"Me but by choice.  . Can't be doing with drama......Merry christmas."
I totally agree. No drama.
7.40am Xmas morning, sat in the hot tub
Still fairly dark here rain hitting the roof above. What's not to be happy about  |
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"Me as well. Gonna be a tough one tomorrow. "
Hi Vixenseeker, I've been meaning to message you since your post on MissP69's thread about loneliness. I was in your position in 2009 and 2010 was the worst year of my entire life. It was hard to get through a day and I found sometimes I had to live hour by hour.
But in 2011 I regained a sense of proportion, and then realised that such depth of remorse and misery was inappropriate. Seen in perspective, what happened was not my fault, and I rediscovered my sense of self and sense of dignity. I stopped being a punchbag and went to court. Best thing I ever did. I since discover this is a pretty normal arc of isolation and recovery.
Forgive me if this seems inappropriate or not relevant to your situation, but you seemed in such huge pain I wanted to say something to assure you that you will not always feel this way.
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"Me as well. Gonna be a tough one tomorrow.
Hi Vixenseeker, I've been meaning to message you since your post on MissP69's thread about loneliness. I was in your position in 2009 and 2010 was the worst year of my entire life. It was hard to get through a day and I found sometimes I had to live hour by hour.
But in 2011 I regained a sense of proportion, and then realised that such depth of remorse and misery was inappropriate. Seen in perspective, what happened was not my fault, and I rediscovered my sense of self and sense of dignity. I stopped being a punchbag and went to court. Best thing I ever did. I since discover this is a pretty normal arc of isolation and recovery.
Forgive me if this seems inappropriate or not relevant to your situation, but you seemed in such huge pain I wanted to say something to assure you that you will not always feel this way.
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I thoroughly enjoyed my solitary Christmas actually, and this is a bit disturbing. I'm worried I might grow to enjoy my own company more and more, become increasingly selfish and end up as a recluse. Anyone else worry about this? |
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mrs has always worked christmas normally 12.5 hour shifts.
we buy presents via internet mostly .
and no turkey ,no boxes and boxes of food we don't need. I spend the day the same as any other and like it that way.
OH i forgot theres scrooged, and many other films i saw before 3o times and programs where celebrities talk about christmas years ago on tv .e.g morcame and wise xmas special. whats on now .stricktly come feckin prancing about. bah humbug
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I was alone christmas day too, i didant even cook a turkey, I treated it as an extra sunday so had a chicken and stuffing sandwich
But i seen plenty of christmas dinner pics on snapchat and facebook so i didant fel left out but a little bit jelous yes lol
But i will admit i did feel lonely around 8pm
But today is another day and its off to watch the rugby
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