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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m struck by the number of men who have contacted me within the last few months expressing playing sub and and cuckold as their kink. If it was women we could all blame 50 Shades. I haven’t watched all the films but I don’t think Christian gets to tie up Andrew as well as Anastasia. I wonder if there’s just generally more acceptance of power play dynamics in sex within society, whether you are Male or female?
Or do my current pics just make me look like a VERY stern mistress?
Ladies of fab, have you had an increase in sub men contacting you? |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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I definitely get more of an increase when I post certain pics. But it’s no more than it’s ever been I don’t think. There are just a large amount of guys out there who love assertive women and fantasise about being dominated. In reality how much they could or would be prepared to take is actually another thing altogether   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe us guys have just had enough pressure and hassle in the real world to say to the one we love and trust, “here, you sort Fab life out”
I can relate to this  "
Yep me too |
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Finding sub women is fairly easy, it seems to be a kink that lots of women fantasise about. Sub men either tend to be cucks-in-cages or clean up artists, neither of which appeal to us.
It is surprisingly hard to find proper Dom's who would like to punish Her. She likes rough fucking and most guys seem to scared to even give light spanks let alone the harder stuff. Most "Dom's" who message seen to think I'll be a cuck (definitely not), they'll be having a 121 (definitely not) or I'll just be sitting and watching (definitely not).
They also think that being a dom is about verbal abuse, it isn't.
Too many people who wouldn't know what a dom is even if it came up to them with a pineapple on their head. |
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"I wouldn't say an increase recently, but they do seem to come in waves.
Yes usually all over my nice shiny shoes...."
That's usually the bile that I can't suppress, gagging at some of the diabolical stuff they write  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is an expectation on men to dominate in the bedroom, as well as in life, career, etc
Trying to adhere to (or even ignore) these standard can be tiring/difficult
So the idea of "handing over complete control" for a night can be quite appealing when things get tough
Just one potential explanation |
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