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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea

I never get a message from women. Should I change anything?

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea

Waste of time

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By *erthyrbirdCouple 2 weeks ago

tredegar

i would def change your profile pics don't know why you got them pics on there

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By *allySlinkyWoman 2 weeks ago

Leeds

Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you

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By *larisse 2020Woman 2 weeks ago

Pontyclun

It's could have for a start. I have pm'd you

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By *moothgentlemanMan 2 weeks ago

Wales

Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first.

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By *04funMan 2 weeks ago

Malmesbury


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first."

wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman.

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By *moothgentlemanMan 2 weeks ago

Wales


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman."

Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.

So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!

1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)

2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.

3) become a site supporter

4) attend socials to get verified

5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.

6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages

The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!

8) Always include a face picture

9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman

10) Be yourself and polite

11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.

12) do all of the above.

Ollie

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"i would def change your profile pics don't know why you got them pics on there

"

What type of profile pic can you suggest?

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"i would def change your profile pics don't know why you got them pics on there

What type of profile pic can you suggest? "

Should I change them all?

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you"

What would?

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"It's could have for a start. I have pm'd you "

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By *allySlinkyWoman 2 weeks ago

Leeds


"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you

What would? "

Something that shows more of you than your hand

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first."

No need to brag about it mate

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you

What would?

Something that shows more of you than your hand "

You judge a book by the cover then and you don't look inside?

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By *moothgentlemanMan 2 weeks ago

Wales


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first.

No need to brag about it mate "

I’m certainly not just projecting what the reality of the site is like!

96% male 4% female.

My above post is key to striking the right start x

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Your profile pic wouldn't tempt me to message you

What would?

Something that shows more of you than your hand

You judge a book by the cover then and you don't look inside? "

This seems to be the case on here. You have one initial shot with a woman on here and that's it!

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first.

No need to brag about it mate

I’m certainly not just projecting what the reality of the site is like!

96% male 4% female.

My above post is key to striking the right start x"

Thanks for the advice

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By *olden.wonderWoman 2 weeks ago

staying in, sofashire

U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..

Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..

Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help

"

Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.

Can you give a picture suggestion please?

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By *moothgentlemanMan 2 weeks ago

Wales


"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..

Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help

Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.

Can you give a picture suggestion please? "

A torso shot... a full body shot clothed. Or a discreet face picture that shows a bit but not the whole face

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"U meet up to 99 yr olds??..shows your not fussy..

Profiles take many rewrites n add a new pic can help

Hmm well I am fussy, I didn't want to alter that to make it any harder to recieve messages.

Can you give a picture suggestion please?

A torso shot... a full body shot clothed. Or a discreet face picture that shows a bit but not the whole face

"

Okay thanks

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By *hep6967Man 2 weeks ago

Uplands


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman.

Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.

So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!

1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)

2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.

3) become a site supporter

4) attend socials to get verified

5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.

6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages

The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!

8) Always include a face picture

9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman

10) Be yourself and polite

11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.

12) do all of the above.

Ollie "

as Ollie has said don’t take rejection to hart just be polite a yes is a yes and no is no I’ve been on and off this and other sites for many years must admit had better luck back then to now but things have changed and unfortunately the current virus situation is not really helping anyone I’d say just re think your photos and profile and go slowly if a social meet pops up go best way to get noticed and have any luck

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By *oe Joe 39 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Women hardly ever message first.

In 4/5 years I’ve been messaged maybe 6-10 times by single women first. wow that many ! Can't remember ever being messaged first by a woman.

Indeed more couples message. It is a hard task getting an attractive profile etc but it can also be done easily with the correct guidance.

So for ALL MEN here is my free guide!

1) have a profile picture (not a dick pic)

2) have a well written profile, spelling and grammar.

3) become a site supporter

4) attend socials to get verified

5) don’t send dick pics unless asked first.

6) don’t send meet me, or demanding messages

The big tip... 7) read the profile! Draft a message with a pleasant introduction, what attributes you have, height etc and tailor the message to the profile text as long as you match it!

8) Always include a face picture

9) don’t message being sexual first.. manners makethman

10) Be yourself and polite

11) no is no take it in your stride and thank them for taking the time to read the message instead of abuse, they may recommend to a fab friend / social group.

12) do all of the above.

Ollie as Ollie has said don’t take rejection to hart just be polite a yes is a yes and no is no I’ve been on and off this and other sites for many years must admit had better luck back then to now but things have changed and unfortunately the current virus situation is not really helping anyone I’d say just re think your photos and profile and go slowly if a social meet pops up go best way to get noticed and have any luck "

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