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over a year ago
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I wasnt impressed by the fella who tried to go without a condom with my wife last night. I would have thought that using one was the default setting and you check to see if its okay to go without. Put a bit of a damper on the evening there after for me.
Can any one suggest any devices that a woman can use as effective as a condom to stop (or reduce) the risks of infection?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasnt impressed by the fella who tried to go without a condom with my wife last night. I would have thought that using one was the default setting and you check to see if its okay to go without. Put a bit of a damper on the evening there after for me.
Can any one suggest any devices that a woman can use as effective as a condom to stop (or reduce) the risks of infection?
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There is nothing & why should you even think of using something else just because some guy lacked respect. It's a shame it has to be done but I always wear by the reach around & feel before they enter, if it's not there I shake them away X |
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"I wasnt impressed by the fella who tried to go without a condom with my wife last night. I would have thought that using one was the default setting and you check to see if its okay to go without. Put a bit of a damper on the evening there after for me.
Can any one suggest any devices that a woman can use as effective as a condom to stop (or reduce) the risks of infection?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well good job he was there as I didn't even think anyone would have the balls to try and fuck someone without a condom unless you'd already met and spoke about it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That is exactly what I'll be doing from now on .
I'm glad my husband was there or I'd of been going for an std check instead of stuffing my face with Chinese 
I was very surprised when he told the guy no fucking chance , really put a damper on the night for us, inwaa having soooooo much sexy fun up until then 
E xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes this is true.
Unfortunately for his selfishness we high tailed it out of the room not long after, up until that point there was alot of bodies and alot of sexy fun
E xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes this is true.
Unfortunately for his selfishness we high tailed it out of the room not long after, up until that point there was alot of bodies and alot of sexy fun
E xx"
Then I dragged you to a room and made up for it lol xx |
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"Yes this is true.
Unfortunately for his selfishness we high tailed it out of the room not long after, up until that point there was alot of bodies and alot of sexy fun
E xx
Then I dragged you to a room and made up for it lol xx"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh you definitely made up for it .
I think I'm still upset actually, maybe I need more making up for it
Cant wait to see you again you little sexy minx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had that before so disrespectful and takes the moment away. If you look on our profile safe sex can not be more apparent and yet still single men try. For us they never get invited back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have had that before so disrespectful and takes the moment away. If you look on our profile safe sex can not be more apparent and yet still single men try. For us they never get invited back. "
Always a chancer about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clearly has no respect for women if he did that. At least if he wanted that should of asked in advance to have a clear yes or no not just try and be sneaky. "
Yeah agree with you there, thankfully my husband was keeping an eye on what was going on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember when barbers used to ask if sir wanted a little something for weekend after you had your trim or shave? In my early teens I wondered what it was he was taking out of the drawer and handing over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shouldn't have been you that left though OP, He should have been shamed out the place really.
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We are fairly new to swinging that was the first time we had invited half the club to join us , so we werent sure if that was the norm there and it wasnt a chance we were taking .
I wanna live to keep swinging hah not die of an sti |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seen it plenty of times in clubs but never at partys or group meets.
I think that some idiots think they can get away with it."
oh he clearly did , was a shame though as everyone was having so much fun and the rest of the gentlemen there were decent , shame I didn't get to try more of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember when barbers used to ask if sir wanted a little something for weekend after you had your trim or shave? In my early teens I wondered what it was he was taking out of the drawer and handing over "
Oh haha
Well I never new that but I've never been to a barber, and at the lady a hairdressers we for the ears talked off us and no condoms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can any one suggest any devices that a woman can use as effective as a condom to stop (or reduce) the risks of infection?
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They make condoms for women as well as men 
As for "Stop or Reduce" the risks of infections well some such as HPV which can cause cancer genital warts etc condoms dont protect against it at all.
There only limited to very few infections which are easily treated! The bad ones you cant protect against, not unless you dont touch someone full stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That is disgusting and scary!"
Great to see so many men with the same amount of respect as us .
Seriously the more I think about it the more it freaks me out .
I've had full sex with 1 man from fab and well my husband fucks me are all all the time , so I'm lucky this was a lesson i learnt before my numbers go up .
Was remarkably stupid of me not to check .
And take his word for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totaly disrespectful "
It was but it also opened my eyes , as I said previously I've only had sex with 1 man apart from my husband so thankfully it's a lesson i learnt very early on .
From now on I'll check and keep checking that little fucker is still on |
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Femidoms can be used. They are inserted vaginally, and this can be done hours before sex.
They are more expensive though.
But still, that shouldn't have happened and glad you addressed it. Don't forget to report him to the club too - I believe sex without a condom when one had been agreed is actually a form of sexual assault and should be treated with the highest degree of seriousness. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Femidoms can be used. They are inserted vaginally, and this can be done hours before sex.
They are more expensive though.
But still, that shouldn't have happened and glad you addressed it. Don't forget to report him to the club too - I believe sex without a condom when one had been agreed is actually a form of sexual assault and should be treated with the highest degree of seriousness."
I will look for a femidon now.
Not sure why I never thought of using one before , we are fairly new , only been out 3 times , I was very naive but thankfully my lush husband always has his eye on me |
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"Femidoms can be used. They are inserted vaginally, and this can be done hours before sex.
They are more expensive though.
But still, that shouldn't have happened and glad you addressed it. Don't forget to report him to the club too - I believe sex without a condom when one had been agreed is actually a form of sexual assault and should be treated with the highest degree of seriousness.
I will look for a femidon now.
Not sure why I never thought of using one before , we are fairly new , only been out 3 times , I was very naive but thankfully my lush husband always has his eye on me "
Unfortunately they are not as as good as condoms protecting against STI's so if I were you I would still insist on the male version. If it is sti's you're concerned about and not just pregnancy then a guy can still infect you by rubbing his penis against your vagina and also by oral sex. this also goes both ways with some sti's. There are ricks you take with this lifestyle and so many advocate safe sex on their profile but don't practice it!
Safe sex is practical my only stipulation when playing so be safe and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always check. Always.  either “help” put it on during a blow job, or a quick feel to guide it inside. Always check.
Whilst the expectation is there, you never know and it’s down to BOTH participants to check and have the conversation at the time or before. |
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"Always check. Always. either “help” put it on during a blow job, or a quick feel to guide it inside. Always check.
Whilst the expectation is there, you never know and it’s down to BOTH participants to check and have the conversation at the time or before. "
This.
Also, in a group situation, be aware guys might keep the same condom on going between partners, stopped a guy who was about to get intimate with one woman having just rolled off another one... When I pointed it out he couldn't see what the problem was! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm alright Jack! That's as bad as not using one.
"Always check. Always. either “help” put it on during a blow job, or a quick feel to guide it inside. Always check.
Whilst the expectation is there, you never know and it’s down to BOTH participants to check and have the conversation at the time or before.
This.
Also, in a group situation, be aware guys might keep the same condom on going between partners, stopped a guy who was about to get intimate with one woman having just rolled off another one... When I pointed it out he couldn't see what the problem was! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s disgusting that men wouldn’t want to make sure first if it’s okay you must have hawk eyes to spot that one "
Where im concerned he sure does , he doesn't miss a trick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always check. Always. either “help” put it on during a blow job, or a quick feel to guide it inside. Always check.
Whilst the expectation is there, you never know and it’s down to BOTH participants to check and have the conversation at the time or before.
This.
Also, in a group situation, be aware guys might keep the same condom on going between partners, stopped a guy who was about to get intimate with one woman having just rolled off another one... When I pointed it out he couldn't see what the problem was! "
Oh that's yuck
Thanks all for the advice, much appreciated |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Shouldn't have been you that left though OP, He should have been shamed out the place really.
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We are fairly new to swinging that was the first time we had invited half the club to join us , so we werent sure if that was the norm there and it wasnt a chance we were taking .
I wanna live to keep swinging hah not die of an sti "
Safety first always xx
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"It’s disgusting that men wouldn’t want to make sure first if it’s okay you must have hawk eyes to spot that one
Where im concerned he sure does , he doesn't miss a trick "
It’s good someone’s got eye on these creeps |
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This is absolutely shameful! I would of reported him straight away. Any chance of a description so we can all avoid him lol. Completely unacceptable! I'd of gone far more mental than u did. Thank god u noticed. We've had guys try this in clubs too. Sometimes it's so dark but I'm always so careful. What an arsehole xxmiss |
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"This is absolutely shameful! I would of reported him straight away. Any chance of a description so we can all avoid him lol. Completely unacceptable! I'd of gone far more mental than u did. Thank god u noticed. We've had guys try this in clubs too. Sometimes it's so dark but I'm always so careful. What an arsehole xxmiss "
It put a dampner on our night, my husband took me out of that room, quick as a flash , was a shame as there was a lot of us in there and a few fellas left with hard ons 
Hopefully they forgive me although is was unavoidable as it did frighten us , good job my husband has me as his top priority at all times or I'd of been far more devastated than i was then .
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"It’s disgusting that men wouldn’t want to make sure first if it’s okay you must have hawk eyes to spot that one
Where im concerned he sure does , he doesn't miss a trick
It’s good someone’s got eye on these creeps "
Yes I am lucky that he is always there and no matter what hes doing always making sure I'm safe. |
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