Seeking help with a frowned upon scenario

Man in Messy End, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

Sometimes I have days away from Fab, sometimes I’m always searching. If my profile is visible, then I’m usually sexually inactive and seeking. I’m not looking for more than one arrangement at a time, due to the kind of fun I crave.

Thanks for looking, and welcome to an honest and open profile, which hopefully will answer any questions if you take the time.

I’m open to all genuine members on here, both regular, and less frequent are considered, but I’ll always be honest with others. I know and appreciate the need of others for variation and variety.

I’m a returning member, and been on and off here with both singles and couples profiles, so I know a fake when I see one, but I’ve not yet managed to get to grips with stalkers yet, but that’s work in progress. If you do also remember, a verification would be nice too?

I’m also selective in who I search and message, unlike some, I will only consider certain people, I will not have sex for the sake of having sex, I find a good wank more beneficial than a crap shag.

I’m here again as a discreet married man, seeking something particular. My wife knows I seek, this not a secret, and we have discussed various options, but I seek friends who are discreet, and are comfortable with my situation. Because of health issues, sexual activity at home can’t happen, and hasn’t since 2018, so I’m here for sexual fun only. Those that prefer no restrictions will always be considered first.

It has to be NSA. This is my third attempt here following experiences from stalkers who want more, and took to social media platforms to reach my kids, this will not be tolerated.

I’m a very fit and healthy fifty year old, with a higher than average sex drive, but I’m not a gym god or protein shake drinker, I’m pretty average, who likes to keep fit. Work takes me all over, so please be mindful, if I do message you and my profile location is not local, this is for discretion only, and I’ll never use my home town either, unless I think you’re special!

In terms of fun, I love to please, and a ladies needs will always be dealt with. I love nothing more than making a lady cum, and sex will be satisfying. I love foreplay, giving oral, and multitasking with tongues, fingers and thumbs all at once. In return, I prefer fun without too many rules, and certain interests lists will spark my interest ahead of others, but I’m a no holes barred type of man.

I’m experienced in 1-1, MFM, MFMM, MFMF, Cuckold and hotwife scenarios.

I’m always clean shaven, or waxed (imac), showered, and respectable. I don’t mind if you are shaved or natural, in fact a nice natural lady would be welcome, but clean is essential.

From experience, I know that I’ll get asked the following, so please note:

Does your wife know?

She knows I seek, but we can chat about this and I’ll explain if we interest each other.

Is your cock big?

It’s a thicker than average 7 3/4”, but it’s connected to a 50 year old, not a 25 year old.

When I’m searching, I’ve a simple way to search, firstly, your interests, no good looking amazing if we don’t have the same likes. If they intrigue or interest, I’ll show you my interest.

I am choosing to be selective, I know what I’m seeking.

I’m happy to answer any questions, but if you’re genuine, text or WhatsApp is welcomed.

Latest test results 13/1/2026 all clear, and will share.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1148498

Have fun

Mr Cumfun

51 years old, Straight

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 30 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Threesomes

Verified Genuine Profile

*ink-37 (38), Woman on 12 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
After chatting on here we decided to make the chat a little more personal and decided to meet after much flirty exchanges and see where the fun would lead..extreamely fun meet with a hell of alot of passion. Very rare can you find a genuine man who is honest from the offset and what exactly they are looking for. This gent is easy on the eye and kisses to die for all over. Knows exactly how to please a woman and what buttons to press as by time his fingers had got to work my bed was soaking. Then the sex itself was heaven. Left very full in more ways than one as this gentleman can cum repeatedly with very little rest time. A hell of a memorable meet and a gentleman I will be seeing regular as hes a rare gem that is not selfish and knows exactly what to do and what he wants to explore. Certainly not a vanilla meet. Until next time gorgeous x

*ruitytop (50), Couple on 24 July 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gentleman couple of yrs ago he definitely knew how to please a woman don’t pass him up ladies ??

*osie Smiles (56), Woman on 17 August 2023 by Meeting in person:
Lovely genuine guy … fun with a hint of naughty. Great to meet him in person after chatting for a while. Don’t miss out ladies I think he’d be pure hot sex in bed x x

*ouple Cuck (64), Couple on 23 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this very pleasant gentleman who is very honest about his situation, its nice to talk to someone that genuine. He's attractive, polite and very friendly. Knows what he's looking for. If you have the chance don't pass him by....

*runkMan69 (53), Man on 14 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
Myself and my Girlfriend invited this thoroughly decent Gentleman over to ours for MMF very respectful guy fun had by all hopefully we will see again soon