Calm on the surface. More underneath...

Man in Ipswich, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 days ago

I’m in an ENM/poly dynamic with my fiancée (kinkyblossom), and we’re both open to connecting with women who are genuine, open-minded, and know what they enjoy.

Sometimes we connect together (cocodesires), sometimes I explore solo — always with honesty, awareness, and clear communication.

Calm on the surface, but I’m drawn to women with warmth, humour, curiosity, self-awareness, and that quiet sense there’s more going on underneath.

I’m naturally interested in dynamics built on trust, tension, and mutual enjoyment where chemistry, confidence, and a little edge can unfold at the right pace. Kink for me is at its best when it feels intuitive, playful, and deeply connected.

I like women who know how to lean into desire, communicate what they want, and enjoy that shift from playful energy into something more charged.

If that sounds like you, tell me what side of you only comes out with the right person.

Gentleman Dom

40 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 50
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

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*inkyJellyBeans (38), Couple on 2 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Meet on the 26 July. He was a very respectful gentleman to Mrs K. He is a very impressive Dom and took good care of my partner that night. Would highly recommend to any ladies looking for a Dom experience. Thanks Mr K

*uffolk_1970 (55), Couple on 25 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
It was an absolute pleasure to meet this fine young man at last night's greedy girl party. Great to socialise with and, as J discovered in the bedroom, a lot of fun to get naked with too! Much looking forward to seeing him again soon . . . x x

*s-Mischief (57), Woman on 24 March 2019 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for coming to last nights Greedy Girls Party. A new addition to our team of guys, but a very welcome one!! Minxy very much enjoyed making you purrrrr! A sexy, charming, funny and intelligent chap, who certainly entertained the ladies! Look forward to seeing you again Mister. Minxy xx

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