Looking for chemistry and connection

Man in Harpenden, South East, UK   TickPhoto Verified

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Last on: over a year ago

I'm training to be as support worker so helping addicts change their lives for the best


Yes I have meet a few people but only had sex with 3 . So don't let the amount i have meet put you off .. Not looking for one offs .. Looking for chemistry and connection.


. Kind

. Caring

. Funny

. Will always be there for you

. I never judge

. I'm a bit of a clown, so if I have to make a twat out of myself to put a smile on your face, I will do it


. Don't have any, I'm perfect ;) ;)

. I can be a moody brat at times

. I tend to take messages the wrong way

. I'm skinny


I am here to make friends with likeminded people. Yes I am on a sex site, but that's because nowhere else would have me.

I could well be one of the few that would rather have friendship over sex. I am very strange. I also want to go to clubs and social meets.

I'm 30 and have lived a very boring life. It is time for me to live my life to the max.

Thanks for reading this. I'm not sure if it made sense but it is what it is. If I hear from you that would be awesome, If not I wish you all the happiness in the world.

PS If you are ever feeling low or need a rant, my pm is always open. I believe I was put on this earth to help and support people, and I will do that until I am 6ft under xx

PPS yes I smoke but if I was meeting a non-smoker, I wouldn't smoke the night before or until after the meet. I would also not smell or taste like I smoke.

Did I mention I am very cheeky?


36 years old, Straight

5'11"  180cm
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Aged from 19 to 59 only
Will meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys

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*sSweetAsSugar (49), Couple on 2 December 2018 by Meeting in person:
Turned on who’s near and dapstar was close by. Couple of messages exchanged and he came out to meet us for a drink. A very nice guy who was great company and handsome also. Hopefully see him again if our paths cross.

*oopylilxxx (48), Woman on 21 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
Had my second meet with this handsome guy, he’s so funny and knows how to make you smile. He’s super sexy and has great kissing skills! He has made me a happy lady and I look forward to meeting him again soon. Ladies he will treat you with respect, just make sure if you’re lucky enough to get a meet with him you treat him well! He’s one of the good ones. Soon D xx

*oobookitty (47), Woman on 19 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy at the attic last night, spent some time chatting and he's lovely and genuine X Hopefully next time we can do more than chat ;)

*litterbabe (54), Woman on 20 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
I chatted to this sweet young man on his first ever club visit, at Our Place 4 Fun club. He mingled and mixed well with the crowd, and seemed comfortable with being in his first club. See you at another one sometime. X

*babi-galx (31), Woman on 14 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
I've known this guy for a year now. he is sweet and a great laugh. Ladies definitely take up the opportunity to meet him

*ixen 400 (35), Woman on 14 April 2018 by Webcam:
This nutter can't sing to save his life. But he definately makes u smile if your having a bad day.. His hair style needs some tlc....but a lovely gentleman fun and bubbly xx

*litterbabe (54), Woman on 28 February 2018 by Meeting in person:
I had a social meet with this lovely fella, and he had me smiling and laughing the whole time. As honest and openly genuine as they come, he really is worth your time ladies. He is new to the scene, so let's welcome him.


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