you take the high road, I'll take the low road...and i'll look up your

Man in Long Eaton, East Midlands, UK   TickPhoto VerifiedOn mobile site

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 9 hours ago

It has been some time since I updated my profile and much has happened....

I have developed a healthy fascination with rope, learning how to wield a crop & flogger and now also have a partner in crime, lollypop2000.

we have a couples profile in which we play together(bobandlolly I know original eh ;-) ) however Gents don't waste your time messaging myself to ask to play with her on her own...they will fall on deaf ears...and I have filters!

I still like to play on my own every now and then and can be often found at The Attic... I'm regularly attired in a kilt or usually wallowing in the hot tub.

well...me?..I'm 48 years young, bald and bearded...I know that does turn some off but don't knock it till you have tried it ;-)also hairier than most with an average body that is regularly being toned/worked/abused at the gym.

I am often called a gentleman and I try to live up to the expectations one expects of the given title.

A prolific forum poster, attend Northern and STP socials, I take the odd photo or two and occasionally pop in chat rooms.

So fab a pic, say hello at a club/social or drop me a line...I'm a friendly sort of elephant really :-)

happy fabbing everyone! :-)


49 years old, Straight

5'9"  175cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 22 to 47
Won't meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Webcams

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*istressfoxxy (34), Woman on 13 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Well what can say about bob apart from hes fun genuine and hope you enjoy your birthday celebration now who wouldnt with 3 ladies sucking ones cock and balls hehe ;) x

*aulanddebbie (42), Couple on 5 February 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met Bob at the attic on Saturday whilst our with a female friend of mine.Great guy to talk to and sure made sure my female friend had a very wet and sexy time lol maybe see if we can get Debbie on the toy soon lol

*nnocentlyFilthy (29), Woman on 4 February 2018 by Meeting in person:
Second time seeing this gent and im pretty upset i didnt get any time alone with him! Gorgeous man with an equally gorgeous personality. Looking forward to you and the others visiting our neck of the woods at some point. See you soon Mr. xxx

*exykerry1 (41), Woman on 4 February 2018 by Meeting in person:
Wow i had my eye on Bob for a few weeks now lol at the attic what a sexy fun genuine guy well it all started on the sybian experience that glint in his eyes turns any woman on didn't take long to the floor was wet lol great kisser and knows how to use his tounge next time I hope it's in the bed room Kerry xx

*nnocentlyFilthy (29), Woman on 5 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Sometimes you spot someone at a club straight away and you just know they're going to be trouble;in a good way ;) Found myself eyeing this gorgeous Man up as he showed a couple around in front of me. Yes i wondered what was under his kilt and yes i found out later on. He gave me many firsts last night...pin wheels...vibrating sex machines...rope play. Im Pretty sure he could teach me a thing or two more. Thankyou for helping make my first experience of The Attic a fantastic one. I do hope our paths will cross again,C xox

*aiCaz69 (31), Couple on 5 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Well After last night how can I not veri this amazing sexy man , The sliver fox has nothing on Bobtheredelephant ‘ This man is such a Gent but dont even think for a minute he dont no his way around a womens body’ or for that matter between your legs , this man knows his stuff ‘ dont pass him by if he gets his little toys out , when i say little by size i mean big in impact‘ ‘ Mr Bob ‘ Thank you again ;) Cazz xx

*airymagic (36), Woman on 17 July 2017 by Meeting in person:
Manchester social What a fun chap, really good company on the smokers shelf. Enjoyed his light conversation, and how he filled every silence. I watched him welcome and engage with everyone who walked by. Lovely chap

*astMidsCouple82 (35), Couple on 9 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to play with Bob or rather, he got to play with me!! I was strapped in the swing as him, andy and another kinkster demonstrated how much fun the swing can be. And Wow did they made it fun !! It was like a mid air oral 4sum !! He's a great kisser too. Also thanks for showing us 'the ropes' maybe you can show us more next time ;) xx

*ollypop2000 (46), Woman on 7 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
You and your devil penis voodoo! You should at least leave a girl able to use her legs!! I've still got the collywobbles this morning xx

*ollypop2000 (46), Woman on 31 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Bumped into this guy a few times at The Attic. chatty,funny and handsome so when he asked for some 'alone' time I jumped at the chance! He's a great kisser and very attentive I'm looking forward to seeing him again sometime xx

*litterbabe (48), Woman on 23 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
This fella is such a fun, interesting guy, and bought matching printed M and M'a...he even coordinated his socks to match. He was a big hit at the Secret Tea Party, moving easily amongst everybody and chatting to everyone in his bubbly manner. Lovely to meet you

*he Secret Tea Party (51), Couple on 21 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for attending, being a great guest and for the Fabulous M&Ms :-D

*ana2000 (48), Woman on 20 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Apparently most elephants greet each other with wild boisterous joy, with bellowing, trumpeting, ear flapping and rubbing trunks. Not this one though! After a very calm and relaxed introduction to this lovely guy, I got to know a little about Bob. He's a fun, friendly and extremely well dressed man and it was a pleasure to meet you at the STP London Social. xx

*oxiAnne (50), Woman on 19 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
"If you wear your kilt I'll get my pom poms out". One of a few funny discussions had at the recent Tea Party social..! Never say never my friend, 'twas a pleasure putting a face to the name. Until we meet again, Roxi :-)xx

*a Fee Verte (53), Woman on 19 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
It was a pleasure to meet the rather lovely Mr Elephant at the London Tea Party. Warm, friendly, chatty and full of interesting stories, you were one of those who helped make the occasion so enjoyable for me. How sweet to thoughtfully present me with 'something hard to get my teeth into' in the middle of the street and thank you (?!) for ensuring I shall never think of a Peroni bottle in quite the same way again. Until the next time ... x

*0tt0nSu3 (49), Woman on 19 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
I met bobtheredelephant at the Secret Tea Party in London. A very witty and friendly gentleman. I didn't get much of a chance to speak longer because we were packed in a very small area. Maybe next time!

*aradise_Blackpool (51), Couple on 13 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met Bob at one of our recent parties, a sound guy, a perfect gent, who was relaxed, friendly & fun. One of the good guys on Fab, sure we will see him again always welcome. x Sonia & Steve x

*astMidsCouple82 (35), Couple on 12 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at the attic. Genuine and lovely chap. Non pushy and unlike some, actually able to hold an interesting conversation. His pictures don't do him much justice.

*adyx4 (31), Woman on 11 March 2017 by Webcam:
Enjoyed a group ;) webcam session with this nice looking smart guy. I look forward to meeting with you in the flesh real soon xoxo

*ohn and KinkyKat (44), Couple on 6 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this great guy at Mrs macs social on Friday very easy to get on with looked good in his kilt thanks very much for helping me (Kat) with my lipstick test ;-) hope to see you again soon xx

*ud and Bryan (53), Couple on 2 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
We were introduced to Bob while celebrating new year at the Attic, and we hit it off straight away. Bob is very easy to get on with, intelligent, considerate and extremely good with his hands & mouth. He also has excellent staying power!

*opsy Rogers (57), Woman on 1 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
I met this lovely man and we chatted rubbish and had a laugh over coffee. The locals wanted to join in so something we said must have been interesting!

*ire_blade (49), Man on 22 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
I met red last weekend at the Manchester social and can confirm he hasn't got an elephants nose but he is a genuine guy funny quite quick witted and a down to earth guy. Till the next time mate take care....

*iss.Honey (33), Woman on 20 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
It was a pleasure meeting you at the social. Glad my driving didn't scare you too much. Hope to catch you again soon when you aren't scooting around ;)

*inky-Minx (51), Woman on 20 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
After chatting for a while on here I had the great pleasure of a spontaneous social with this very nice chap today.... And we chatted a load more :-D .... He's totally genuine, smiles a lot so ignore his 'miserable' face pics, which don't do him justice anyway.... I had a great time :-)

*ust Peachy (49), Woman on 20 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
Shit - by my reckoning I owe you at least sixty quid for that one! VERY nice guy!! Intelligent, friendly, rather dapper - and cuter than his pictures! Almost disappointed he didn't take me up on the offer of a shag for each Pratchett signed copy! Now who said I'm cheap?? :-p Peachy xxx

*randMrs Spanish Brunette (42), Couple on 20 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
Mrs met this lovely gentleman. Very chatty and fun. Thank you for coming all the way to my northwest social. See you soon. Xx

*anky_Panky (41), Woman on 19 November 2016 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to very briefly meet you at the Northern social :)