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Why do People ie men /boys not read your profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why oh why oh why do people men and boys in particular not read your profile it is not hard it is not like we have reems and reems of stuff 3 lines that is all friggin hell how hard is it for Men/Boys to read just because they want to empty thier sacks why can they not read we do not want boys and really want to talk to people before we accept them as friends is it just us or are we being particularly mean but god it is so frustrating why cant people read your friggin profile before just sending a bloody friends request or email that dont fit what you are asking for.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"perhaps if half your profile wasn't a meaningless warning, then people might pay attention to the rest.
You hardly go out of your way to make it readable  "
Well said, and why is it in BLOCK CAPITALS, tbh it's very aggressive and most of it's drivel  |
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It's because your profile is insane
Seriously you sound like a bad bet at the bookies .
Too much moaning and groaning and capital letters and I think I read please read my profile about six times before I decided not to read it.
For this reason I am out guys and so is Leo... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a guess but one reason may be that there doesn't appear to be any coherent use of grammar or punctuation rendering your entire profile page illegible.
However, I am merely a 'boy' so what might I know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many dont read at all just straight to pics....i get loads of messages asking me to meet even tho clearly states im now meeting as a cple....but hey.ho bless em they still want to meet you as a.single.....i just block /delete n move on.....was thinking of writing it in german tho....see the reaction to that....prob be same....best not to rant on be the better peep n move on plenty more nice peeps on here who do read.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't want boys to random friendship request you, you need to set up your message filters; they can still look at your profile but cannot do anything else.
As to getting men to read profiles, you are asking too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why oh why oh why do people men and boys in particular not read your profile it is not hard it is not like we have reems and reems of stuff 3 lines that is all friggin hell how hard is it for Men/Boys to read just because they want to empty thier sacks why can they not read we do not want boys and really want to talk to people before we accept them as friends is it just us or are we being particularly mean but god it is so frustrating why cant people read your friggin profile before just sending a bloody friends request or email that dont fit what you are asking for. "
no idea
probably for the same reason couples who contact me dont read my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I take some of your points and will change our profile so thanks for that. I don't mean to rant on but it is just frustrating we are not against people emailing etc just would be nice to know that our profile was at least read... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the them not read is part of the fun and its not just single guys that don't read i find a block and move on approach really works but then i am not interested in the ones we don't want to meet just the ones we do  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take some of your points and will change our profile so thanks for that. I don't mean to rant on but it is just frustrating we are not against people emailing etc just would be nice to know that our profile was at least read... "
If you had something in your profile worth reading then chances are more would do so 
If you have strict age limits then type that into your profile and not just in the small Looking For list at the bottom, and as to why you have something along the lines of 121 words in your profile and 73 of them are totally useless and pointless warning.
I can understand people moaning about their profiles not being read when they HAVE a profile to read, but c'mon |
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I read profiles....
I check
1-do they meet single guys.
2- Am i in their age range
3- Do they have pictures.
4- Are they interesting.
5 - Are they local.
If they are all of the above i read the rest if not....
I perv the pics and move on
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"I read profiles....
I check
1-do they meet single guys.
2- Am i in their age range
3- Do they have pictures.
4- Are they interesting.
5 - Are they local.
If they are all of the above i read the rest if not....
I perv the pics and move on
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bloody hell i was worried you were going to say you didnt perve the pics then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is due to a condition known as ELS - Erection Literacy Syndrome
The symptoms are quite straightforward
To a sufferer of ELS, when faced with images of tits, fannies and arses, words just become a blur and non-sensical.
Bright lights flash and despite their best attempts to read the profile all the sufferer can see are the words 'MESSAGE ME ! MESSAGE ME ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hahahaha well of course we perv the pics that is the good part.....
I must admit when I posted this I was a bit tipsy so guess I didn't really do a very good job and also made the fatal error of changing our profile whilst slightly pissed awe well lesson learnt. We are lovely people and albeit new to the scene it is all overwhelming trying to get to grips with it all but we will get there..... Peace xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hahahaha well of course we perv the pics that is the good part.....
I must admit when I posted this I was a bit tipsy so guess I didn't really do a very good job and also made the fatal error of changing our profile whilst slightly pissed awe well lesson learnt. We are lovely people and albeit new to the scene it is all overwhelming trying to get to grips with it all but we will get there..... Peace xx"
Fair play to you both for admitting your little mistake. You must be human.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Awe God won't make that mistake again. Hopefully our profile is a lot better and makes a bit more sense and I apologise unreservedly to anyone who read it and thought what a pair of dipsticks didn't meant to offend anyone. Note to myself never type in capitals and never express and opinion whilst pissed hahahaha oh and even though I am now sober my grammar is still shite. Bless you all and peace and love xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Moan, moan, moan, that is all i ever read in the forum's. Whatever happened to "Happy swinging"?"
+1
In the defence of OP, this is not the only "negative" profile I've seen and not the worst either.
I will say there is a lot of DO AS I SAY and not enough DO AS I DO when it comes to going through profiles.
Treat others how you like to be treated and you'll enjoy this site a lot more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep think you have a point there. We try to always treat people with respect etc just a d*unken rant at the time. Although our profile was not very good to read and did not really make much sense but then nothing does when your pissed, cause you think your right about everything. hahaha Anyways Profile changed and think it is much better now and if it is still crap then stuff it, cause i have changed it so many times in the last 24hrs its beginning to feel like war and peace. But thanks for the advice xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Females and couples don't read mine.. Then I get questions as to what I'm looking for or what fantasies I'm looking to fulfil or what type of woman I like.. It's all on my profile but no one reads it.
So, it's not just men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Females and couples don't read mine.. Then I get questions as to what I'm looking for or what fantasies I'm looking to fulfil or what type of woman I like.. It's all on my profile but no one reads it.
So, it's not just men."
Or they add you and think that's ok. |
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I haven't looked at your profile, but if it's written in the same way as your post, that'll be why. Would it hurt to use a full stop here & there and maybe a paragraph or two?
I found your post very hard work to read and to be fair, if your profile's the same, I probably wouldn't bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to read them if for nothing else than to Taylor any msg I send to suit the person I am messaging,however if it gets boring then i just dont bother.
Incidentally I hate all this I don't like this or I don't like that u see on profiles, by the time I have read the profiles like that I end up feeling like I have been told off in school |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for that. If you read back a few posts then you may be enlightened to my crap grammar and silly d*unken idiotic rant which I have apologised for..... God it is a hard crowd out there in Fab land. I am only human, made a mistake apologised for it. I am trying to take all the advice with my head down and tail between my legs in complete surrender. Can't apologise anymore this is the last one "SORRY"..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try to read them if for nothing else than to Taylor any msg I send to suit the person I am messaging,however if it gets boring then i just dont bother.
Incidentally I hate all this I don't like this or I don't like that u see on profiles, by the time I have read the profiles like that I end up feeling like I have been told off in school"
+1 lol
My favourite bit in some profiles is after all that they say "we're an easy going couple/female."
Gets me every time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for that. If you read back a few posts then you may be enlightened to my crap grammar and silly d*unken idiotic rant which I have apologised for..... God it is a hard crowd out there in Fab land. I am only human, made a mistake apologised for it. I am trying to take all the advice with my head down and tail between my legs in complete surrender. Can't apologise anymore this is the last one "SORRY"....."
Aawwww you don't really expect people to read all the thread........its longer than most profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Females and couples don't read mine.. Then I get questions as to what I'm looking for or what fantasies I'm looking to fulfil or what type of woman I like.. It's all on my profile but no one reads it.
So, it's not just men.
Or they add you and think that's ok. "
OOops we do this - didnt think it was offensive  sorry |
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