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Happy to take enquiries about Club Utopia in Devon. Ticket and entry enquiries must be done via the Club Utopia Profile and joining instructions will then be provided.

=== Who Is The Hedgehog? ===

I am looking to make connections and friendships and go from there. I dabbled in the scene + fetish nights many years ago and I recently rediscovered my love of the club scene, community and atmosphere where I can explore my kinkier side.

I am especially enjoying and exploring my sensory submissive side and pairing it with my exhibitionism but I only do this with trusted friends.

I am open / interested in supporting content creation, art projects & photography. I am a professional in the real world so would like some discretion (and of course return it).

=== The Hedgehogs Dynamic ===

I am more of a "slow burner" who is happy to build rapport and get to know people socially as the connection goes well with my preferred sensual side of play.

I love the sensual and intimate side of play and learning what what turns someone on as an individual and therefore creating meaningful experiences and memories.

In particular, I love to attend clubs and parties as presentable as possible by dressing in one of my waistcoats and ties (very Mr Grey) and then embrace the socialising element; the social side of the lifestyle is just as important as the play side to me!

If you like the look of my profile then send a message and see if we hit it off! :)

DH

40 years old, Straight

6'1"  185cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*rs2fruits (39), Woman on 17 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well this dude certainly came back to Club Utopia with a bang, bringing his hilarious personality and naughty shenanigans to the party, which has been missed! Glad to see you back and on top form! Xx

*haos247 (46), Woman on 15 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a killer combo. Sexy, hilarious and genuinely lovely too. Made me feel so at ease at my first visit to Club Utopia. Can't wait to see you again next time. Big kisses. xx

*aughtyinourforties (45), Couple on 15 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Great to catch up with DH at Utopia on Saturday night. You can guarantee wherever he is, hilarity will follow! We’ve shared some fabulous evenings at parties so far and positively sure there will be plenty more to come! See you soon Mr Hedgehog x

*piceyice (31), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to catch up with a good friends and see him in action in the organisation toom , genuinely lovely guy can't wait for future parties xx

*-Louise-J (30), Woman on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Oh Trixie! How I've missed you and your crazy antics. Was lovely to see you as always! Thankyou for making my evening as entertaining as per! X

*heMarshmallows (28), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
The best gent on the scene! Dave is so much fun, super friendly and such a lovely man. It’s always a pleasure to see him, and he’s a great presence in any room. He’s also by far one of the most fashionable men on the scene. Can’t think of anyone else who can pull off red velvet pyjamas quite like he does ;)

*alippo20 (32), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure bumping in to DH. Such a charming, honest, lovely guy! Absolutely smashed it with his outfit last night. All of us at Calippo20 appreciate your advice and great photography skills ;)

*ersonsofinterest (37), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
A genuine single man that is honest, handsome, and an actual swinger is rare, so rare. This man is the epitome of a true swinger. He fully understands this lifestyle and embraces it completely. Hedgehog, over the last year, has become one of our nearest and dearest friends, we absolutely adore him. He's extremely handsome, honest, fun to be around and an absolute god amongst men. Single guys could learn a lot from him. We always look forward to seeing him, be that at a party, or at the infamous Hedgehog Hotel, or just for a nice cuppa and a chat. He is incredibly respectful, not only with the ladies but their partner too, and he will always make sure everyone is happy before taking things further. Through experience, ladies... He's a gentleman on the streets and a demon between the sheets. If you're ever lucky enough to meet his acquaintance, you are in for the time of your life. We adore you, Hedgehog, and can't wait to see what this year brings for you, we hope to be a part of whatever shenanigans you'd like to include us in! PoI xxx

*rettyGeneric (35), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Always lush to see one of my favourite people on and off the scene! He's a true gentleman but absolutely hilarious! I'm not sure there is anyone else that could have pulled of his velvet hotpots and crop top look! His butt looked bloody amazing! You won't have a dull moment with Mr.hedgehog around weather it's flapping his balls in your face shouting gobble Gobble or just chilling on the big cuddle chair! He doesn't disapoint xx

*ersonsofinterest (37), Couple on 2 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Well, the first Hedgehog Hotel party was an absolute hit! Our host couldn't have been more accommodating, entertaining and welcoming. He really is a remarkable man! We had so much fun! Lots of adult games that resulted in uncontrollable laughter, LOTS of cheekiness and various states of undress. From afternoon through till late, the vibe was relaxed, the drinks were flowing and the conversation fun and flirty! The chosen company was perfect, Mr Hedgehog's exclusive circle of friends are supremely genuine and fabulous people who also happen to be hot as hell, which is the icing on a very sexy cake! Opening night was a roaring success and we know the Hedgehog Hotel will only get better and better with each party. We can't wait to hopefully be invited again! B&K xxx

*hinyGeeks (38), Couple on 25 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this lovely guy socially, at a kink event - he's pleasant, polite and articulate and a pleasure to be around. Really looking forward to catching up again at some point.

*rettyGeneric (35), Couple on 25 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of being on the receiving end of my first flogging experience by this gent last night, he really is one of the rare ones! We have only met once previous and chatting the last 2 months but I would really trust him with my life! He’s kind caring and getting to watch him and his stunning Mrs last night was a real treat! I can’t wait to see you both again soon!

*ornyThrillSeekers (40), Couple on 22 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this amazing, friendly and respectful guy at Utopia in April for our first club experience. Straight from the off when we started chatting he put us at ease straight away and gave us a tour of the club. This guy has a sense of humour and definitely the life and soul of a party. He was respectful and polite and (L) certainly enjoyed licking whipped cream from him. We can’t wait to meet him again for more fun this time. If you want to meet the perfect guy at a club this is the guy.

*abithaxx (45), Woman on 19 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this true gentleman on Saturday, so lovely to talk to and very easy on the eye. Looking forward to when we bump into each other again.. Tx

*andymandi (36), Woman on 18 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting this gent firstly at Utopia where he gave us all a tour while showing off his incredible body and the nicest personality, then getting to know him at Secrets where I learnt about his kinkier side... Very much looking forward to meeting you and your hot Mrs soon hopefully;) x

*-Louise-J (30), Woman on 12 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Another fantastic meet at club utopia, brains and beauty this man! And he doesn't get offended by my S.O.H haha!!. Watching Mr H drive my bestie insane is just wow... what a turn on... maybe a cheeky 3 way could happen ;-) haha. Looking forward to getting to know you much better!.

*isskinkyhot (38), Woman on 12 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy at private party and at Club Utopia Saturday night. He's gorgeous and so kind. Didn't get a chance to play but hope to see him again soon for hopefully more then just a lovely conversation xx

*asmine xxx (49), Woman on 12 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Mr H is hot hot hot! I had a couple conversations through the night at Utopia and I can only apologise for the drooling ; ) Obviously he has a handsome face and a beautiful body but he is super smart mixed with cheekiness a perfect combo! Let’s hope we can put on a little show the next time we happen to be at the same party ; ) xx

*aige247 (37), Woman on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Well I have no words for this man he leaves me speechless and out of breath in the best way possible! And i can't seem to get enough of him our chemistry is electric!very much looking forward to more adventures at the hedgehog hotel and experimenting new things along the way c u very soon for our next adventure mr hegehog!

*ersonsofinterest (37), Couple on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
In our personal experience it's hard to find a single man who's smart, funny, respectful of both of us and is great fun in and out of the sexy scenarios. This man completely smashes that list and then some! He's very swiftly becoming one of our more trusted friends in this community and we adore his company. Always has a smile on his face and will waste no time in putting a smile on anyone else's face. Always welcome here dude x

*Willowx (41), Woman on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for helping me find my confidence to go alone to Utopia without my wingmen! It was lovely to meet you at the social before and see a friendly face on arrival x

*aughtyNice05 (47), Couple on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
As always this amazing guy was there to greet and support at utopia last night. He is a very sexy man who ozzes confidence, he is honest, genuine, kind and caring. We love seeing him and would love to continue to be friends away from the club. Xx

*rettyGeneric (35), Couple on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Mr.hedgehog at utopia last night, a rare genuine guy, makes everyone feel so relaxed and welcomed, he's hot to so a added bonus too! Watching him on the bed was fun! Hopefully see you at the next party!

*edandtheWolf (32), Couple on 11 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely gentleman at club utopia last night ! He instantly made us feel at home and made us feel very welcome ! Also had a great body we were definitely impressed! Hopefully see you again soon x

*ustUs235 (34), Couple on 25 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Our first outing to Secrets and we were introduced to this true Gent through mutual friends. With a bit of a show on the pole to warm things up he then found himself lucky in the swing hut when we invited him to join in. Not normally ones to invite single guys, he was very considerate and certainly not pushy. C definitely enjoyed his presence in multiple sessions throughout the night. We will see you out and about at future events x

*trangerthings999 (48), Couple on 21 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
What can we say, always a pleasure to chat with the gorgeous DH at any club night, a true gent, charming and charismatic! Single guys are really not our dynamic but last night we couldn’t resist inviting him for a cheeky play in the swing cabin joining a group of us for a game of spin the swing, and then our first MMF! An attentive and skilled play partner, respectful and considerate of couples play styles,, and totally hot AF, what’s not to recommend!! 4 plus hours flew with a sequel in the cinema room, followed by a nice chill out in the hot tub and sauna with a cup of tea… perfect end to a blissful night!!

*aige247 (37), Woman on 18 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Well what can I say about my stay at the hedgehog Hotel its a night I won't forget in a hurry! 5star rating from me! Mr hedgehog is a an absolute dream and a true gentleman through and through until he gets u up those stairs that is and his other side comes out! A side I very much enjoyed having to myself for more than just a few hours! I mean who dosnt love tea and cake In the interval to boost those sugar levels for the next round (ding ding) ;) although this tease made me extremely horny just before vanilla life was calling u meany! To be continued ...... xxx

*heMarshmallows (28), Couple on 15 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
It was lovely to meet this respectful and friendly guy at a house party over the weekend. It’s very clear to see why he is welcomed into private events. He’s chatty, knowledgeable and genuine without so much of a hint of being pushy or overly forward. A pleasure to get to know you and I’m sure we’ll bump into you again when we eventually visit Utopia!

*piceyice (31), Couple on 14 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this bloke twice now ,once at utopia, and Ince at minxeys party. If ever single male was as genuine and as nice as this bloke fab woukd be a much better place , can see us both becoming very good friends with this man.

*ruitpunch200 (33), Couple on 14 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting for a second time. A real genuine guy, so easy to talk to and get on with. We both have said how nice he is and great for any party xx

*rs2fruits (39), Woman on 9 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Known this gorgeous guy for some time and watched him blossom into the naughty yet confident, gentleman of a man. No longer playing stuck in the mud, I finally got my hands on this one and was certainly worth the wait. Xx

*elly baby 69 (47), Woman on 9 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting this true gentleman at a couple of Utopia club night and the social.. lovely, lovely friendly man and anyone who finds them in his Company will fell very relaxed!

*trangerthings999 (48), Couple on 9 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
An absolutely sound, genuine, tub friendly bloke who puts everyone at ease. Polite and respectful (and makes the ladies week at the knees)! Thanks for helping put me at ease for my first solo foray. As I said, single men are not normally our dynamic, but you are definitely the exception to that rule!

*ieryfoxes (37), Couple on 8 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Rich at Utopia. A great club ambassador. Intent on making sure that everybody has a great time and feeling comfortable, and playing a part in building a wider community. One of the genuinely good guys on this site. Xx

*-Louise-J (30), Woman on 8 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Well, what can I say about this beautiful man! He body is yum! His personality is amazing. This man knows how to make anyone feel comfortable in his presence!. Looking forward to seeing more... and more ;-)

*aughtyNice05 (47), Couple on 8 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
We got to meet this extremely hot, sexy man again at utopia. He is the most amazing man, he made us feel very at ease and comfortable in the new environment as it was our first club experience. Just talking to him made us feel more confident. Thank you for making us feel so welcome and relaxed… until next time xx

*eandBe (37), Couple on 8 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this wonderful man at utopia on Saturday, we were so turned on as he watched our every move while we played, afterwards we had a several convos where we learned that he is a kind, courteous, respectful and let’s be honest very hot guy!! Really looking forward to seeing again at some club and very much looking forward to playing next time x

*ingah90 (33), Woman on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
What an absolute gent! Very welcoming, clearly very intelligent and just an absolute all rounder. Made me feel so welcome and looked after at Club Utopia. Thanks lovely.

*un and friendly 2023 (48), Couple on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Rich not only looked after everyone via an online chat set up for club Utopia but helped attendees get to know each other at a pre social as well as ensuring everyone was ok on the night itself. An all round true gent and bloomin gorgeous guy. Thank you Rich, we look forward to catching up with you in the future :-)

*ornishcouple2023 (37), Couple on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met Davehedgehog at utopia last night. Lovely bloke, gave us a tour of the club, easy to talk too and helped calm the newbie nerves. Hope to see you again very soon xx

*ersonsofinterest (37), Couple on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
We've been getting to know this very handsome gentleman over the last few months and what a delight he is! Charismatic, charming and quick-witted, he is deliciously naughty and loves to tease! Mrs K finally got her hands on him for some cheeky playtime, and she was not disappointed! With a body of a god and the smile of a saint, he is an absolute pleasure. We're looking forward to many more adventures! Xx

*aige247 (37), Woman on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
What can I say about this beautiful human a true gentleman with a cracking sense of humour and completely put me at ease on my first pre social for utopia, but watching this man in action is mesmerising and the peachest bum ever ;) good enough to bite look forward to more social events in the future and spreading my wings xx

*_uliette (39), Woman on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Got to know this gent as part of club Utopia team. He's such a credit to them. Definitely made my first club experience a great one. I look forward to getting to know him & seeing him around at other events. Oh & not to mention he's handsome, funny & nice to look at xJx

*lower400 (32), Couple on 7 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this gentlemen yesterday at my first club event, he was so lovely and really helped with the nerves. He was also funny and very easy on the eyes, hope to see you again soon!

*utticutie69 (55), Woman on 5 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely guy, very fit body!!! Looking forward to getting to know him tomorrow at Utopia in more ways than one. Xxx

*eachesandcream129 (24), Couple (FF) on 30 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
One of the loveliest people we have ever known! So welcoming and supportive of everyone… utopia wouldn’t be the same without this one! xoxo

*otwife_sexy_red (45), Couple on 30 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Attended the utopia social, this guy is a true gent… he oozes intelligence, smells delicious and has a very kind heart x x. X

*aughtyNice05 (47), Couple on 30 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
We had the absolute pleasure of meeting this amazing sexy man last night. We chatted with him and he eased all our anxieties over the club utopia event next week. A genuine, handsome, friendly and funny guy. Looking forward to meeting again.

*hic_C (48), Woman on 27 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met DH again at Secrets recently and had a lot of fun during a very naughty orgy and then an FFMMM. I have so much love for this man, his journey has been immense and it’s been a pleasure to see him grow and relax amongst special friends. I consider DH to be one of my best friends on the scene and I’m looking forward to exploring that further as we evolve in the swinging scene. DH is all about giving, he’s sexy, respectful, funny, and one not to miss. Definitely not your typical guy, will have you weak at the knees and shaking if you give him chance. Looking forward to utilising those skills soon.

*otwife_sexy_red (45), Couple on 24 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
This guy is awesome, life and soul of a party x I was watching you dirty pirate hooker !!!!!!!!!! X x

*otwife_sexy_red (45), Couple on 5 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
If carlsberg made pirates. ! The hog would diffo be aloud on Board my pirate ship.. I’d even show him my treasure … I bet he’s a thing for a Pearl or too. Not too shabby on the eye …. Can’t wait to see you again … ahoy

*fruits (46), Couple on 5 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Have met Mr Hedgehog a few times at club Utopia now and have spoken a lot through various mediums. One of the genuine lovely guys on fab, intelligent and can hold a conversation plus a good laugh. Always a pleasure and look forward to many parties in the future.

*lub Utopia (42), Couple on 3 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thank you so much for joining our “weird and wonderful event” April 1st, it was an absolute pleasure hosting you and hopefully see you again soon. J&G

*trangerthings999 (48), Couple on 3 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this charismatic guy at Utopia, where only a small number of well vetted singles are invited, and the hosts couldn’t have chosen better! Intelligent chat, and a gorgeous smile, It was a shame we had to wait for his inner butler in the buff to come out to to play but worth the wait! Thanks for the whipped cream & apple sourz, hope you enjoyed the slippery nipples as much as MrsST did, lol! X

*hic_C (48), Woman on 2 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
I’m proud to call this super sexy man my friend. He took me to the Club Utopia weird and wonderful event, and made my night when he went into his butler in the buff costume. He shared some shot sharing kisses which were hot, and helped to fulfil my fantasy of having two guys lick whipped cream off my nipples. Good technique btw! Thanks for the cuddles, chat and naughty friendship. Can’t wait for the next event, not sure where you can go next after the thigh high boot pole dancing, and butler in the buff. I feel you might have to get naked next time! Definitely a special one to get to know ladies, you won’t regret it. X

*rangesmartie (41), Woman on 2 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Butler in the buff did not disappoint at Utopia last night. Definitely buff! Service with a cheeky smile, shots poured down the throat with flair, topped with cream. Looking forward to trying the rest of the menu next time ;)

*ime_4_play (42), Couple on 2 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met the charming DH at Utopia last night He was looking fit fully loaded with whipped cream V’s nipple had a little squirt and suck! A pleasure to talk too Will look forward to seeing you at the next party ;) Xx

*rsfilth82 (42), Woman on 19 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met briefly at secrets last night (18th March!)! Didn’t get to explore him but seems like he could be fun

*rs2fruits (39), Woman on 7 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Such a lovely gentleman. Very easy to talk too and I'm sure I'm spying a wicked deviant side, but he's certainly playing a game of stuck in the mud, I will figure out how to play it properly and release him.

*ANDA666 (45), Couple on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this charming fella at utopia last night, such a pleasure to talk to. Hopefully catch up again soon xx

*rankie-Marcus (31), Couple on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Another lovely evening at utopia where we got the absolute pleasure to catch up with this handsome gentleman again throughout the night. We have stayed in contact with him since the last utopia building a great friendship & bond which we look forward to continuing. Totally rocking his red shirt, very HOT indeed & looking very dapper, o how I picture seeing it in the flesh & what a great image it is haha :)... We don't say this too lightly about many but he is outstanding & a very rare gem, someone we most definitely look forward to seeing his face at the party, his personality really does light up the room. Xx

*lymouthgirl92 (31), Woman on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy last night at Utopia. Such a gentleman and a pleasure to talk to. Hopefully catch you again soon xx

*hic_C (48), Woman on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Another amazing night in this perfect gentleman’s company. So easy to talk too, and we had a great laugh, especially the after party. Can’t wait to hang out again at future events.

*rankie-Marcus (31), Couple on 7 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
We was so glad to be able to bump into & finally chat with this handsome guy at the end of the night at club utopia... An absolute gentleman & they are so hard to come by these days, very good conversation was had by us all, his very intelligent, interesting & up for a laugh... Definitely looking forward to seeing him again at future parties and keeping in touch in the mean time... Who knows maybe next time I'll b able to lead you astray in a room ;) Xx

*hic_C (48), Woman on 7 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this distinguished gent at the Utopia opening night. He’s incredibly fit, and very charismatic. I loved how easy it was to chat with him. He is the full package and a total gentleman but I suspect there is a naughty streak waiting to explore. Look forward to seeing him again at future events.

*ot n saucy 69 maid (52), Woman on 5 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met for a drink at utopia opening night.well dressed,well mannered,articulate and v v hot.chatted so many times during the evening!..I would!!if the occasion occurs!!..sexy single n v v hot.girls don't miss out..hope I'm on your radar? Till next time..A.xx

*okel3 (44), Couple on 5 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Maybe new to the scene but easy to see he is going to fit in well , articulate smart witty and sexy what a fab combo xx until next time xxx no tie lol xx

*rixie2101 (49), Woman on 15 January 2023 by Webcam:
Have been chatting to this delicious ,intelligent ,handsome guy for some time. Tonight we spent hours on cam to replace the social we simply couldn’t fit in at present.His prowess is obvious,his company divine, To engage with an articulate,passionate,naughty and inquisitive ADONIS was sublime. May I suggest you give him your time ladies….I intend to !!! I don’t say that easily…..MWAH T xxxx

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