So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.
If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one. |
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Most women won’t read them and look at the profile first to see if anything takes their interest, if it doesn’t the chances are they will delete as their is nothing that appeals (I do this) otherwise women may have an influx of messages so will bulk delete, a message a week later wouldn’t do any harm but continuous ones will likely get you blocked |
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"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.
If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one."
If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone  |
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"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.
If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one."
No, use the logic that she hasn't replied so doesn't want to engage. Or better still if you delete each message after you send it then you can't bother yourself by checking if it has been read, deleted etc. |
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"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.
If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one.
If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone "
CJ could you pop me a message please |
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"Only issue with that is if delete the message I wouldn't know if I had messaged them a few weeks earlier.
But I will refrain from multiple messages "
If you click on their profile it will say you've already messaged them.
Multiple messages are a no-no on Fab, and rightly so. |
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I do try my best on this account and my joint account to answer all messages and if there not for us we tell them
What frustrates me is the reply ..message me later if you change your mind 
We get many guys that will message again and again even when been told not for us ect so then I block them |
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"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.
If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one.
If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone
CJ could you pop me a message please "
Can't you have single guys blocked |
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By *JandCMCouple 3 weeks ago
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If message is a 1 liner or something like 'wanna fuck.' Gets deleted straight away n sometimes blocked.
If they have made an effort then read through n checkout profile to see if we're interested n if so we keep the message n may get back to them if n when we're looking to meet.
But sometimes if you answer someone's message then that's it, their constantly massaging n normally then they get blocked if too much of a pain. |
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I do think a lot of messages never get read...
In part just done to the shear volume some people get... so it's easy to get lost in the ether.
I guess a bit of ego goes with it as part of you thinks ... if they see your message it may land..
But I think for thr most part if you've reached out... and they are interested... they will find you.
That said, I've double messaged people ... but usually after I may have seen something like a status or forum post I've responded too.
Also occasionally ill come across a profile that it will say I messaged ages ago.. I don't remember a exchange (sometimes even says they messaged me)
Soni might message and say.. sorry I don't know can't see what was said..
If they ain't interested cool
I generally think if your polite most people are in return.
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