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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Even after all these years I only have maybe 10-12 on my friends list.
More like 200 on my hot list.
People I've met briefly and got on well with, people I may like to meet in the future, or people who share really artsy photography.
(Oh and people I just want to perve on) |
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I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting with. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.
It also serves as a great filter for following the notable status updates.
To coin a phrase: they know who they are.
My Hotlist is superseded by my Telegram List. It's another level. They know who they are.
My Telegram List is superseded by my WhatsApp List. It's the apex. They know who they are. 😉 |
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By *coutDWoman 35 weeks ago
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I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.
I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend. |
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By *arri54Woman 35 weeks ago
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So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block...  |
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I message both
"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block... "
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block... "
I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves |
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By *arri54Woman 35 weeks ago
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block...
I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves "
And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?
Seems like that maybe not strictly true? |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block...
I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves
And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?
Seems like that maybe not strictly true? "
It's going ok, thanks. |
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By *arri54Woman 35 weeks ago
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block...
I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves
And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?
Seems like that maybe not strictly true?
It's going ok, thanks. "
Fabulous  |
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By *3xymamaWoman 35 weeks ago
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"I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.
I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend. "
^^this^^
I do clear the list occasionally though..  |
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas?"
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I don't.
In the four years I've been here 90% of my dates/socials/trysts/dalliances have been on the back of women sending the first message. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?
If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.
My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.
I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.
Message, meet or block...
I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves
And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?
Seems like that maybe not strictly true?
It's going ok, thanks.
Fabulous "
You're on mine 🤗 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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I use it to save profiles of people I have chatted to that could be potential meets. I use my friends list for people that I have met.
That way, if I am looking for a meet I have people to contact that I know who would be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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I generally add people I really like the look of to it and when I get around to it, I’ll drop them a message. If there’s no reply, I’ll remove them so I don’t message again. Nice way of keeping track |
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