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Block, delete, move on works for me. Usually not worth the explaination time, if they don't treat you respectfully in the first place they're unlikely to appreciate what you've got to say. Best to manage it the way that feels right to you though, not everyone can be as cut n dried as me X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Block, delete, move on works for me. Usually not worth the explaination time, if they don't treat you respectfully in the first place they're unlikely to appreciate what you've got to say. Best to manage it the way that feels right to you though, not everyone can be as cut n dried as me X"
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over a year ago
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. "
yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
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"Yeah sack him off.
And well hello there looking for a new fuck buddy lol x haha lol going to actually enjoy xmas first before anything else "
Wish you could be in my Christmas stocking lol  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah sack him off.
And well hello there looking for a new fuck buddy lol x haha lol going to actually enjoy xmas first before anything else
Wish you could be in my Christmas stocking lol x"
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ? "
I'm assuming you were a willing party to that arrangement? What's changed to make it a piss take? Doesn't seem to be about worth from that seems like someone changed what they wanted. Which is fine but best to see it for what it was X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I have completely changed my mind about things now x
I'm assuming you were a willing party to that arrangement? What's changed to make it a piss take? Doesn't seem to be about worth from that seems like someone changed what they wanted. Which is fine but best to see it for what it was X"
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I have completely changed my mind about things now x
I'm assuming you were a willing party to that arrangement? What's changed to make it a piss take? Doesn't seem to be about worth from that seems like someone changed what they wanted. Which is fine but best to see it for what it was X"
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ? "
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin? |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?"
I think it's fine for someone to change their mind but I wouldn't see that as having his cake etc, that's the premise upon which it started. Maybe the thread is up for his benefit or maybe his wife's? Probably best sorted in a less public way & just blocked. You've got lots of offers to sift through, hopefully next time with a FB you'll both know what you want it to look like. It's not easy X |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?
I think it's fine for someone to change their mind but I wouldn't see that as having his cake etc, that's the premise upon which it started. Maybe the thread is up for his benefit or maybe his wife's? Probably best sorted in a less public way & just blocked. You've got lots of offers to sift through, hopefully next time with a FB you'll both know what you want it to look like. It's not easy X"
Agree with Peachy about the public thing. Bit cringey. He obviously didn't want whatever it was you did OP. All the best in finding what you want   |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?"
thats what i thought. A fuck buddy is just that a buddy you fuck now and again.It shouldn't be more complicated than that. |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?
I think it's fine for someone to change their mind but I wouldn't see that as having his cake etc, that's the premise upon which it started. Maybe the thread is up for his benefit or maybe his wife's? Probably best sorted in a less public way & just blocked. You've got lots of offers to sift through, hopefully next time with a FB you'll both know what you want it to look like. It's not easy X
Agree with Peachy about the public thing. Bit cringey. He obviously didn't want whatever it was you did OP. All the best in finding what you want "
this wasn't "public" not that harsh |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ?
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?
I think it's fine for someone to change their mind but I wouldn't see that as having his cake etc, that's the premise upon which it started. Maybe the thread is up for his benefit or maybe his wife's? Probably best sorted in a less public way & just blocked. You've got lots of offers to sift through, hopefully next time with a FB you'll both know what you want it to look like. It's not easy X
Agree with Peachy about the public thing. Bit cringey. He obviously didn't want whatever it was you did OP. All the best in finding what you want this wasn't "public" not that harsh "
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You just have to do what's right for you at the end of the day no matter what anyone else thinks. If you think the FB is taking the piss then there is sod all you can do about that, it's in your mind and that's that. You don't need mine or anyone else's approval to live your life your way (within reason of course), you only get one shot at it, make the most of it and enjoy yourself |
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"Just be honest with them tell them surely they understand if you just fuck buddys. If they don't understand then block them delete and move on. yeah can not have another year like this 1 he swinging with his mrs then meeting others with me it's taking the piss cake & eat it comes to mind surely I'm worth more than that ? I meant for the FB to see x
I'm confused, what more should he give, if you are "fuck buddies" surely he's just doing what it says on the tin?
I think it's fine for someone to change their mind but I wouldn't see that as having his cake etc, that's the premise upon which it started. Maybe the thread is up for his benefit or maybe his wife's? Probably best sorted in a less public way & just blocked. You've got lots of offers to sift through, hopefully next time with a FB you'll both know what you want it to look like. It's not easy X
Agree with Peachy about the public thing. Bit cringey. He obviously didn't want whatever it was you did OP. All the best in finding what you want this wasn't "public" not that harsh
Anyone can read the forums "
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"Anyone in the whole wide world can read the forums, you don't need to be a member, although I meant public as in accessible for him & his wife X"
No it wasn't accessible for him to read x
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I'm confused. You were pissed off because he was swinging with his wife and also meeting you?
That's a pretty standard set up when your FB is a married swinger.
Is there more to the story, or were you pissed because he played with his wife?
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"I'm confused. You were pissed off because he was swinging with his wife and also meeting you?
That's a pretty standard set up when your FB is a married swinger.
Is there more to the story, or were you pissed because he played with his wife?
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there's a lot more Hun couldn't even begin to tell you it was a lesson for me not to ever put myself in tha situation again x |
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Is there more to the story, or were you pissed because he played with his wife?
there's a lot more Hun couldn't even begin to tell you it was a lesson for me not to ever put myself in tha situation again x"
That sounds like a difficult situation. Sometimes it's harder to walk away than stay.
I hope it hasn't put you off. Here's to bigger and better things for you in 2019! |
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Is there more to the story, or were you pissed because he played with his wife?
there's a lot more Hun couldn't even begin to tell you it was a lesson for me not to ever put myself in tha situation again x
That sounds like a difficult situation. Sometimes it's harder to walk away than stay.
I hope it hasn't put you off. Here's to bigger and better things for you in 2019! "
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