Looking for cuddles and kisses

Man in Chingford, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 22 hours ago

This is still a work in progress.

Think of it like me, as a first draft. If you want to be in on the second draft, I'd love to hear from you

Hi there, I've been loitering around this old joint since pre-Covid. Has been quite the journey. Have finally settled on the fact that I am a bit of a Pleasure Dom.

Just so the Dom bit of that doesn't do all the heavy lifting, if you're looking for the sort of rogering you'll still be feeling next year, I'm probably not the guy you're looking for. I'm more into taking my time, and enjoying the sensual as well as sensory side of things.

Cuddles, caresses and kisses are more my thing, both with and without blindfold or restraints ... hey I said sensual, not vanilla!

All that being said, my creative juices will be dry as the Sahara without some kind of connection.

Not saying we have to live in each others back pockets, just that you're unlikely to get much out of me if you're only looking for a ONS.

If on the other hand, getting to know someone properly before jumping into bed with them appeals to you, let's chat and see where the conversation takes us.

I hold my hand up to being a proud Grade A nerd, ask me if you want to know which direction my nerdiness leans ... it will be a pleasure to compare our nerd scars.

I never take myself seriously (as some of my friends-only pix will confirm), and will laugh at myself far more than at my own jokes :-)

I am a good listener as well as a passionate talker when the company is right.

I'm very happy to travel, even for a social if we have connected (even here, it's not always just about sex). The Friends bit of FWB always comes first.

I have been on a bit of a weight loss and fitness journey in the last six months and have shed 6st, so some of my pics won't necessarily accurately represent my current size. I'm happy to supply up to date pics if needed.

No isms that exclude are welcome here. There is beauty in all sizes, ages, and races.

Most recent STI test was done in April 2026 was negative across the board. Next test planned for early June. Yes we'll probably need to talk about that sort of thing for the sake of my regular partners as well as both of us.

PS To all the gentlemen out there, sorry I am still straight, but I am happy to be in an environment where members of all genders and persuasions express themselves in any combinations.

56 years old, Straight

6'6" 198cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 60
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Oral, Blindfolds, Adult Parties

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*ady Incognito (50), Woman on 15 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Bigfeller70 is an exceptional man and a tender, giving lover. He's a true pleasure Dom and loves seeing his partners enjoy themselves. I never fail to have a great time with him! Xx

*leverChick (46), Woman on 7 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
After chatting every day (which is unheard of for me) I had a very clear idea that we were going to get on. But N absolutely surpassed my expectations on every level. He is great company - but I already knew that, that was no surprise at all. His body is absolutely epic, his bulk is comforting, warm, sexy and he carries his weight with confidence and aplomb. Most of all, his touch is out of this world, he's gentle and caring, taking his time to explore, gauge reactions, never rushing, just spoiling me and treating me like a princess for hours on end. Cannot wait to see him again.

*leverChick (46), Woman on 21 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
This guy gives such good chat, the meeting in person was always going to be a let down... Except it wasn't! In person, he is just the same as his online persona, but with far better hugs. He's such good company - caring, funny, entertaining - and his hugs are exactly as awesome as you would expect from this loveable teddy bear.

*ady Incognito (50), Woman on 9 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
A gorgeous, genuine, funny guy who makes you feel fabulous - what more can you ask for? :-)

*oobookitty (49), Woman on 16 January 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful gent a couple of times and each time I've had so much fun. A genuinely lovely guy, a great friend and always so many orgasms, so many giggles and a wonderful time

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