in our house when he came to pick her up. I politely said not for me and blocked him. He had no way of knowing it who we were....Awkward lol !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No thankfully!
I always try to blur my backgrounds and block out anything that would give me away. I don't do face pics either until a connection and some trust is established.
I've got my location set to around 40 miles away from where I live too as I was seeing too many familiar places in my messages on my previous account  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hot wife couple who live down the road are on here,they've looked at my profile so I'm shure they know its me. I've not messaged them as looking at their verifications I'm well out of their league. I occasionally see them when out & do chat,but neither of us has mentioned fabs or swinging...yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognised my manager form work claiming he was single (his wife works for the same company) i didnt say anything to him untill he refused my holiday request then asked if his wife knew he was on fab, he gave me my holiday and didnt even take it off my holiday allownce  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have two facebook friends I have cone across, we have all seen each other and find it amusing. Not bothered who knows I am on here, I have no shame, life is too short  |
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"My husband spotted his cousin on here once, she was using the same profile pic here as she was using on Facebook!
What did he do ?"
Nothing! Just blocked and moved on. I was tempted to make a new profile to message her anonymously on just to advise her not to use the same pics on here and Facebook and sign off from 'Anonymous family member' but I didn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have but I’d never message them or acknowledge that I know they’re on Fab if I see them out and about. I’d like to think everyone would be discrete."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my wee cousin msgd me, and eventually I told him who I was, he sent me a face pic only! thank gawd  but we had a great laugh about it, but had to stop posting tit pics!! but I've recognised loads because of my job, and have been recognised 3 time's so far, that I know of anyways.... |
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I've had a few.
I met a guy who lived local to me after we had our fun he stayed for a drink. He asked about one of my pictures because it had his house in the background... log story short him & his wife live 3 doors away from my dad.
As everyone else has said "what happens on Fab stays on Fab" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few people I know that I've recognised from fab. Likewise I've spoke to a few that recognise me .. Well I do have my face picture showing on a lot of my pics . We have a right laugh about it and it's so nice to talk with like minded people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have seen Ethan’s brother and he’s wife on here, a few times. Wouldn’t bring it up unless they do.
I’ve been seen by people I went to school with, doesn’t bother me as we are all here for sex. Kind of a turn on actually xx |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
Someone on Fab outed me at my work.
My profile pic at the time was wearing stocking and suspenders beneath a big coat taken on a Glasgow street on Boxing Day.
Well, like all stories it went a bit corrupt. I was doing a strip tease at a swingers club in Glasgow.
Someone found some reasonably sensible pics on another website I had forgotten all about, and the link was being emailed around.
A colleague alerted me. I was ever so grateful.
The IT department offered to block the link. I just removed the pics rather than make a fuss.
After a while, I just shrugged my shoulders.
"The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about"
- Oscar Wilde
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah 2 of my female mates are on here, recognised them straight away.
Not said nothing to them tho, I am 100% discreet and I wouldn't expect somebody to rumble me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My brothers ex wife and her new man are on here....lol.... I'd recognise that rear and pussy anywhere...  needless to say.... what is on here...stays on here"
You’d recognise your brother’s ex-wife’s pussy? No wonder she’s his ex!  |
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I seen somebody I recognised off here Saturday, I didn't speak to them or say anything as in my opinion we're entitled to the privacy of fab and I'd hope people gave me that respect back if they recognised me. My real world and fab life stay very seperate |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
I’ve recognised a senior executive who works in close proximity to where I work (not my boss though) and I’ve played with him. I’ve also exchanged XXX pictures with one of my casual line managers (female) even though nothing sexual has happened between us; we still separate work and social stuff without any issues. |
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By *rossMan
over a year ago
Everywhere |
Saw a girl that I'd chatted with on here in the local supermarket, with her husband!! Had no idea! Wanted to suggestively wave a cucumber at her but he already looked grumpy lol
What goes on fab stays on fab IMO |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
"My brothers ex wife and her new man are on here....lol.... I'd recognise that rear and pussy anywhere... needless to say.... what is on here...stays on here
You’d recognise your brother’s ex-wife’s pussy? No wonder she’s his ex! "
Ah...I used to take her out on driving lessons... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever browsed or been serching profiles and recognised any friends/ family or neighbours on fab or any other swing sites? It amazes me the amount of people posting pics with there face blocked out but you can still see tatoos or the bedroom or any part of there house which can be recognised by people who know them. "
Ive seen people but never ever approach them off fab to ask them about it.
Its crazy rude to even consider it in my eyes. Only of you do it on here you have to send a face pic and not do it all covertly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone ever browsed or been serching profiles and recognised any friends/ family or neighbours on fab or any other swing sites? It amazes me the amount of people posting pics with there face blocked out but you can still see tatoos or the bedroom or any part of there house which can be recognised by people who know them.
Ive seen people but never ever approach them off fab to ask them about it.
Its crazy rude to even consider it in my eyes. Only of you do it on here you have to send a face pic and not do it all covertly."
Absolutely this!
Nothing more creepy than someone messaging "I know you" and not disclosing who they are. Blocked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This only happened to us last week, we arranged a meet with a guy (23) for outdoor sex and when we got there he was the son of our friends lol and yes I still fucked him and told him to be quiet about it, I am meeting him again Tuesday lol "
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I spotted an acquaintance here the other day. Full face pic though so I guess they're not overly fussed.
Somebody messaged me a while back and said they knew me at work but they wouldn't say who they were.
Amazingly they seemed a bit surprised when I said I found that downright creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A neighbour messages us once. He had no idea who we are so we blocked and have said nothing - he did once tell another friend that he has a massive cock and he wasn’t lying. |
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I once went on a date with a girl of POF. She was a pain in the arse, looked nowt like her photos and I didn't arrange a second date.
Recently saw her on here using the same misleading photos... I'd probably have met her again if I thought she was up for no-strings fun... |
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We have seen a woman who lives up the road and looking at her you would never think she would do half the stuff spoke about in her veris and also a friend from facebook is on here but she doesn't know we know her but we have spoke to her quite a few times over the months and still do chat to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognised one of the ladies who worked at my place. Although faces blocked and stuff blurred she had a tattoo I recognised. She was single and so was I so I messaged in Fab. Met a few times and was able to keep fab life very separate from work life. In fact, most people at work thought we didn't like each other! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep a few times but nothing come from it!
Who? Xx"
A girl i went to school with, another girl that i know from the pubs and clubs,i love the excitement of knowing someone and keeping a secret between you both x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yes it turns me on so much! Wish someone recognised me xx
You look a little bit like a girl i know from the gym actually haha x
Wish I recognised you big boy!! Lol xx"
If only you was closer |
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"Oh yes it turns me on so much! Wish someone recognised me xx
You look a little bit like a girl i know from the gym actually haha x
Wish I recognised you big boy!! Lol xx
If only you was closer "
That should be on my face xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yes it turns me on so much! Wish someone recognised me xx
You look a little bit like a girl i know from the gym actually haha x
Wish I recognised you big boy!! Lol xx
If only you was closer
That should be on my face xx"
Message me if you fancy a chat |
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"Oh yes it turns me on so much! Wish someone recognised me xx
You look a little bit like a girl i know from the gym actually haha x
Wish I recognised you big boy!! Lol xx
If only you was closer
That should be on my face xx
Message me if you fancy a chat "
You message me! He he xx |
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One of our neighbours who is literally a couple of doors away, over a dozen fellow members of various gyms we use and members of staff not forgetting several friends.
Only one, from what we know, so far recognised or sussed it was us, who will be joining us soon for some fun, the rest haven't mentioned anything...yet, what goes on fab stays on fab as far as we are concerned and are all here for more or less same reason....a cup of tea and slice of cake aunt Sally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's 2 people I have spotted. 1 is blocked and the other is on my hotlist 
Ooh who’s that? Xx"
Ah, that's something I shall keep quiet;) sadly photos aren't on show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spotted a lady I used to work with (or rather I failed to recognise her and she spelled it out for me when I messaged her).
I'm about 60% sure I spotted my cousin. Face was cropped off, but the chin looked very familiar!
I was recognised by a friend of someone I work with. I'm hoping she kept her word and didn't tell my colleague... |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
Clacton-On-Sea, Essex |
I just don't care ?? our faces are shown and we both work in town center lots of people have recognised and approached me on nights out etc
Means nothing to me personally I'm a bit of an open book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever browsed or been serching profiles and recognised any friends/ family or neighbours on fab or any other swing sites? It amazes me the amount of people posting pics with there face blocked out but you can still see tatoos or the bedroom or any part of there house which can be recognised by people who know them.
Ive seen people but never ever approach them off fab to ask them about it.
Its crazy rude to even consider it in my eyes. Only of you do it on here you have to send a face pic and not do it all covertly.
Absolutely this!
Nothing more creepy than someone messaging "I know you" and not disclosing who they are. Blocked!"
I have had this happen to me pin up pro x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone ever browsed or been serching profiles and recognised any friends/ family or neighbours on fab or any other swing sites? It amazes me the amount of people posting pics with there face blocked out but you can still see tatoos or the bedroom or any part of there house which can be recognised by people who know them.
Ive seen people but never ever approach them off fab to ask them about it.
Its crazy rude to even consider it in my eyes. Only of you do it on here you have to send a face pic and not do it all covertly.
Absolutely this!
Nothing more creepy than someone messaging "I know you" and not disclosing who they are. Blocked!
I have had this happen to me pin up pro x "
Creepy as fuck isn't it?  x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I recognised my manager form work claiming he was single (his wife works for the same company) i didnt say anything to him untill he refused my holiday request then asked if his wife knew he was on fab, he gave me my holiday and didnt even take it off my holiday allownce "
That's awful. Tantamount to you bl*ckmailing him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah what happens here should stay here but I have recognised people out and about. The more interesting examples are a lady at my slimming world group and a lady that sat directly opposite me at work!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know of three people who are on here. One is an old friend of Dave's who we have played with since we found out.
Another is a lady who Cheryl worked with in the past. We still see each other in Cams and occasionally out shopping in town etc but never played.
The last one we know but don't think she knows about us and we won't break that trust for her. |
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We had a nightmare when we first joined about 6 years ago.
I started getting notification emails from fab saying I had emails, and I mean about 50 in the space of an hour or so, “ hmmmm what’s going on here” I thought, so checked our profile and realised kim had posted naked pics of herself, face showing, because she didn’t realise you have to make them friends only. I hid them straight away, but not before a guy who knows her saw them.
She then started getting messages on FB, pleading with her to meet him, sending cock pics, and when she ignored him, he started walking past her house, multiple times a day.
Freaked us out and taught us to be discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a nightmare when we first joined about 6 years ago.
I started getting notification emails from fab saying I had emails, and I mean about 50 in the space of an hour or so, “ hmmmm what’s going on here” I thought, so checked our profile and realised kim had posted naked pics of herself, face showing, because she didn’t realise you have to make them friends only. I hid them straight away, but not before a guy who knows her saw them.
She then started getting messages on FB, pleading with her to meet him, sending cock pics, and when she ignored him, he started walking past her house, multiple times a day.
Freaked us out and taught us to be discreet."
So what happened next? |
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"We had a nightmare when we first joined about 6 years ago.
I started getting notification emails from fab saying I had emails, and I mean about 50 in the space of an hour or so, “ hmmmm what’s going on here” I thought, so checked our profile and realised kim had posted naked pics of herself, face showing, because she didn’t realise you have to make them friends only. I hid them straight away, but not before a guy who knows her saw them.
She then started getting messages on FB, pleading with her to meet him, sending cock pics, and when she ignored him, he started walking past her house, multiple times a day.
Freaked us out and taught us to be discreet.
So what happened next? "
She told him to leave her alone and he thankfully got the message, but she was worried for quite a while he’d have the photos saved and show them to others etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recognised my manager form work claiming he was single (his wife works for the same company) i didnt say anything to him untill he refused my holiday request then asked if his wife knew he was on fab, he gave me my holiday and didnt even take it off my holiday allownce "
Class. I’d have put you on a disciplinary for that |
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