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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something light that shows they've read the profile, so fit what we're looking for. It's a rare occurrence though, hence why single guys are blocked again X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Makes sense.
I find I read all the profiles before I message. Also, I know I am verified but some people are after quite specific things. Or the ones you message exactly as their profile says they just delete your message haha
Very hard to get some messages back as a male |
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I think, more importantly, people usually read the senders profile before the message. So your opening message is pretty much just a link to your profile. That's where your efforts should be focused.
Content wise, we respond to something that's easy going / funny or something open ended that we can respond to.
If you met us in a bar while queuing for a drink, what would you say? "Hi how are you" seems nice but our reply will probably stop at "good, thanks". If you make some witty observation about the bar / other patrons / something you noticed about us, then we're likely to respond. |
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"I think, more importantly, people usually read the senders profile before the message. So your opening message is pretty much just a link to your profile. That's where your efforts should be focused.
Content wise, we respond to something that's easy going /
funny or something open ended that we can respond to.
I always read the profile before the message when I receive one.
If you met us in a bar while queuing for a drink, what would you say? "Hi how are you" seems nice but our reply will probably stop at "good, thanks". If you make some witty observation about the bar / other patrons / something you noticed about us, then we're likely to respond. "
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over a year ago
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"I always send a good first message. And add a title what they ask and a face pik and still no reply. "
Because you can put all you like into a message but it's down to personal choice & if you're not for them, in some way there's no obligation to respond. A lack of reply is considered a no in the rules of Fab X |
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"I always send a good first message. And add a title what they ask and a face pik and still no reply.
Because you can put all you like into a message but it's down to personal choice & if you're not for them, in some way there's no obligation to respond. A lack of reply is considered a no in the rules of Fab X"
I understand it's a no. Just can be frustrating when it takes weeks for someone to answer also I probably get lost in the messages.
But thanks for the feedback |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On fair enough. Now I Get it.
But I don’t do that and still it gets deleted straight away.
Which I suppose it saves time if they don’t like my profile etc |
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