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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why???? do so many people not have face pics on here ?
ok i understand some people dont want every one to know they are swingers but atleast send one in a message !
do any of u reply to messages with no face pics? x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the message comes from someone that I think has half a clue then ill reply
But ill expect a pic within a couple of messages,I don't mind sending one out so expect the same
If its a case of only via phone or msn I don't bother any further |
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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago
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I would be suspicious of anyone who does not send a face pic as it suggests they are either unattractive or have something to hide.
In particular, I think the single men should be aware that purely based on numbers the odds are very much against them, so sending a face pic in the first message would be a smart idea.
But I understand not having a face in the public gallery since we have normal lives too lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have no shame in what i do and always make sure even when i have had reason to hide my face (seeing dads best mate online) i send a pic i just thinks its common courtosy i find that the majority of men sya they dont have a pic and will send one via email lol must just be me lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head "
ahhahaha well i made the mistake of meeting some one off chat the other week and oh dear !!! im not horrible and dont judge people on the way they look (well not to much) but fuck me that shit shudda been on the program undatables ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am i strange then of being mistrustful (is that a word?) of anyone who sends pictures in the first message? Admittedly now i have plenty of verifications but when i first joined, men and couples would send a whole list of face pics attatched to their original message! I think you have to be a very trusting person to send that kind of thing to every person you message. I could have been anyone! I dont put face pics up because my work is in sensitive areas but more than happy to msn/email photos once ive been chatting to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head "
Was it the back half or the front half? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head
Was it the back half or the front half? "
The bottom half,he had a lovely mouth and nose though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head
Was it the back half or the front half?
The bottom half,he had a lovely mouth and nose though "
Not even a side-half? how cheeky...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am i strange then of being mistrustful (is that a word?) of anyone who sends pictures in the first message? Admittedly now i have plenty of verifications but when i first joined, men and couples would send a whole list of face pics attatched to their original message! I think you have to be a very trusting person to send that kind of thing to every person you message. I could have been anyone! I dont put face pics up because my work is in sensitive areas but more than happy to msn/email photos once ive been chatting to people. "
I might not straight away, depends how convincing their profile is etc. |
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"why???? do so many people not have face pics on here ?
ok i understand some people dont want every one to know they are swingers but atleast send one in a message !
do any of u reply to messages with no face pics? x "
yes i ask them for face pics  |
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"Am i strange then of being mistrustful (is that a word?) of anyone who sends pictures in the first message? Admittedly now i have plenty of verifications but when i first joined, men and couples would send a whole list of face pics attatched to their original message! I think you have to be a very trusting person to send that kind of thing to every person you message. I could have been anyone! I dont put face pics up because my work is in sensitive areas but more than happy to msn/email photos once ive been chatting to people. "
see we wouldnt contact you again after you asked for msn or email, its far easier to steal pics that way.
We send pics when we want to meet someone, there profile suggests they are genuine, its a gut feeling plus common sense, but we judge that if they are here to meet its fine sending face pics.
A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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For me its simple
1) People with no face pics (private or public gallery) but demanding face pics don't get a reply.
2) People that use the "my job" reason also get no reply their job is no more important than mine. Employees of MoD are a grey area.
3) People that still think I should send them mine (even though its in public) want me to do the running.
I skip past all 3. Next? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block."
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw |
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw "
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat."
i totally agree wth u x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat."
Well, I can understand that, but then surely just get rid of those types too?
I have no interest in that either personally, but asking for a phone number to talk or wanting to meet up to early is just as bad to some people, so its like an intermediate to me. Chatting to and fro, more flowing like a conversation without writing longer messages back and forth, and I can't stand chat, though I've never thought of asking someone to go in there, that's not such a bad idea, thanks |
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat.
Well, I can understand that, but then surely just get rid of those types too?
I have no interest in that either personally, but asking for a phone number to talk or wanting to meet up to early is just as bad to some people, so its like an intermediate to me. Chatting to and fro, more flowing like a conversation without writing longer messages back and forth, and I can't stand chat, though I've never thought of asking someone to go in there, that's not such a bad idea, thanks "
never met anyone genuine who will not exchange phone numbers very early to confirm you are who you say you are...
Think you are more in the dating area than swinging, though, and i cant really comment on that, we exchange messages, chat or do a social meet then fuck, or go seperate ways...we are not looking for a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat.
Well, I can understand that, but then surely just get rid of those types too?
I have no interest in that either personally, but asking for a phone number to talk or wanting to meet up to early is just as bad to some people, so its like an intermediate to me. Chatting to and fro, more flowing like a conversation without writing longer messages back and forth, and I can't stand chat, though I've never thought of asking someone to go in there, that's not such a bad idea, thanks
never met anyone genuine who will not exchange phone numbers very early to confirm you are who you say you are...
Think you are more in the dating area than swinging, though, and i cant really comment on that, we exchange messages, chat or do a social meet then fuck, or go seperate ways...we are not looking for a relationship."
I wouldn't really consider myself a swinger no (I don't have a partner after all), but I'm not here for dating... when I was on here at first most wanted to take ages getting to know you before trusting you enough to meet them. Personally I would find it easier your way, I'd like to get to know people face to face rather than sat behind a computer. Perhaps its an age thing... |
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat.
Well, I can understand that, but then surely just get rid of those types too?
I have no interest in that either personally, but asking for a phone number to talk or wanting to meet up to early is just as bad to some people, so its like an intermediate to me. Chatting to and fro, more flowing like a conversation without writing longer messages back and forth, and I can't stand chat, though I've never thought of asking someone to go in there, that's not such a bad idea, thanks
never met anyone genuine who will not exchange phone numbers very early to confirm you are who you say you are...
Think you are more in the dating area than swinging, though, and i cant really comment on that, we exchange messages, chat or do a social meet then fuck, or go seperate ways...we are not looking for a relationship.
I wouldn't really consider myself a swinger no (I don't have a partner after all), but I'm not here for dating... when I was on here at first most wanted to take ages getting to know you before trusting you enough to meet them. Personally I would find it easier your way, I'd like to get to know people face to face rather than sat behind a computer. Perhaps its an age thing..."
Yes us old fogies are never away from our computers  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"why???? do so many people not have face pics on here ?
ok i understand some people dont want every one to know they are swingers but atleast send one in a message !
do any of u reply to messages with no face pics? x "
If we are really interested then we will reply but if they haven't attached one within a couple of messages, we would then ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A request to email or msn just suggests timewaster/not genuine to us and we block.
Can understand the email thing as you can do that on here, but I get confused about people disliking msn, it's a more 'real time' way of talking without having to give out a phone number, bit like being in the chat room but without all the other people, lol... and I am no timewaster btw
because the average convo on msn turns into a man wanting cyber, which some ppl like but isnt for me. Doesn't make him a time waster, its the same for men who we have had had meets with or i have met in clubs. The majority see you are logged on and open the conversation with what are you wearing or do you want to cam. Before you say you wouldn't do that...how does anyone know? If you dont want cyber whats wrong with messaging on here?
If getting to know someone matters in real time ask to meet for a social drink or use chat."
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We wont have face pics on our profile, we did pics of each of us in the same room to prove we are a couple, then via email we will send face pics..
Would would meet someone without knowing who you are meeting..
Lots of body from Baywatch and Face from Crime Watch around.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If someone doesn't send me a face picture on first message I rarely reply.. because I ask for it on first few lines of my profile...
I expect to talk on the phone within a few messages.. women demand it or will block as I like to get rid of fake women.
It works for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did get a face pic sent recently,well it was half of a head
I did wonder what sort of tragic accident had occured for the poor man to be left with half a head
ahhahaha well i made the mistake of meeting some one off chat the other week and oh dear !!! im not horrible and dont judge people on the way they look (well not to much) but fuck me that shit shudda been on the program undatables !"
Hope he doesn't read forums |
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