Fun, Open and Adventurous.

Man in Bromley, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 weeks ago

I'm one of those quiet guys that you were warned about...

2019 update.

Looking for fun, funny, open minded partners in crime. People to share journeys into/through the fetish/BDSM as well as the swinging world.

Experienced in a lot of varying roles and activities (D/'s, M/'s,

DD/LG, T/b and SM) . Happy to lead and teach/share experiences.

Sarcastic, wicked and mischievous. I'm discreet and respectful of boundaries, I am very happy to lead you into depravity though.

I'll talk to you with respect and I'm more inclined to build up rather than rush to the end.

I'm happy for spontaneity but there will always be a 'getting to know you a little bit and about your experience/dynamic' otherwise I don't know how to talk to you.

I'm unable to talk to strangers about a possible scenario. For me that is selfish and this should be about both parties. Read my stories and see if you like what I've done so far.

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to use a fucktoy...but I'm not going to assume everyone wants that...right off the bat (if you do however, feel free to say)

Life is for living.

I'm a big fan of spanking, erotic hypn*sis and bondage...as well as other fun activities...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/613781#message_12819686

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/534756#message_10866846

Feel free to say hi...kinky couples, female subs and switches.

If you are a masochistic then we'll get on famously. I get turned on by hurting people.

I'm poly/honest and ethically non monogamous too.

I'm look younger that I am (small paper round) and have a youthful outlook (most of my friends and relationships have been much younger)

I'm a big guy. Think front row rugby pack...and girthy (that's a fun word) all the better to throw you around and pin you down.

I'm hairy. Think Vikings or Game of Thrones...however it is manscaped. If you want a bald/pre-pubescent looking boy) you best look elsewhere, sorry.

I'm highly sexual, if I click with someone and give great naked cuddles. I'm 'the big spoon' and love to be able to wrap myself all the way around someone.

I'm happy to use the wink button but do so rarely.

I'll favourite people that I like the look/sound of, or I'm curious about (I'm an optimist) especially if you have no pics yet.

If I mail you, I tend to do it like I would a perect stranger would (to a perfect stranger) I need to feel a consent before getting intimate/aggressive.

I won't send you a dick pic...equally I won't send you a picture of my axe...until I know you would like to see it ;-)

I like people who are funny and optimistic, with an enquiring mind and a youthful exuberance.

Confidence, intelligence and manners sexy to me. I'm an aural so love communication/words/sounds. Not in a 70's porno way...but I really love to hear someone enjoying themselves, especially by my hand.

It's a fun thing in my life, people being spanked/having great sex sound the same, often...

Tell me about you or ask me a question (the question game is always fun)

Happy fabbing!

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Update...

'ello...and welcome to my little slice of Heaven, haha!...where anything and everything is possible ;o)

I like to think of myself as a funloving, open minded, experienced and adventurous guy, who lives for the moment. I'm loving the journey and not looking to actually reach the destination (as it keeps changing) this might set me aside...

Oh yeah, I'm ever so slightly sarcastic, but can take as much as I give ;o)

I'm looking for attractive, fun, laid back people to share mountains of fun with. I am well aware that attractive is a subjective term and people can be attractive in many ways, inside and outside too.

I like to "connect", so I'm looking for people with at least half a brain...after all it is our 2nd biggest sexual organ, haha! (If you don't know what the biggest is, best ask)

I lack "issues" or dependents and am open to new experiences/adventures as well as reliving lots of old ones ;o)

I'm completely altruistic and worldly wise, if you can read between the lines then we might get on, hehe!

I am imaginative and ever so slightly wicked ;o) so if you like the idea of that, drop me a line or two. Please feel free to say "Hi ya, how are you?" That is a perfectly acceptable greeting in my opinion. If you want to write something short and sweet, that's ok too, just put "wildebeest" in the title, so I know you have got this far, haha!

I'm naturally dominant and reliving/evolving that side of me, more and more; for me it is more about who I am, rather than an act I put on.

I've been heavily involved in the fetish scene of late and absolutely loving it. I'm a gentle/evil Dominant apparently.

Update...

Well! What a few years it has been! I'm finding that my world/outlook is constantly opening up and I'm having lots of fun. I've met loads of people and made some really good friends......which is an unexpected bonus.

I now know some really special people too (guys, girls and couples) who have surprised and challenged me. You know who you are ;o) The highs have been amazing, the lows have been character building, but they have made the highs even higher! lol

I am a very hard task master, if that is your thing, so beware ;o)

I have been described as sensitive, sincere and a tease........intruiging and exciting...........oh and a corruptor, haha! Perhaps I am ;o)

If you see me in the chat rooms, and you wish to say "hi", then feel free.

If you'd like to whisper then please ask first, I'm happy if that is a whisper (if you want to be discreet) but if I'm busy and don't reply please don't be offended. After all I wouldn't neglect you if we were talking, already ;o)

If you really want to mail now, then please put a reference to your favourite root vegetable in the text, that way I can see if you can read/have patience...it will set YOU aside ;o)

If you wanna see my other pics you'll need to be a friend first (for that to happen we would have to had a proper conversation) and be prepared to share/swap yours, that means you'll need to get to know me, too, before I decide to reveal all ;o)

Thanks...enjoy your journey.

Derek

56 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Large
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

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Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 50
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

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*xhibitionist wife (53), Couple on 14 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
We met up with Derek after seeing that we both shared common interests. We had a great time, with him showing us some of his rope work on her, which then led on to more flogging , spanking clamps etc. We found him to be great company,knowlegeable and experienced, and made us feel totally relaxed throughout the evening. Would definitely recommend a meet with Derek -especially if kink is your thing!

*orgeouslyyours (54), Woman on 26 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
I can't believe this incredibly popular and well known guy from another site and fet scene never had a fabs veri... So looks like I'm Going to be his first on here. As I was his first SH friend about 7 years ago.. D has been a great social friend for all that time ., attended most of my events and those of mutual friends over the years and hand on heart there's no bull or pretence in this profile ,. He is exactly who he says he is Does what he says on the label and probably the most interesting , reliable honest and down right genuine guy on here .. And if you think that makes him sound boring. .. Think again ... SUB ladies look no further xxx

Fun, Open and Adventurous.

Man in Bromley, Greater London, UK

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