Looking for discrete fun and chemistry

Woman in Loughborough, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 10 hours ago

06/05/24. Although it’s quite clear most don’t read this, it’s time to update it as I’ve been here about a year now and I’ve learnt a lot. It’s certainly a bit easier to filter out the weirdos, and wow there’s a lot of em!

Firstly, us ladies do get lots of messages. It’s impossible to answer them all so we have to be ruthless. If you stand out I’ll have a nosey at your profile, if it doesn’t interest me I won’t go back and read your message. If you have no pic, I’ll scroll past. Also if I don’t log on for a few days it will probably drop off the bottom and I’ll never see it.

I don’t have the time or the desire to meet loads of people. I’m not desperate so I look for quality over quantity. One off’s can be lots of fun but I prefer building regular connections - learning how each other ticks and the build up to meeting again is what gets me excited. I’ve been lucky to have met some great people so far, and experienced some amazing chemistry which is really important to me, but I also need honesty - yeah I know it’s fab but come on guys I’m not your wife there’s really nothing to lose is there? I don’t have the patience anymore for all the BS. And if you’re a serial ghoster don’t even waste my time, that shit is so unnecessary (although there’s one ghoul out there I still want to talk to - you know who you are!)

I’m still not a small girl, sadly thats not changed over the past year, nor has my need for discretion. My interests are pretty much the same though - I love a bit of naughty but nothing too weird painful or yukky. If you’re shorter than me in heels I’m unlikely to be interested (yes, I know we’re the same lying down)! I like a tall, clean, well built, good looking, educated, ‘gifted’ and honest man, preferably with his own teeth lol. I’m a big fan of tattoos and facial hair (drool), not essential but it’s the things that tend to catch my attention. It’s a lot, but I know what I like and I know it exists!

I’m not going to meet anyone without chatting first for a while, so to those who ask if I’m free now and want to suck their d**k … erm nope I really really don’t! I’m also not a ‘working girl’ so offering me money won’t change my mind!

I do have veris which I prefer to keep private, but I will read yours :D

If any of the above has put you off then I’ve saved us both some time - you’re welcome!

Happy fabbing x

Original profile:

This is a whole new world to me. Was in a very long relationship, so have no desire for a new one, just new experiences. I am a size 18 with wobbly bits, I don’t expect everyone to like that so don’t pretend it’s ok if it’s not your thing. I don’t have time for loads of hook ups, so ideally looking for a regular connection. Tall, clean, cheeky guys to the front!

Cali

45 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Men Women
Aged from 25 to 55 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, DP, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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