Definitely more about the QUALITY than the QUANTITY!!!

Man in Essex, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 5 hours ago

47 year old black male based in Essex (name kind of gives it away) whose happy to travel and looking to meet like minded women / couples for mutually memorable encounters. I am able to accommodate for the right person / couple but this needs to work around my life / other commitments

I am VERY selective with who I shall play with and it will always be more about the quality than quantity of meets I’m looking for for me so without wanting to sound arrogant but please bear that in mind when choosing to message me.

Whilst I obviously enjoy the physical side of meeting I’m also very much about the mental chemistry with someone so looking for those who a sense of humor, like having a laugh and are able to banter me and abke to take it back. To me this is key as we will likely spend more time talking than we do in bed (that sounds wrong but you hopefully get what I mean!)

I work in a client facing role so am able to hold both written and spoken conversations on all levels without using text speak or coming across as a thug or a goon (we can keep that for the bedroom though if that’s your thing…..) and due to role this is why my face is hidden from public profile but happy to send in private chats if we are clicking.

Should go without saying that hygiene is a two way prerequisite so please own a toothbrush, some shower gel, deodorant and perfume (YSL Libre is one of my faves to smell on a woman) if you intend on meeting.

Purely here for good vibes, good energy and good times (and maybe Hennessy with Apple Juice or Chocolate Block wine) so if you can bring that to the table along with a nice figure and the ability to have a laugh at me and yourself and enjoy being kissed, licked and teased then I think we will get along totally fine!

I am very comfortable being filmed and performing in front of others and love the idea of playing out scenarios for women / couples to allow them to view back later at their own leisure.

Happy swinging and I truly hope that everyone finds what is it that they’re looking for on here!

P.s. speaking before sending a friend request is the minimum and also essential as there’s a whole lot of sexiness behind the hidden wall and we both need to make sure that you are ready for it!!!!!

Marcus

48 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 26 to 50
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*otwifecplkink (35), Couple on 11 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
After some back and forth messages, I got the chance to meet essexblkmale at a recent event and it’s safe to say the flirty texts translated in person as well. He’s really good fun, great sense of humour, very easy going, super energy and incredibly good looking. Well dressed, and smelled divine…the vibe was just right! We moved things to the playroom and from texts, to meeting in person, to play…I was left wanting more of him. Hoping it won’t be too long before our paths cross again.

*UICE! (38), Woman on 3 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
After two years, I finally managed to get M out of my DMs and to an event! Btw Pictures on here do not do him justice at all(wooiii) he came looking sharp, smelling immaculate, and somehow managed to make a man bag look acceptable(ish). And not forgetting absolute hit with the ladies(wink wink) in attendance. Aside from his cheeky, facety self Great to finally have you at one of our events. Your banter, charm, and questionable introduction skills were very much welcomed. Now the challenge is getting you to Black to CAP... mwah xx

*arried7678 (45), Couple on 6 January 2025 by Meeting in person:
This guy is so lovely - handsome, chilled, great conversationalist and lots of fun! We crossed paths a couple of times over the weekend and loved being in his company. The hubby and him gone on really well so much so they were swapping sliders! Our play was intense and one we would love to repeat again. He is a credit to the scene and a great meet for any couple or single girl. Don’t hesitate to meet him and I’m sure we will meet again soon xx

*aughty Not Vanilla (49), Couple on 21 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
I met this sexy hot devilish man at the recent Flaunt thy Curves party at Club Alchemy. We had been chatting on fab for a few days prior to the event and had swapped photos. I have to say I didn’t recognise him from his photos. I had thought he looked good in the photos but they didn’t prepare me for just how incredibly amazing he looked in the flesh! Ladies, he really is full package….Sexy, dark, intelligent, articulate and vwe… what more can a girl ask for? Charisma and a great sense of humour…..well he has those too. He seemed too good to be true so I was almost expecting a disappointment in the bedroom….really no one can have it all! I was wrong! He was incredible and knew exactly how to satisfy me. Ladies if you get the opportunity to meet this sexy gent consider yourself to be very lucky indeed. Im sure you’ll find him very hard to resist! Lucy xx

*hloe39 (46), Woman on 23 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Not sure what I can say about this absolute gent that hasn't been said before. The banter was there from the first minute, the sex was... all focused on me :-), the conversation didn't stop & food & cocktails were almost as delicious as Marcus. Looking forward to doing it all again soon ;-) xx

*r_MrsO (41), Couple on 18 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Pretty much ready to go home until I bumped into this gorgeous man! Matched my banter (which is pretty difficult), pushed my boundaries and met my match! Very much unexpected, I'd definitely be up for meeting again. X

*ecretcpl141 (40), Couple on 17 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
I’m still not over last night!! The sexiest, funniest, down to earth person! I had the best night ever! This won’t be the last time I get to see you, I’m already thinking of the next.. well I’m still thinking of last night as well lol! I’m speechless (again) ;) Xx

*unny! (43), Woman on 18 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Great to catch up with this handsome one last night and carry on from where we left things last time. Delicious kisses, great sex and he even treated us to a share box of chicken nuggets for supper…what more could a lady need! Really enjoyed my evening…and morning. I’d like to think that 08:30 fire alarm going off in the hotel was the worlds way of waking us up and ensuring your cock was in my mouth for breakfast ;-p Can’t recommend this guy enough! Hope to see you again soon. Bunny xx

*ame en Rouge (49), Woman on 19 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Well where to start with this fine specimen of a male. It's took me a few days's to recover from Fridays epic party where I met him at Black Magic. First it was that Southern accent anyone who knows me know's I love a southerner. Pair that with good looks which this guy definitely has and I had to have him. Round one was hot he had me so wet them kisses that dick, he knows how to treat a woman that's for sure. We decided to go to another room but got interrupted so definitely needs to be continued....hope our paths cross again soon. Take care xx A xx

*unny! (43), Woman on 18 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
This handsome guy made his way up to Black Magic on Friday night and it was an absolute pleasure! His smouldering good looks definitely drew me to towards him and it was great to see that he was much more than a good looking fella! Great to chat to and playtime did not disappoint at all! I’m looking forward to our paths crossing again and attempting to seduce you up north to continue what we started! Bunny xx

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