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"We had certain rules or boundaries in place when we started that have "drifted" slightly, as we have become more experienced and relaxed about swinging in certain situations.  "
Like you or boundaries have shifted a little but they only shift with lots of discussion & sometimes compromise, so I guess only hubby affects my boundaries x |
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"We had certain rules or boundaries in place when we started that have "drifted" slightly, as we have become more experienced and relaxed about swinging in certain situations.
Like you or boundaries have shifted a little but they only shift with lots of discussion & sometimes compromise, so I guess only hubby affects my boundaries x"
Yes, we would sit down the day after a party or meet and chat about what we did and would we do anything different, or was there anything that we saw that we would like to try, and then redraw out boundaries. There were also few times when we would take a break during play to discuss things, often boundaries could get pushed a lot when we were both horny and feeling "up for it" lol  |
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"Nobody. My sexual boundaries are already in place for a reason, so nobody would make me compromise them."
Well said boundaries are in place for a reason to ensure that sexual pleasures are maintained and not tarnished by something your not comfortable with |
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"We had certain rules or boundaries in place when we started that have "drifted" slightly, as we have become more experienced and relaxed about swinging in certain situations.
Like you or boundaries have shifted a little but they only shift with lots of discussion & sometimes compromise, so I guess only hubby affects my boundaries x
Yes, we would sit down the day after a party or meet and chat about what we did and would we do anything different, or was there anything that we saw that we would like to try, and then redraw out boundaries. There were also few times when we would take a break during play to discuss things, often boundaries could get pushed a lot when we were both horny and feeling "up for it" lol "
It's the only way to make couple play work for both parties. In answer to the person who asked what boundaries can be moved etc. Any of them, when 1st begin to play as a couple & then as a single from a couple your boundaries can be very personal ones, with lots of discussion you change them a little, some become relaxed & some more rigid x |
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"Clicking with a sexy playmates.
am lost whats clicking got to do with boundaries lol"
Trusting them and enjoying their kinks and fun.
as in, click with someone... |
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Being here for so long, i have climbed the swinging ladder, got to the top, and know what runs to miss out when i climb it again lol
All it is, to try things once so you know your comfortable with it. I wouldnt stay away from someting i have never tried as it may turn out that i enjoy it.
Its all about knowing what you do and dont like  then you can set your limits  |
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"Being here for so long, i have climbed the swinging ladder, got to the top, and know what runs to miss out when i climb it again lol
All it is, to try things once so you know your comfortable with it. I wouldnt stay away from someting i have never tried as it may turn out that i enjoy it.
Its all about knowing what you do and dont like then you can set your limits "
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"Clicking with a sexy playmates.
am lost whats clicking got to do with boundaries lol
Trusting them and enjoying their kinks and fun.
as in, click with someone..."
Get that totally, that's why one offs are no good for me, if there's no click there's no exploration or pushing of the boundaries x |
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