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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first."
wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman. |
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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman."
Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.
So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!
1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)
2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.
3) become a site supporter
4) attend socials to get verified
5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.
6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages
The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!
8) Always include a face picture
9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman
10) Be yourself and polite
11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.
12) do all of the above.
Ollie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i would def change your profile pics don't know why you got them pics on there
What type of profile pic can you suggest? "
Should I change them all? |
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"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you
What would?
Something that shows more of you than your hand "
You judge a book by the cover then and you don't look inside? |
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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first.
No need to brag about it mate  "
I’m certainly not just projecting what the reality of the site is like!
96% male 4% female.
My above post is key to striking the right start x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you
What would?
Something that shows more of you than your hand
You judge a book by the cover then and you don't look inside? "
This seems to be the case on here. You have one initial shot with a woman on here and that's it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first.
No need to brag about it mate
I’m certainly not just projecting what the reality of the site is like!
96% male 4% female.
My above post is key to striking the right start x"
Thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..
Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help
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Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.
Can you give a picture suggestion please? |
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"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..
Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help
Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.
Can you give a picture suggestion please? "
A torso shot... a full body shot clothed. Or a discreet face picture that shows a bit but not the whole face
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..
Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help
Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.
Can you give a picture suggestion please?
A torso shot... a full body shot clothed. Or a discreet face picture that shows a bit but not the whole face
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Okay thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman.
Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.
So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!
1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)
2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.
3) become a site supporter
4) attend socials to get verified
5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.
6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages
The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!
8) Always include a face picture
9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman
10) Be yourself and polite
11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.
12) do all of the above.
Ollie "
as Ollie has said  don’t take rejection to hart just be polite a yes is a yes and no is no I’ve been on and off this and other sites for many years must admit had better luck back then to now but things have changed and unfortunately the current virus situation is not really helping anyone I’d say just re think your photos and profile and go slowly if a social meet pops up go best way to get noticed and have any luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women hardly ever message first.
In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman.
Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.
So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!
1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)
2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.
3) become a site supporter
4) attend socials to get verified
5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.
6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages
The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!
8) Always include a face picture
9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman
10) Be yourself and polite
11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.
12) do all of the above.
Ollie as Ollie has said don’t take rejection to hart just be polite a yes is a yes and no is no I’ve been on and off this and other sites for many years must admit had better luck back then to now but things have changed and unfortunately the current virus situation is not really helping anyone I’d say just re think your photos and profile and go slowly if a social meet pops up go best way to get noticed and have any luck "
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