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February 2022 - COVID UPDATE

Even though Boris has now dropped all legal requirements in relation to Covid we politely ask that all guests please do the decent and honourable thing

If you feel ill PLEASE stay away from our parties


MAY Parties

Saturday 7th - PENTHOUSE PLAYROOMS (formally known as Arousals) Dunstable, LUTON - THEME BLACK & BLING

Friday 13th - XTASIA, West Bromwich, West Midlands

Friday 27th - NO3 CLUB, Chorley, Lancashire


JUNE Parties

Saturday 4th - PENTHOUSE PLAYROOMS (formally known as Arousals) Dunstable, LUTON - THEME BMFC CORONATION PARTY (Lets find the KING & QUEEN of the BMFC)

Friday 10th - XTASIA, West Bromwich, West Midlands

Friday 24th - NO3 CLUB, Chorley, Lancashire - Theme TROPICAL NIGHTS


This profile has been set up to SIGNPOST people interested in the BLACKMANS FANCLUB to the BMFC website

I am NOT here to meet strangers

I rarely get the time to arrange private meets but when i do, its NEVER with strangers!!

Lets look at this sensibly, with an average of 80 guests at every BMFC party, why would i choose to meet a STRANGER when i can observe guests and approach them for a private meet!!??


So who am i?? .. I am Helen - Owner and founder of the BlackMans FanClub (BMFC) - a community for ladies and couples who appreciate BLACK GUYS and for the BLACK GUYS that enjoy being appreciated

All you need to know about the BMFC is explained within the BMFC website - just google BMFC and all will be revealed!!

I have NO intention of annoying FAB SWINGERS and have NO INTENTION of being banned from this site, so PLEASE DO NOT try to reserve a place here for one of my parties

Due to FAB censorship, it is also difficult for me to 'chat parties' here too, so just contact me via the BMFC site and we can openly discuss all things BMFC

When on the BMFC website, you will find a comprehensive FAQ page that should answer all of your questions anyway!!


We currently arrange Adult Parties every month at a variety of venues across the UK

KEEP AN EYE ON THE BMFC website for all the latest announcements (www.blackmansfanclub.co.uk)


For more info ie door times, prices, dress code, themes - just google BMFC and all will be revealed

Party Phone Number - (between MIDAY - 2200hrs)

Each venue is different, providing our members with an opportunity to pick and mix the venues that suite their individual tastes

ALL guests at a BMFC Party must be BMFC members (or members of the venue where i am hosting the party)

Membership for the BMFC is FREE and obtained by clicking on the CONTACT US ICON on the BMFC website

Remember - we would NEVER refuse admission to ANYONE based on the colour of your skin - but you must note that the BMFC is organised for ladies and couples who are attracted to BLACK GUYS - so if you are not a lady, nor half of a couple, nor a Black Guy, these parties may not be for you!)

Dont just believe the hype, check out the reviews within the clubs section on this site http://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/349 and my verifications displayed at the bottom of my profile

I take my reputation as a party organiser VERY seriously

You will never hear me slag off other organisers

Zero effort from you will result in zero effort from me

Interested in the BMFC? .. Then i hope to converse with you via the BMFC website and hope to eventually meet you at a party one day soon


56 years old, Bisexual

4'9"  147cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
3 or 4 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women
Aged from 25 to 60
Will meet smokers


Cannot accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*BCandBBWQueen (42), Couple on 8 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
The BMFC soirée at Penthouse Playrooms last night was filled with fun, friendly, sexy, mischievous hedonists. Helen’s hosting ensures the party atmosphere and the attitude of the attendees are spot on… everything is set up for maximum enjoyment. Great tunes, friendly staff, loads of space to play at the brilliant venue and a club full of gorgeous black men dressed to impress with loads of hot women chasing them!!! How can there be so much horny mischief under one roof? Thanks for a consistently awesome party and see you again next month xxx

*ayBlack (45), Man on 3 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
Another fantastic party last Friday at Xtasia. Thanks to Helen and Tasha. Well done to you both. Nice mixture of crowd and well attended to. Hope to attend another event soon J

*usty and him (50), Couple on 30 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
We attended the BMFC night at Xtasia last night. Great night, great crowd. The guys were respectful and polite, great mix of single and couples, we'd definitely recommend the night and the event xx

*lack1uk (38), Man on 26 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
I’m glad I managed to finally make it to one of these parties. Great hosts and party. I will definitely be going back.

*hitelovesblack (31), Couple on 23 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
This was our first time at a an organised event and Helen couldn't of made us more welcome if she tried. Helen is so friendly and will constantly have you laughing, she showed us around every room andand explained everything to us allowing us to be comfortable about the set up of the night. She even came and let us know there was a private room available as she seen us getting on with a guy, which ultimately led to some good fun. Thanks again Helen. Next time we are down from Scotland we will most definitely be back x

*rishmocha2 (52), Couple on 9 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
We have been regulars at Helens parties throughout the years but not attended bmfc at xastia, veryvdifferent vibe, great tunes hit that dancefloor and the majority of the men where very respectful, chatty and non pushy. Will make a weekend of it again sometimes T&K

*arlingboyuk (39), Man on 3 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
Fantantastic party held by Helen .lot of lovely people at the penthouse party .lovely music and great staff .thanks again

*BCblondie (41), Couple on 3 April 2022 by Meeting in person:
Another great night at Penthouse Playrooms for the latest BMFC party! Lots of sexy guys and a nice mix of new and old faces. Really good vibe, guys were respectful, Helen and her team are fantastic and topped with a good ratio of guys to girls/couples which made for a fun packed, hot night… I arrived early and left late and already looking forward to the next one! If your unfamiliar with Penthouse Playrooms or it’s on your ‘to do’ list then get down there as soon as you can, the clubs amazing! If you read my profile or you know what makes me tick and have similar tastes but have yet to experience a BMFC party, you really don’t know what your missing, it’s my fav night, I can’t recommend it highly enough xxx

*urlycreamycute (54), Woman on 12 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
I attended xtasia last night as I hadn't been since October.what a night the club was filled with so many sexy guys! Helen and team never fail to deliver. Thank you so much for a fabulous evening.

*laytime81 (40), Woman on 7 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
Great night at Penthouse Playrooms on Saturday. Helen is a legend and organises a good night, making sure she keeps an eye on everyone. It was a busy night with great music and a good mix of people. We will be back!

*ooking007 (52), Couple on 6 March 2022 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for hosting a great night. Loved the atmosphere, made new friends and can’t wait to come back. See you soon x

*arkpassions (37), Woman on 16 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Wow late veri...went to BMF AT EXTESIA in brum, FIRST TIME EVER WAYY OVERDUE Wow it was a buffet wish I had stayed longer but my ride had work in the morning its was like DICSNEY WORLD ALWAYS an amazing event met so many pple but I can hardly remember any user names... next time I'm bringing a notebook and a pen lolo staff was extremely sexy and friendly wish I could of hugged my cookie mami xx the dance floor the dj and the alcohol was superb I had a blast soooo worth my time hopefully I'll see u soon cookie girl much love blessings xx Mia

*urvy_Jayne (38), Woman on 10 February 2022 by Meeting in person:
Attended BMFC at Penthouse Playrooms on Saturday, it's been two years since my last BMFC and oh how I've missed it. Absolutely the best party I've been to since this started up again. Its a really great team running the party, and very sexy guests galore. You could say I was spoilt for choice, but I had an amazing night and look forward to coming back again soon.

*amonOlivia (42), Couple on 31 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Once again, Helen hosted an unbelievable party. Vibes and people were nice, and th e music was bubbling which meant I didn't have to dj this time??. This Chorley event is growing from strength to strength everytime and were certainly looking forward to the next one. Thanks to Helen and all the staff at No. 3.

*ewatches-iplaybig (32), Couple on 30 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
We attended our first BMFC party on Saturday at NO3, Absoloutley loved it! Helen made us feel so welcome and relaxed! Ann got to indulge in her fantasy and Verr got to happily watch. Such a professional well put together event. We will Definately be attending the next! Aswell as trying to get around each BMFC Event at each location! Thanks so much see you soon! Xxx

*otwife90 (44), Couple on 30 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
It's been a while since attending no3. And it was like we never left. Was a fabulous evening. Lovely mix of people nice seeing old and new friends. Helen always knows how to get the right company in. We will be back soon. ??

*aintscouple (47), Couple on 29 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Cracking bmfc night at no 3 hosted by this lovely friendly lady.A good mixture of couples,single ladies and respectful,friendly non pushy guys. We look forward to attending plenty more events in the future.

*rsCurvesMrCharm (42), Couple on 14 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
You will not meet a nicer person than Helen , hosts amazing parties Makes sure everyone has a great time and thoughtful beyond what she should be . One of the nicest people you could meet x

*ymruambyth (50), Couple on 9 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Finally attended a BMFC and was great to see such a well managed event. The club was Buzzing and everyone we spoke to was polite, respectful and most of all having fun. Music from DJ Prime set the mood nicely. Kudos to the event hosts and the amazing staff at PP :)

*usic247 (33), Man on 8 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was great meeting you at the BMFC. It was my first time going for the new year's party. I had a great time and will be going to future events!!

*ilky_CocoPuffs (35), Couple on 5 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Another banger!! BMFC parties are always a great night out. The atmosphere is always buzzing, the tunes are always banging and you get to meet some great people. Can't wait to see what February brings. Keep up the good work and see you soon.

*laze22 (43), Woman on 4 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Helen!!! Omg, I’m still speechless with the array of talent on NYD @ Penthouse Playrooms! I’ve honestly not seen as many super sexy men in one room! My mouth was literally drooling from the delicious, chocolate essence! Being my first BMFC event, one thing I know is, it most definitely won’t be my last. Thank you for hosting me! The whole team were amazing. Thank you for our real as they come chat, I took it all in. Thank you for the blankets, the love and most of all the calibre of hotties!! See you at the next one!! Blaze xx

*usty (43), Couple on 2 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
We have been going to BMFC at penthouse playrooms for some time. Helen is a great host, full of fun & always makes us feel very welcome. Really look forward to our time there x

*offee (39), Man on 2 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
It was my second BMFC at Penthouse Playrooms. I booked last minute, but Helen was accommodating and added me to the guest list. The staff were polite and very friendly. I had a great start to the new year that night and met a great mix of amazing people. Thanks to you for all my encounters last night and Helen for another stellar event.

*uddy Derrick (34), Man on 2 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
First time at the bmfc luton venue, thanks for letting us in last minute, had a nice time meeting at your venue, would definitely be back soon for more.

*rishmocha2 (52), Couple on 2 January 2022 by Meeting in person:
Helen takes a no prisoners, when you come to her parties ypu neex to be on yoir A game....so guys wise up, be prepared and then come in and enjoy the sexy vibe. Great tunes, lots of lovely horny people. Be respectful, open and then ypu can join the merryground ride. Fantastic start to 2022 ummm still horny!!

*sabella123 (39), Couple on 12 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
We've attended a few BMFC parties at Dunstable now and have always had a brilliant time. We've been to quite a few other clubs over the years but nothing compares to the vibe and sexiness of BMFC and we LOVE the recent re-furb to Penthouse Playrooms. The club is overflowing with sexy people having fun sexually and also socially. Helen made us feel really welcome from the first time we came when she gave us a tour and talked through the rules which was really appreciated. She's a great club organiser and we always feel really safe there. We would def recommend this club to anyone and will be back there soon.x

*ertifiedLoverBoyy (29), Man on 6 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
I’ve attended a few BMFC’s events but Saturdays event was something else... nothing but great vibes. Sexy ladies, good music and a clean venue. These events are not to be missed for sure.. until next time Helen xx

*ister Boomerang (41), Man on 2 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
I have been to quite a few of Helen's parties this year and it was great to finally have a proper chat with her at No.3 club this past weekend! She is so lovely and really looks after her guests from start to finish! Thank you for making mine and my swinging partner in crime's 2nd anniversary such special occasion we had a lot of fun! See you again in 2022! X

*antalizing Teaser (45), Woman on 28 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
I have been attending BMFC for many years now, no party compares to the atmosphere here, warm and welcoming with lots of hot women and men. Perfectly run nights, the staff do an amazing job, bring on many more years x

*wo on wire (60), Couple on 8 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
It’s was our first time attending a BMFC event and were greatest warmly by Helen and all here team which made us feel settled and at home . What a great night made memorable by fantastic DJ/music, staff , guests , venue and shenanigans! We will definitely be returning very shortly and can’t wait x x

*ellowFox (28), Woman on 8 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Attended a few BMFCs now in Penthouse playrooms and Helen never fails to run an incredible party with a well selected choice of guests and a grea vibe. Always full of sexy people, with a great DJ, a well priced bar and fantastic staff and security making sure everyone is having fun. Penthouse is a great venue with many rooms and hidden spaces to be explored and a huge dance floor. Can't wait to attend the next one and also make it to BMFC in the other venues it is held! Fox xxx

*ilky_CocoPuffs (35), Couple on 8 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another LIT BMFC party at Penthouse over the weekend. As soon as we stepped in the party the tunes were banging and the drinks were flowing. Good vibes all night as we tore up the dance floor. There were some sexy women that caught our attention so a great time was had. Thank you for a wonderful evening. Can't wait to see what December brings.

*ustme_Pixie (42), Woman on 7 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Attended my 1st BMFC last night. Helen was very helpful leading to my attendance. Got there helpful and friendly staff. Saw people I knew so immediately felt at ease. DJ was excellent playing good music all night. Very good looking sexy people. Thoroughly enjoyed my night. Loved the venue loads of little secret play spots. Defo would go again. xxx

*rla Lewis (49), Couple on 7 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
What an amazing event last night at Penthouse. Our first time attending one of the BMFC parties. The club was jammed of hot guys and couples. All were polite, respectful and we had a lot of fun. Well done to all that organised it. Great music, hosts and company. Big love to all we met last night. Orla & Lewis xx

*lackpudding77 (44), Man on 27 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
As a previous attendee of BMFC event at Arousal for 10 years Helen was always welcoming and attentive to all visitors. Thank you for taking care of me in my very early Arousal visits to my veteran years :)

*litterbabe (52), Woman on 2 June 2021 by Meeting in person:
Thank you so much for inviting me to the preview night of Penthouses Playgrounds, I absolutely can only imagine what that place will look like filled with your gorgeous clientele. No doubt a beautiful club filled with very sexy people, having a good time and making memories. It was really lovely to see you both again. Xxx

*BCblondie (41), Couple on 31 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
Wow, wow, wow... Preview Evening for the new Penthouse Playrooms (formally Arousals).. thanks so much for the invitation and the opportunity to look around and see what’s been done to the place. Although the venue has always been a personal favourite of ours, the standard and quality of the improvements, means that this place will now be THE place to go... it’s genuinely that good. It oozes class, it’s a very seductive environment, the new owners have really gone the extra mile and believe us when we say that this place will be a GAME CHANGER and a benchmark for any other club we’ve visited. Feel very privileged to be given a sneak preview and cannot wait to go again. This place is something else.

*andJ2013 (48), Couple on 31 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
Helen Thank you so much for the venue premier invite to see the improvements that have been made to Penthouse Playrooms (formerly Arousals). The quality of the work speaks for itself - this is such a great venue and now with so many play areas it is going to be fantastic. Cant wait to join you for the BMFC relaunch party on 03rd July Great venue, fantastic host, lovely security!! Who could ask for more?! Love CandJ xx

*heklumps (38), Couple on 7 June 2020 by Webcam:
Thanks for setting up the group chat Hope to catch u live in person real soon! X

*aintscouple (47), Couple on 29 May 2020 by Webcam:
Really enjoyed being part of the last couple of bmfc cyber nights helen is a fantastic host.

*r Sensual (29), Man on 17 May 2020 by Webcam:
Such a great idea by this lovely putting on the BMFC cyber nights to raise spirits during this time. She’s a wonderful host and I very much look forward to attending a BMFC party once the lockdown comes to an end

*arkpassions (37), Woman on 17 May 2020 by Webcam:
Had an amazing fun cyber Bmfc,nite it was really hot and sexy to view alllll dat dam hot chocolate dic?!!!...girl..lolo I had me a delightful selfplay for now lolol thanks again for keeping us naughty sexy freaks entertained in thease sad Corona times,stay blessed cookie heart xx Mia

*ust4sin1968 (54), Couple on 3 May 2020 by Webcam:
Well, we joined the BMFC cyber party last night, was great to see so many people in the London room. It was also brilliant to catch up with Helen again, as it’s been far to long. She is a “what you see, is what you get” lady. Straight talking but 100% a genuine nice person with a big heart. See you soon Xxxx

*0ckasaurus (37), Man on 3 May 2020 by Webcam:
Had the pleasure of being invited to my first bmfc cyber party, and what a night it was! Great host , lots for fabulous fun and flirting. Definitely recommended. I look forward to the next party

*ing n yang 2 (57), Couple on 7 March 2020 by Meeting in person:
we attended the BMFC event in Chorley last week and what a night we had , well I did while hubby watched lol , the lovely Helen met us on arrival as she does , a truly amazing lady who make you feel at home straight away with her bubbly personality ,if you are looking for a fun filled night in a relaxed sexy and safe environment then give the BMFC events a go , they are very well run , all the guys are very relaxed and non pushy and there is always the right amount of guys to couples and single females , the only other thing I can say is take extra lube , these boys are big lol , ,ps Helen can you thank Wayne for me , we have some unfinished business hahaha , thanks again for another amazing night , luv ya , Marie n Gordy xxx

*BWL80 (41), Woman on 7 March 2020 by Meeting in person:
Another brilliant and fantastic night at BMFC in Sutton last night. I go every party there and it’s the one I look forward to every month. Always a great host and very welcoming. It was nice to see new faces and old friends. Thanks Tasha ( hope you feel better soon) and the rest of the fang. See you next month xxxxx Jules

*elanB2 (52), Woman on 8 February 2020 by Meeting in person:
An amazing night last night at Sutton X pure class!

*ewtoLeyland (53), Man on 24 November 2019 by Meeting in person:
Amazing club little helen is a gem hope to meet sgsin soon xx

*ocklovingslut84 (37), Woman on 12 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
An amazing night at Xtasia for the bmfc event. Best night I’ve ever had there. Lots of fun had, great choice of guys, will definitely be back soon

*rMMissB (45), Couple on 7 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Leave her a message . Hi Helen . Thank you so much for organising a fantastic BMFC party at arousals . This was our first time . We booked last minute.Staff were polite and super friendly. You put my partner and I at ease with your tour. We had a great night and met some amazing people thanks to you.. Baz and Michaela xx


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