Looking for regular kinky play pals

Woman in Bognor Regis, South East, UK

... "No more daytime fun for me from the 29th ??". Thursday

Joined: 10 months ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

I'm a polite, well mannered, 5ft 9 BBW kinky SUB with 11 piercings and 5 tattoos, mostly hidden from view. In an ENM marriage with my vanilla husband who supports me but doesn't get involved with this part of my life.

Recently collared by a wonderful Dom who actively encourages me to play and explore with other guys. He has my complete kink loyalty so please don't try to think that I'd be looking for a replacement. Anyone making an attempt will be seen as disrespectful and I won't be given permission to play with you.

What I'm looking for:-

A regular kinky fuck buddy that I can go to events/parties/clubs with.

I need someone that can dominate ME mentally and physically which means I need you to be over 5ft 9. Don't be offended if the reason we don't match is your height.

I'll want to see your face, without sunglasses!

A social for me is non-negotiable, for safety reasons, and I'll want it to be in a public space, ideally in daylight.

If that goes well I'll want to kiss and may play straight away if it's an option, though this is not guaranteed.

I do drive but tend to only look within a 30 mile radius. Anyone living outside of that, not sure how you expect to have regular meets ??

I don't have many hard no's but safe sex is a 100% requirement.

Biggest of all - honesty - if we arrange to meet, don't be a prick and decide to ghost me. Have the balls to say actually, I don't fit what you want. Im a big girl and will have way more respect for you.

Also if something has come up all I ask is to be kept in the loop and we can raincheck. As such I may set up several meets in a day from now on as I'm 6 months down the line and no where near where I want to be.

Seeing as I'm asking for the impossible a guy with tattoos and/or piercings are a major turn on for me, dpm camos massive brownie points ??

Normally I wouldn't be so blunt in saying what I want but recently I've been called all sorts of things purely because 'sorry, we aren't a match' isnt reason enough and it doesn't sit right to me to be rude. As such I will no longer go into details why, but it's likely because you don't meet what I'm looking for I'm afraid.

PS don't call me love, darling, dearest etc that gives me the ick and is an immediate turn off.

PPS I only SUB, and I only play with COCK

51 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Fabulous
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
More than 5 piercings

Looking For

Men
Aged from 30 to 45
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Safe Sex, Making Videos, DP, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*ruth1234 (50), Man on 10 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady today. She was so easy to talk to. We chatted about our kinks for a few hours.. We were a little fruity in the car??.Very much looking forward to meeting her again.

*adbodnbeard (41), Man on 6 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
True lady . Treat her well and she will repay 1000 times more x

*9thisbe (54), Man on 24 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to meet up with this sexy lady. So easy to be around and so easy to have a conversation with!! About lots of things. Naughty or not. Got a sneak preview on how sexy she feels and how wet she will get. Fantastic kisser and this lady deepthroats with ease. More pls!! Xx

*ond (50), Man on 14 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Lovely meet....great fun and interesting conversation. Very naughty lady indeed! Loves pleasure and isn't scared to vocalise it! X

*uddy80 (40), Man on 10 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Had a wonderful meeting with this gorgeous lady. Cup of coffee and some chat lead to a very steamy session. Knows whats she's wants and makes all the right sounds. Squirts alot!! Cant wait for the next time x

*pencerabc123 (56), Man on 6 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Don’t be fooled by her strong over confidence along approach- when you finally get past that you will find you have your dream nymphomaniac who is dying to please you. If you get this far join the privileged club and realise how lucky you have been mmmmm oh yes!!

*iga300 (34), Man on 4 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gorgeous lady the other day and wow ! What an afternoon of amazing sex She is gorgeous , amazing curves and ready for everything you can give her Hope I can see you very soon !

*aphunter (46), Man on 18 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I loved today, it was like meeting an old friend. Kissing and squeezing boobs, hearing her so turned on made me want to push her against her car, only if we had a bit more time. I had to hold back but oh my god I wanted more. Lovely lady who knows what she wants and is sexy as fuck to squeeze and cuddle.

*an South Coast (45), Man on 14 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
A lovely sexy lady. Very happy I met her and looking forward to our next meeting.

*mega1 (51), Man on 2 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
It’s been a couple of months since we met, we have stayed in touch since. Met for a drink and also to decide whether to make it more than that, and we did.what a breath of fresh air,she is a very pretty lady and i also couldn’t find an area she needs to impress on as she’s super enthusiastic, that in itself is a huge turn on. Personality is. My next turn on and she has that in abundance.she is very attentive and will definitely leave you wanting more… I am and I will enjoy the build up to the next time which we are as I speak already planning!..

*uguy5 (52), Man on 4 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met this lovely lady for a drink at lunchtime… the time went very quickly as she is so easy to talk to and get along with. A kiss to say goodbye was hot.. I had to work in the water on but she came back in the evening and we spent a nice few hours which was unexpected but great… She is very responsive Guys, if you get to meet her, treat her well… she’s one of the good ones

*heknurl (40), Man on 28 November 2025 by Webcam:
Very sexy lady and had a great time on cam! Can't wait to meet in person! Xx

*B3001 (40), Man on 26 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful woman for a social. Incredibly easy to feel comfortable around. Can’t wait to meet again!

*ink Panther (44), Man on 10 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Another kinky as hell meet with this complete and utter filth pot!!! If you like sex on the more extreme end of the spectrum and pushing limits then I cant recommend her enough. Great and relaxed conversation as well. What more could you want?!?

*inkyDoctor1 (53), Man on 22 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say like Ronseal says what it does it on the tin s genuine dub who loves to please and have more education

*carlet Chamber (49), Couple on 21 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
First time meeting this terrific lady at our BDSM event. Still quite a newbie in the scene she was naturally a bit nervous to start with. This didn’t last long and she was great company very open very confident. She will be a great addition to any party kink or vanilla. We would be happy to see her again. Please make it very soon

*o rush (46), Man on 14 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Scarlet and I now have met a few times. I can now tell confidently is pretty, smart, kind, skilled and delightfully greedy. Half woman-half tsunami with a hint of black hole that will swallow anything within her gravitational field, you give her 2 fingers and she’ll want the arm. I look forward to more times exploring together x

*ornylad4uCool (33), Man on 9 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Scarlett was an absolute pleasure to play with. She has a gorgeous body with curves that are even better in person, and she carries herself with a natural submissive energy that shines through from the start. She was open, responsive, and eager, giving herself over fully in a way that made the dynamic both powerful and exciting. What impressed me most was her willingness to be pushed, stretched, and tested while still staying connected and engaged — the balance of vulnerability and strength made the whole experience unforgettable. She responded beautifully, letting go in the moment and embracing the intensity. Highly recommended for anyone who appreciates a genuine, eager sub who knows how to surrender and make the session incredibly hot. (A few weeks ago)

*ossJ (46), Man on 25 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great to finally meet this minx at the nudist beach. Great kisser which had me instantly turned on. A gentleman never tells but let’s just say she is very good with her hands and mouth. A hot session on a hot day down the beach, looking forward to next time.