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Joined: over a year ago |
Bobby
46 years old, Straight
5'10"
178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Couples (MF)
Women
Aged from 18 to 55
Will meet smokers
Can
accommodate
Can
travel
Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Safe Sex, Rimming, Oral, Blindfolds, Adult Parties
*penToNewThings40 (32), Woman
on 27 May 2026
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Oh! Where to start with Bobby. Super friendly and a lovely person. Had such a laugh at the last HOED event. Exactly what fab is all about. Can’t be without Bobs at any event! Xx
*i_Sasha (55), Woman
on 27 May 2026
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I know I've verified this one before, but he's such a special fab friend that I needed to say it again lol. Thank you for being in my fab life and making this journey such a fun time, full of laughs, never a dull moment, but always with a genuine interaction and mutual understanding. Big respect ?? xxx
*ouse_of_Earthly_Delights (46), Couple
on 25 May 2026
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Once again B attended our parties, this one being our Garden of Earthly Delights Weekender.
B is a regular at our parties and this time we were very fortunate to see B’s DJing skills which were mighty impressive. As always he enjoyed chatting and socialising with the other guests. Thanks mate for your continued support.
*i_Sasha (55), Woman
on 2 May 2026
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Love being in your company, you're everything a fab friend should be. And I'm glad you're my friend! Reliable, fun, generous, genuine, non-judgemental, chatty, interesting, sexy. I could go on! Mwah xxxx
*issdgush (41), Woman
on 5 April 2026
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Well what can I say. Handsome, intelligent, charming and funny. Had a lovely evening with Bobby. From his beautiful eyes and interesting conversations it wasnt long before we headed to the room for some fun. Hit the spot more than once. Just what I needed. Xx
*oingForGold (47), Couple
on 5 April 2026
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We spent a Friday eve in Cardiff with the handsome as hell Bobby! A wonderful evening in his excellent company with drinks and karaoke singing before retiring back to our hotel where Kelly was extremely pleased, say no more :-)
A beautiful man in every way.
*alleys Mistress (44), Woman
on 17 March 2026
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When this darling fell into my messages he caught me instantly with the banter and boy don't I love banter if you can laugh me into the sack your onto a winner and bobby reminds me so much of the old swinging days no drama honest friendly polite sexy and knows exactly what he wants no awkwardness just laughing and bad laungage off me of course because he's a gent. Amazing sex and very passionate and we def bounce of each other literally ha now my bag is packed for next time cable ties my fav knickers to stuff in your mouth and a dozen pasties for when I finished with you ha
*i_Sasha (55), Woman
on 23 February 2026
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I love my Bobby!! Every time we meet it gets better. Our spark...It's electric! xxx
*ammies_Pussy (40), Woman
on 23 February 2026
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I had such a great night! I was really nervous but bobpat and his gorgeous lady made me feel at ease straight away. We laughed and laughed and laughed some more and once we got up to the bedroom it was incredible. Thank you, it was just what I needed x
*urn Up The Music (46), Woman
on 15 February 2026
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After knowing Bob for a few months it was great to catch up at a recent party. He’s sexy and funny and I loved catching up! So very glad the DNACPR I had prepared wasn’t needed ;). He can certainly eat cake very well and his clean up services are impeccable :) see you soon x
*utterflyFern (34), Woman
on 14 February 2026
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Taken us almost 2 years but finally had a reunion with this one last night, and damn, was he worth the wait! So much fun to hang out with and had my toes curling quickly too. Hopefully bump into him again soon x
*ourVixen (38), Woman
on 29 January 2026
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Met this amazing gentleman for a very sensual encounter. He’s is an absolute find on fab…he is caring, attentive, charismatic and charming with the most delicious cheeky side! B has the most alluring and captivating come to bed eyes, he is sexy and hot as fuck! We had the most amazing and passionate time together; he is an incredible kisser with such skillful touches, that leave you so satisfied and on cloud nine! Ladies if you get a chance to meet with this gent you won’t regret it! Thanks handsome I loved every minute and until next time hopefully!
*ouse_of_Earthly_Delights (46), Couple
on 27 January 2026
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This very handsome and easygoing gentleman attended our party at the weekend the company by his stunning FWB. Needless to say as usual he fitted in perfectly with the rest of our guests. It was wonderful to see you again.
*i_Sasha (55), Woman
on 25 December 2025
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It's always lovely to receive a message from someone on your hotlist.. even better when you meet them in person and they exceed your expectations! What an absolute gent.. charismatic, intelligent conversation, caring, attentive. Lovely company and sexy as fuck! Left me wanting more! Hope to see you again soon, we still have that dance-off to fulfill lol xxx
*oingForGold (47), Couple
on 22 December 2025
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He is a true gentleman, hilarious, handsome and very hot! After a fun social, we had a very sensual encounter, enjoyed in the company of some lovely friends - a perfect end to a fabulous evening! X
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 22 December 2025
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Another Christmas and another cracking night out with our single bestie! The Blackwood Social beforehand was great and what happened in the hotel room after (with another couple) was even better. Always have a good night with B and we know there will be many more in future. Xx
*ante8459 (54), Woman
on 10 November 2025
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After messaging for a while we arranged an evening of dinner, drinks and great conversation. B has the most captivating personality and come to bed eyes. There was definite sexual chemistry there that needed exploring and we definitely made the most of our time together. Thanks again B x
*oingForGold (47), Couple
on 29 October 2025
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This cheeky, charming guy was a highlight at the HOED party last weekend. Easy to talk to and laugh with and his sweet kisses were the icing on the cake. Hopefully there will be more playing next time xx
*urn Up The Music (46), Woman
on 27 October 2025
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Good to meet you at the party, charming, witty and fun. Who knew talking shop would be such a turn on, very glad I don’t have any need to use your (ahem ;)) complaints process.
*ouse_of_Earthly_Delights (46), Couple
on 27 October 2025
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We are always pleased when this very good looking and polite gent can attend our parties as he did on Saturday. Once again he was very well received by everybody In and out of the playrooms. Please do not hesitate to invite this gentleman to your events!
*penToNewThings40 (32), Woman
on 26 October 2025
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Met this handsome man for the second time at the HOED party last night. He’s funny, kind and doesn’t take himself too seriously! Glad we got to play last night, throughly enjoyed it! See you at the next one xx
*estWalesSocials (40), Couple (FF)
on 7 September 2025
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Great to see you at the Swansea Social on Saturday. Lovely gent and a bit of a flirt. See you next time xx
*iss insatiable 2.0 (40), Woman
on 25 August 2025
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Meet this lovely handsome one at a party on Saturday along with his Beautiful companion both lovely and down to earth we chatted and laughed it got a little spicy but that’s all I’m gonna say as a lady never tells. Until next time Becky ??
*ouse_of_Earthly_Delights (46), Couple
on 25 August 2025
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It was grand that this very sociable lovely Gent could attend Our party at the weekend Once again accompanied by a lovely lady. As before he fitted the vibe seamlessly. He will always be welcome at our events
*ouse_of_Earthly_Delights (46), Couple
on 21 June 2025
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This polite and respectful bloke attended our party at the weekend. He was a company by a lovely female companion. As hosts we were stretched to the limit and unable to spend enough time talking to him but he fitted the environment perfectly. Definitely someone we would invite back again.
*rightEyes84 (42), Woman
on 25 May 2025
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Another great night out with this absolute gentleman, really enjoyed the night, lots of singing, dancing and laughs, such a great guy his company is always the best, he even got asked to leave some women for the rest of town ( the best part of his night ) Thanks Bobby can't wait to catch up again x
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 7 April 2025
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We took a chance and invited BP into our vanilla life for a few hours this weekend. Needless to say he blended in well and played the role as a “friend” really really well! Lots of dancing! Lots of laughs and lots of sexy fun when back at the hotel (behind closed doors!). What’s there left to say. You would be an absolute idiot not to meet this guy, so be like us, don’t be an idiot! Thanks again BP and will without doubt see you soon xx
*ittykittygangbang (49), Woman
on 5 April 2025
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There’s simply not enough superlatives to describe this guy! He’s simply delicious a true gentleman incredibly sexy, clean polite intelligent handsome skilled I could go on til my hand cramps .. haha
Treat him well if you’re lucky enough to encounter this gorgeous creature x
*rightEyes84 (42), Woman
on 29 March 2025
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Met up with this amazing guy after our social meet up and what a lovely time we had, a few drinks led us to the bed and we had such a passionate time, sex was great he definitely didn't disappoint either, if you ladies are thinking of meeting up with him I would highly recommend but please don't be greedy because I want him back to share more fun with me :-) can't wait to meet again xx
*rightEyes84 (42), Woman
on 15 March 2025
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Well what an amazing meet this was from start to finish, from plenty of Drinks,Karaoke and danced the night away i couldn't of asked for anything more. This guy was such a gentleman, good looking,amazing personality and such a great kisser, please don't pass him by unless your passing him back my way, Thank you so much xxxx
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 23 December 2024
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Another corker of a night with our go to single guy! Plenty of fun, laughter and lots of singing and drinking! No play this time but his company was still as good as ever! It doesn’t matter if it’s a play meet or a social meet Mr BP delivers. See you soon for some play time! ;) x
*utterflyFern (34), Woman
on 15 September 2024
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Met this lovely guy on Friday after talking for a number of weeks. Absolute gentleman, had lots of fun with him & another couple he knew! Well worth it xx
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 14 September 2024
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What is there left to say about our main man! He’s our Number 1 Rodeo and we’d take him with us everywhere if we could (cowboy hats included). Always a good night and last night was no different. Mr and Mrs SwingerVirgins went into a room with him and his date at Xtasia where things got pretty hot, pretty quick! As always the conversation flowed and the laughs could be heard from miles! If you are a single lady do not hesitate! You will not regret it! See you soon BP, we await our next adventure with you xx
*otwife victoria (53), Woman
on 12 September 2024
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I'm late writing this but enjoying a moment to remember a very hot fun evening. Was fortunate enough to be out to play with this lovely sexy guy. We started with a friendly drink but soon moved on to very hot kisses followed by lots more naughtiness. Bobby is chilled and sexy in equal measure, thank you for a wonderful evening gorgeous xx
*hePinkGinSlut (51), Woman
on 19 August 2024
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Met this gorgeous guy again on the weekend. He’s becoming a regular with us and he didn’t disappoint! We enjoyed a steamy session after a good catch up in the bar.
Brought a blindfold this time and gave BP a treat, I think he enjoyed it:p
FaceTimed hubby while we enjoyed each others bodies. Hubby loves watching then taking what’s his back when I return.
Ladies, he’s the real deal, don’t pass him by. Looking forward to round 6 soon!!!
*weet_and_Sexy (45), Woman
on 13 August 2024
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Probably the easiest meet I have ever had is how I would lead on this veri! Greeted by an attractive smiling man who immediately put me at ease. The most flowing conversation ever, we talked about so much the time just flew by. I invited myself to his room and so glad I did! Sensual kisses, skilful touches and much (!) fun. The detail will be kept for sexy flashback purposes but I can tell this absolute gent will be a fab friend!! Xx
*hePinkGinSlut (51), Woman
on 15 July 2024
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Thanks for a hot and sexy session Saturday night! This man has skills and is fast becoming mine and hubbys FAV single guy. He certainly knows how to get the pink gin and my body flowing!!! I bet they’re still drying out the hotel room - TMI? Can’t wait for the next time xxxxx
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 14 July 2024
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Well what is there left to say about this guy? Super friendly, super cool, super conversation and just a super person! When I want a genuine guy to look after Mrs SwingerVirgins BP73 is my go to man! He knows how to treat her, makes her feel good and she always loves spending time with him. Oh, Mr SwingerVirgins also loves this guy too! Top bloke. Treat him with respect ladies or you will have to answer to MrSwingervirgins if you don’t! Thanks for another great meet. X
*assionfruit_Paradise (53), Woman
on 1 July 2024
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Had a great afternoon with this super sexy guy last week. What started as a social meet ended up as a sexy interlude. Ladies this guy is such a catch don’t pass him by. Hope to see you soon for more fun. PP x
*ladra (54), Woman
on 12 June 2024
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Met him for drinks and fun. Not our first time, but he is a gorgeous pleasure that I happily return to.
As always I had a great time and I always wanna repeat x
*olishIndianCouple (31), Couple
on 2 June 2024
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Met Bobby and another couple on Friday night for a social before attending the BMFC Bulls night at Xtasia. We had amazing time and we all kicked it off from the get go. After the club, all 5 of us went to the hotel for some naughty fun. Bobby has great personality and sense of humour. Intelligent and just absolute pleasure to be around. But his skills in the bedroom were even better. Handsome guy with fit body and great sized cock. He knows how to please a girl. Also, amazing kisser that is attentive in every way. Till next time, hopefully xxx
*otwife victoria (53), Woman
on 1 June 2024
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Was lucky enough to get invited to join this gorgeous guy for a trip to extasia to be part of a group of funny sexy reprobates. Bobpat is truly the holy grail of swingers for any discerning hotwife, not only is he sexy as hell he's also charming and fun to be with. Loved every minute, will definitely be back for more xx
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 1 June 2024
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This was our third time meeting Bobby, on this occasion we headed to Xtasia together so he could make his sex club debut! Impressively he managed to arrange pre social drinks with 3 other couples so we now affectionately know him as “Bobby The Pimp”. We spent the night together in the club then he ended up in our hotel room with another sexy couple! It made for a very good orgy! As always it was great being out with Bobby and MrsSwingerVirgins once again enjoyed what he had to offer ;) x
*romiscuKitty (34), Woman
on 2 May 2024
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A true gentleman!
Met me from the taxi, great and charming conversation, very interested in getting to know me, wined and dined so a perfect date to begin.
Then back at his room he was very sensual, a really fun thick cock to enjoy, and knows how to use it after very satisfying foreplay.
Can't wait to meet again :D
*wingerVirgins (48), Couple
on 8 April 2024
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We’ve met Bobpat73 a couple of times now and he’s certainly doing a good job of bringing out the naughty side of MrsSV aka ThePinkGinSlut. Mr SwingerVirgins can certainly count on this great guy to look after his women. From dancing, singing to swinging we’ve done it all during our first couple of encounters. MrsSv aka ThePinkGinSlut has not been disappointed. A great guy whose company we enjoy. Looking forward to many more nights singing and dancing. The karaoke list is getting bigger. :D xx
*hePinkGinSlut (51), Woman
on 7 April 2024
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Another great meet with this sexy guy. Less alcohol and more shenanigans in the hotel room this time. He knows how to please and get what he wants, that’s for sure. Looking forward to the next time X
*hePinkGinSlut (51), Woman
on 31 March 2024
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Well, what a great night! Just what the doctor ordered!!! Lots of singing, snogging, shots and sexy talk. This guy knows how to have fun and treat a lady. Myself and hubby really enjoyed his company and hubby allowed us some alone time which didn’t disappoint. If you’re lucky enough to meet up with this gent you won’t regret it Xxx
*ladra (54), Woman
on 18 February 2024
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Had a great evening out. Definitely a classy evening with good food and drink, plus the ability to hold good conversation. There was no pressure to progress the evening to anything sexual, but I'd say, if u don't u would seriously be missing out.