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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would guess a local club.
Also, I have "cannot travel" because I dont drive and have no desire getting a train to fuck someone, however, I will travel to go to a club |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I would guess a local club.
Also, I have "cannot travel" because I dont drive and have no desire getting a train to fuck someone, however, I will travel to go to a club"
This too! I travel to clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am seeing this more and more on profiles... how do they meet anyone? Can anyone explain- thanks in anticipation "
Absolutely no idea.
Bloody fools having it on their profiles. Kick them off Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer  "
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too? "
No it's not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have it on my profile too.
I was sick of folk thinking my home is their convenience.
I can travel but I will choose n not assume.
It keeps a few away
But not meeting.. regardless what you put 3/4 don't read it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?
No it's not. "
Oh...thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place "
Indeed you shall, il be coming in my friends non travelling car |
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One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.
But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place
Indeed you shall, il be coming in my friends non travelling car "
Bloody rebel! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.
But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house "
Gold Digger?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this. I cant accommodate but also cant drive but I'm happy to travel and to meet someone somewhere depending on where etc.
everyone is different and the best thing is to ask. Everyone has different reason I guess |
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"One of my male fabber friends said he sees alot of female profiles saying can't meet.. He think they just here for attention and flirting.
But answer to op question, some people expect people to be able to go to them... Like my friend who doesn't drive. She only wants a man with car and house
Gold Digger? "
Hasn't found her sugar daddy just yet... So is she a gold digger? Lol |
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"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place "
Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a woman by picking her up from her house, taking her to a hotel, and then dropping off back to her husband. She couldn’t travel or accommodate. "
So she just hopped in a car with a guy from a sex site  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place
Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you "
You know taxis exist right? I get a taxi to and from the club, sometimes I'll book a hotel room. Just because I don't accommodate or travel, doesn't mean I'm a freeloader and I don't appreciate the snide comments implying as such. |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
Mancetter? |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer "
This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...
The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...
The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol "
Not all of us are like that. |
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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago
Mancetter? |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...
The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol
Not all of us are like that. "
I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ?? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...
The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol
Not all of us are like that.
I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ?? "
It doesn't matter why I can't, I just can't, it's not really anyone else's business. I meet in clubs and I'll only ever meet fab men there, not get picked up from home. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
This was what ive been told by a Cant Accom Cant Traveller....... I said exactly that ......how do you meet then .....I was told I dont drive but you can pick me up .....Where if you cant accomodate !!!!!!!! Make a Fucking effort it wont hurt ...
The other is someone whose been on here for more than 2 days like a year and profile says ' Fill in Later' and with no photographs WTF if you're that Fuckin Lazy I cant see us having a great meet ....... can you? lol lol
Not all of us are like that.
I cant reply Privately ....so why cant you again ?? "
Also, it's quite often more polite to just reply and quote in the forums unless someone has asked for private responses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't it just be easier ask the person that you are messaging why they can't accommodate or travel and how it works? Probably so many different answer and so few using the forums ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got it on my profile, basically I don't drive and can't have people in my home.
I'm looking for local meets.
Its a daunting thing as a woman to go and meet strangers |
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"'Pick me up and take me somewhere'
Really?
Hahahaha this is the funniest chancer I have seen for a while, but god does love a tryer
Indeed. I'll see you Friday at our non travelling, non accommodating place
Sheesh !. They cannot accomodate and don't have a car of their own but happy to travel somewhere with you
You know taxis exist right? I get a taxi to and from the club, sometimes I'll book a hotel room. Just because I don't accommodate or travel, doesn't mean I'm a freeloader and I don't appreciate the snide comments implying as such."
Great response.... |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?
No it's not. "
Yes it is lol x |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
Portsmouth |
"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too?
No it's not. "
Yes it is lol x |
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A lot of people say they cant Accom but in reality they can. I’ve met lots of women who’s profile said cannot Accom but it was a way to politely say they prefer not to Accom. Once rapport and trust was established , I went to their house |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."
we do not accom because older kids still live with us and we do not have a car to travel.if we do travel it is bus or taxi or foot and damned if going to travel miles and miles to meet a stranger in 5 towns over by train to get stood up or meet a nit job so we stick to local meets and local clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts
Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all "
Because they can and they do! Every circumstance will be different and these people meet too! Just differently to you ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really. "
This ^^^ |
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"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really. "
I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a woman by picking her up from her house, taking her to a hotel, and then dropping off back to her husband. She couldn’t travel or accommodate.
So she just hopped in a car with a guy from a sex site "
Is that any more risky than driving yourself to his basement, sorry I mean house...? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.
I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest?"
Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs. |
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"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.
I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest?
Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs. "
The first comment, not so much yours, says people should mind their own business. I don't really know any other way to take "it has nothing to do with anyone else" in response to someone is asking about why in a forum. |
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"I don't travel or accommodate because I choose to only meet in clubs.
I wish there was an tick preference option that we could have that said "club meets only""
Yet again the lack of functionality in the site seems to be the real reason... |
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We cannot accomodate because we have children. We also cannot travel too far because we have children. Hence any meets we would have would be local and in a hotel. We explain this to everyone who messages if they are looking to meet up. everything is put out there straight and upfront so there is no confusion. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.
I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest?
Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs.
The first comment, not so much yours, says people should mind their own business. I don't really know any other way to take "it has nothing to do with anyone else" in response to someone is asking about why in a forum."
I can't speak for their intent. |
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"I know some expect to be picked up and dropped back off some probably have not put much thought into profile "
I was asked to pick someone up and drop them back off. Ended up having car sex- couldn’t wait lol |
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"just our opinion
if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech"
it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair? |
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"I use it as a filter to stop guys 200miles away expecting me to rock up and suck their cock
For me it means I will travel locally 35 miles max "
35 miles still sounds like a hell of a lot of travel to me, especially for a hot single woman! |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"I use it as a filter to stop guys 200miles away expecting me to rock up and suck their cock
For me it means I will travel locally 35 miles max
35 miles still sounds like a hell of a lot of travel to me, especially for a hot single woman!"
Trust me ,where I live there no one to actually meet so I need to travel to meet half way . Having preferences drastically reduces choice ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just our opinion
if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech
it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?"
not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over? |
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"just our opinion
if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech
it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?
not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over?"
I'm not taking offense in the slightest, why do you keep coming back to that? I'm just curious how many people here seem to try to shut down potentially interesting conversations for, presumably, some unknown personal motivation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just our opinion
if our opinion has upset anybody then maybe we should not have freedom of speech
it sounds like your "opinion" is that OP shouldn't have asked, shouldn't be curious about it and want other peoples opinions in the first place, is that fair?
not sure why you are taking such offence over this.did you get up this morning and think what can we take offence over?
I'm not taking offense in the slightest, why do you keep coming back to that? I'm just curious how many people here seem to try to shut down potentially interesting conversations for, presumably, some unknown personal motivation."
how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives seperate until we get to know someone. |
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"how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives separate until we get to know someone."
Because, as I asked you to confirm or not, your opinion seems to be that this is an inappropriate thing to even discuss. You don't seem to have an opinion on the question being asked, merely that it shouldn't be discussed in the first place. It's like you're unable to separate the two things appropriately? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives separate until we get to know someone.
Because, as I asked you to confirm or not, your opinion seems to be that this is an inappropriate thing to even discuss. You don't seem to have an opinion on the question being asked, merely that it shouldn't be discussed in the first place. It's like you're unable to separate the two things appropriately?"
my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives separate until we get to know someone.
Because, as I asked you to confirm or not, your opinion seems to be that this is an inappropriate thing to even discuss. You don't seem to have an opinion on the question being asked, merely that it shouldn't be discussed in the first place. It's like you're unable to separate the two things appropriately?
my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway."
did not say it should not be discussed anywhere did I? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons.
Exactly, and if you don't like it then don't contact them. It's quite simple really.
I continue to struggle with comments like these... I mean... it's true, but they seem to be aimed at shutting down conversation. Are these things not allowed to be topics of chat out of general interest?
Of course they are. Where did I say people couldn't discuss it? My response is my opinion on how to deal with such profiles. Others are free to post theirs.
The first comment, not so much yours, says people should mind their own business. I don't really know any other way to take "it has nothing to do with anyone else" in response to someone is asking about why in a forum."
I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.
The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how does an opinion try to shut something down? ok so maybe we should explain why what when and where and all our decisions on here instead of keeping some parts of our lives separate until we get to know someone.
Because, as I asked you to confirm or not, your opinion seems to be that this is an inappropriate thing to even discuss. You don't seem to have an opinion on the question being asked, merely that it shouldn't be discussed in the first place. It's like you're unable to separate the two things appropriately?
my/our opinion is that it has nothing to do with anyone.Should not need to explain why but did so anyway.
did not say it should not be discussed anywhere did I?"
"it has nothing to do with anyone else why people cannot accom and cannot travel.that is up to them and their own personal reasons."
copy and paste the first post on this from me and it does not say not to discuss anything! |
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"I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.
The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue? "
Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.
The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue?
Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation. "
I'm the one who said its none of anyone else's business. |
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"I'm shutting those people down that are making presumptuous and insulting comments against people that don't accommodate or travel, surely we can have a discussion without throwing around insults? Or am I supposed to sit here and allow people to assume I'm a freeloader or a timewaster that won't meet? Freedom of speech goes both ways, I'm allowed to defend myself against narrow-minded comments.
The fact is, some people don't accommodate or travel, they have their reasons and as long as they aren't harming anyone why is it an issue?
Not commenting on your replies at all Keeley, you're clearly totally, properly engaged in the conversation.
I'm the one who said its none of anyone else's business."
It's no ones business what your specific reasons are though, that's absolutely fair. Others seem to be suggesting it's wrong to even discuss the subject in general terms at all.
Other replies, including yours, have given really good reasons that have helped OP understand different scenarios where it makes sense and shown it to be a totally valid subject.
Anyway, all this meta is confusing, and was only meant to be a side observation! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts
Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all "
Check my veris, it's working for me so I'll carry on bothering to meet people and have fun swinging. You enjoy your time picking faults and making judgements about other people  |
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"Really great comments thanks and generally in line with my thoughts
Cannot accommodate , cannot travel —then why bother at all
Check my veris, it's working for me so I'll carry on bothering to meet people and have fun swinging. You enjoy your time picking faults and making judgements about other people "
You go girl - he knows he's got nowhere near 97 vers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours is different. My partner and I do not live together, we each have our own houses. I have kids so my home is not being used as I do not want random guys coming into my home that I share with my children. I don't travel due too not driving yet, but in saying that, I do use taxi and busses if it's local. My partner uses his house which is also safer for me.
It's not nice to assume things on here. You have a mouth and a brain. Ask. Simple. Not everyone is going to want to publicly put their reasons on their profile so if I'm doubt, just ask. |
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
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You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases. |
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases."
Yes it’s that simple...
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases."
It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases.
It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose."
behave or you will get slated for saying that |
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases.
It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose.
behave or you will get slated for saying that "
You’re a cheeky one.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can’t accommodate means can’t accommodate.
Can’t travel means can’t travel.
Why is this so hard to understand so I’m clarifying it for anyone (men) who may be confused about it.
You're joking, right? You don't think it actually is that simple do you? That's the point of the question as if you can't go anywhere, and also can't host, there is, by literal definition, nothing else left. Happily other people have suggested subtler, useful interpretations of the two phrases.
It actually is that simple, if I say I can't accommodate and can't travel, that's exactly what it means. People don't have to like it and they can pass me by if they choose.
behave or you will get slated for saying that
You’re a cheeky one...."
who is? that is so offensive.
nah only kidding lol.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Isn't it another way to say I'm not meeting I'm just here to upload images that make you want to meet me but I'm NOT MEETING ANY.ONE. Just here for the forums & to catch up with old friends I didn't trust enough to give my phone number too? "
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I get your sense of humour |
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