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Do Bi couples actually meet Bi guys
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry just a little rant,been in touch with a lot of Bi couples with no luck.
Is it just needs or do other Bi/Bi curious guys have the same issue.
Couples I know we all have preferences and possibly a type or look your after, but please can you give an indication of what your looking for in a Bi guy.
All help appreciated lol
Andy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we do.. but the same as everyone else we meet there has to be an attraction. But when it’s a bi guy, we both need to be attracted to him. Which to be honest, is rare!! Lol "
Exactly this.... |
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When Bi couples contact me, they generally know what they’re are getting. Feminine guy who’s most likely going to be submissive (although I can Dom) try and be as convincing as possible and who will definitely play with both of them.
Maybe point out what exactly you are willing to do, when you meet. Sell yourself a bit more to those Bi couples  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes we do.. but the same as everyone else we meet there has to be an attraction. But when it’s a bi guy, we both need to be attracted to him. Which to be honest, is rare!! Lol
Exactly this...."
Thanks for the replies and yes I know there has to be a mutual attraction,and thinking about it,one of the couple might be attracted to the guy but the other half of the couple isn't sighs
Lol
OK just have to try and appeal to both !!!! Must try harder lol  |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"We meet bi guys but there are too many who pretend to be no to play with Danni that make it hard to find good playmates that want us both equally... the search continues!"
Hell I'd play with Ric no hesitation! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We meet bi guys but there are too many who pretend to be no to play with Danni that make it hard to find good playmates that want us both equally... the search continues!"
Yes I can understand that completely,I have met others who had the same problem.
I am sure you must have a bullshit filter sorted by now.
Like me you just have to keep searching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It also helps if you don't list yourself as Straight on the profile, we get soo many who do that under the guise of "I just say I'm straight to get more meets", talk about creating mistrust from the get go, those are instant deletes for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It also helps if you don't list yourself as Straight on the profile, we get soo many who do that under the guise of "I just say I'm straight to get more meets", talk about creating mistrust from the get go, those are instant deletes for us."
I see lots of straight guts profiles who have met TVs Bi guys etc but keep stating straight !!!
I have Bi curious on my profile and I do believe my text lends itself to exactly what I am looking for.
Like I said just need to keep looking  |
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there are more guys on here looking for couples than couples looking for guys, and when a couple meet a guy that is right they do try to keep hold of them and meet them lots of times, so this makes it harder for the single guys to find that so called allusive couple, but we are out there and yes we like bi guys, |
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By *exytoo2Couple
over a year ago
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"Yes we do.. but the same as everyone else we meet there has to be an attraction. But when it’s a bi guy, we both need to be attracted to him. Which to be honest, is rare!! Lol "
Yes us too so don't meet many. |
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Maybe its more about what you can contribute to compliment what is already a stable situation, by describing yourself , people are more likely to find qualities which match what they may find attractive in a potential single person meet ! You can read profile s and think, oh yeah , they appeal to me , but what are you actually offering which will appeal to them. Im not being critical here , just that i know you need to stand out to have a chance of connecting with an otherwise mutually satisfying relationship . I know it sounds like your having to self promote , bit if you dont no one will do it for you, good luck best wishes |
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We meet Bi guys to play with us as a couple. Although Mike is bi fluid as we call it. Happy to hold a cock to feed into me. Happy to wank one on me. Happy to double pen me, safe sex.
Mike is not into sucking or fucking a bi man, and is not looking to be sucked or fucked in return. |
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"Sorry just a little rant,been in touch with a lot of Bi couples with no luck.
Is it just needs or do other Bi/Bi curious guys have the same issue.
Couples I know we all have preferences and possibly a type or look your after, but please can you give an indication of what your looking for in a Bi guy.
All help appreciated lol
Andy "
Personally apart from one specific bi guy we have our eye on, we are looking for a bi guy with a bi girl as well. In our relationship we can do hetro so we want bi mmff with others
Personal opinion and even in this brexit fiasco world it’s still allowed so don’t roast us |
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"Sorry just a little rant,been in touch with a lot of Bi couples with no luck.
Is it just needs or do other Bi/Bi curious guys have the same issue.
Couples I know we all have preferences and possibly a type or look your after, but please can you give an indication of what your looking for in a Bi guy.
All help appreciated lol
Andy "
Your best bet is to go to a bi night at a club, the Townhouse near you holds them regularly. Doesn't guarantee you sex of course unless the attraction is there but at least you can get talking to couples and get your face known.
Someone else mentioned above that you have "straight" on your profile. You really need to change that if you are going to give yourself any chance on fab.
Hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry just a little rant,been in touch with a lot of Bi couples with no luck.
Is it just needs or do other Bi/Bi curious guys have the same issue.
Couples I know we all have preferences and possibly a type or look your after, but please can you give an indication of what your looking for in a Bi guy.
All help appreciated lol
Andy
Your best bet is to go to a bi night at a club, the Townhouse near you holds them regularly. Doesn't guarantee you sex of course unless the attraction is there but at least you can get talking to couples and get your face known.
Someone else mentioned above that you have "straight" on your profile. You really need to change that if you are going to give yourself any chance on fab.
Hope this helps "
My profile status is Bi curious,and anyone who reads my profile text can see its Bi.
As for clubs been there done that,not really my scene to be honest,although I would meet a couple there if prearranged.
Andy x |
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"there are more guys on here looking for couples than couples looking for guys, and when a couple meet a guy that is right they do try to keep hold of them and meet them lots of times, so this makes it harder for the single guys to find that so called allusive couple, but we are out there and yes we like bi guys, "
You are right there I meet a bisexual couple we chat virtually every day & discuss other partners as we like group bisexual fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes we do.. but the same as everyone else we meet there has to be an attraction. But when it’s a bi guy, we both need to be attracted to him. Which to be honest, is rare!! Lol "
This is hit the nail on the head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes we do.. but the same as everyone else we meet there has to be an attraction. But when it’s a bi guy, we both need to be attracted to him. Which to be honest, is rare!! Lol
This is hit the nail on the head"
This goes both Ways tho,obviously I have to feel the same attraction to both parties in the couple |
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It's a buyers market, which in fab means generally that single men are plentiful and others get to pick from a big group, ensuring that guys have to work hard and should expect to assume that many messages won't get a reply, as recipients often struggle to manage their inbox load.
Use bi nights at clubs or socials to meet others in person too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From personal experience I’ve met more bi people/couples at clubs or parties. I’ve found it is easier to get across who you are face to face rather then in a clumsy message. I’ve had times where I’ve been at a club or party where no one has caught my eye and vice a versa so I’ve just enjoyed the social side.
Long story short, put yourself out there, make the effort to socialise and you’d be surprised how you get on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From personal experience I’ve met more bi people/couples at clubs or parties. I’ve found it is easier to get across who you are face to face rather then in a clumsy message. I’ve had times where I’ve been at a club or party where no one has caught my eye and vice a versa so I’ve just enjoyed the social side.
Long story short, put yourself out there, make the effort to socialise and you’d be surprised how you get on. "
Thanks,but clubs are not my thing like I said earlier.
If it was arranged to meet a couple in a club then yes possibly.
As for parties yes that is a possibility,I will look into the party scene,in the meantime anyone reading who is having a party well nudge nudge lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry just a little rant,been in touch with a lot of Bi couples with no luck.
Is it just needs or do other Bi/Bi curious guys have the same issue.
Couples I know we all have preferences and possibly a type or look your after, but please can you give an indication of what your looking for in a Bi guy.
All help appreciated lol
Andy "
We do but we are very very selective, as in another thread lot of guys say they're Bi as a door opener.
Criteria
We only meet in the first instance in a club
If they're only interested is in getting into my pants then it aint going to happen.
Have to be just as happy having a laugh and a beer and not getting into bedroom.
There has to be some kind of chemistry. It's not a need for us it is simply just an extra dimension . We are very happy in our own relationship.
Same applies with Bi Fems and Bi couples  |
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