Hamlet and Ophelia - Stag and Bi-vixen

Couple in Oxford, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 9 hours ago

Thanks for dropping by and saying hello; please feel free to say hello if you so wish. We are Hamlet and Ophelia, both easy going and looking for people of a similar mindset to life. We are looking to make social and play friendships with people who are comfortable on the scene; if we say hi it is because you have caught our interest as a potential social and play friend. We are looking for those people who are seeking to challenge themselves, their boundaries and the world itself, without fear of judgement.

Ophelia on herself

My name is Ophelia and, for those of you that know the story, I have found my Hamlet, who has captured both my heart and soul and is my Alpha. He has also offered to help me explore my newfound desire to understand my own sexuality and my inner self, helping me to understand my desires to explore life as an empowered submissive. I don’t feel comfortable taking the lead in a situation; that I leave to Hamlet, but I do know that there are many fantasies that wish explore, especially the thought of being watched or being allowed to explore with another. I am very curious about exploring the touch of another woman, as I have never experienced that yet.

I am a fun, flirty and over 40 sensual woman who has regained her zest for life, and now wish to enjoy new experiences with people I can get along with socially and sexually. I think I am your average looking girl, sporty, outgoing and fun, with a gentle Oxford accent, though Hamlet thinks I am a very attractive, sensual and extremely sexy woman who captures the room when I walk in.

Ophelia on Hamlet

Hamlet is a genuine, easy going guy that likes to have a good time with people of a similar mindset. Hamlet is an over 40 professional - he is fun, cheeky with zest for life which is infectious. A kind and considerate gentleman who knows how to treat a lady but know that his inner wolf is never far from the surface - his animal instincts allow him to take the lead and guide or direct - he knows what I need before I even know myself!! He has a gentle but firm guiding hand and an amazing ability with his tongue to make my body sing. I would say he is a fun seeking, relaxed individual who enjoys life and doing crazy things such as Alpine skiing, horse riding and basically enjoying life, while at the same time chilling out with a coffee watching the sunset.

We both look after ourselves and our health; you only get one go at life and no-one gets out at the other end. We are both looking for similar people who are comfortable in the theatre, by the side of a rugby pitch or chilling in a club. Hamlet is open minded and tends to sit more on the alpha side of the fence, while Ophelia is slightly submissive, in a sexy and endearing way.

What we seek.

There are a few things that Ophelia would like to explore and hopefully we can find the right people who, along with Hamlet, can enable her to freely be who she really is inside. These are:

• Visiting a club to see what it is like and meet others in the scene;

• Experience the idea of temperature play with hot wax and ice;

• Be shown off by Hamlet and feel the eyes of others on my body;

• Being watched as Hamlet brings me to orgasm;

• Finding a younger person who is also submissive and who wants to learn about the scene and from my journey;

• Other fun couples;

• FF play, allowing O to experience her bi curious side;

• Naughty outdoor play;

• Maybe a MFM or FFM;

• A submissive couple to teach and build a long-term friendship with;

• Similar minded couples for social and play; and

• House parties

Ophelia would also like to find a submissive woman, or a couple, who would like to build a long-term connection and become sub to her. Hamlet has said that one of the most powerful aspects of the scene is having someone willingly surrender themselves to you. From Ophelia’s journey so far, her surrendering to Hamlet was indeed a very powerful act which still sends tingles down her spine when she thinks of it.

About us.

Within the adult play world, Hamlet is experienced, while Ophelia is very new to the scene but very keen to explore its mysteries. Hamlet is helping Ophelia to explore and understand her inner self, as well as what makes people tick, to find new ways of turning people on and helping them explore themselves, their boundaries and the world around them. Ophelia likes attractive, athletic males who are part of a couple, can hold a conversation, who are fun to be around and are willing to accept that she already has an Alpha and is not looking to replace him or add another. She would like to meet similar petite females so she can build that social and play relationship with them. Ideally, Ophelia would like them to be bi, as she would want them to also experience Hamlet’s touch as well.

The key things for us both are respect, enjoyment and having fun. We are looking to make social and play friendships with people who are comfortable on the scene, unafraid to be themselves and who are old enough to be free, unrestricted and authentic.

Education wise, we have a few Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees between us, and Hamlet has written a PhD – therefore we are both able to hold a conversation and would like others we meet to be able to do the same.

Please understand that we don’t look at friend requests if we don’t know who you are. Likewise, if you are going to say hello, please take the time to talk to both of us and respect us by saying more than just hi. Also, no pictures of willies – Ophelia has seen more than enough of them on here and Hamlet has his own. It also doesn’t tell us what you are like; it just tells us you can’t take a few minutes to find out about us.

We will never meet alone and Hamlet will always be with Ophelia when she meets someone, as we are looking to play together; the idea is that the both of us are embarking on a journey of discovery within the scene, and we would love to meet others like us who are also on their own journey. We always seek to careful, and therefore will always practice safe sex and never jump into anything with someone straight away.

So, if you have read this far, please put “Denmark” in the message title, tell us a bit about yourselves and attach a face photograph so we know who we are chatting to – it is always nice to visualise who you are having a conversation with. We are both genuine and are looking for the same.

Hamlet and Ophelia

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Ophelia

50 years old, Bi-curious

5'5" 165cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

Hamlet

51 years old, Straight

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 49
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Voyeurism

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*eeshells (48), Couple on 15 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
A great Valentine’s night at VA, dressed up (and down) to impress. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other, things got very hot, SheShell got her first taste of a St Andrews cross, HeShell had some flogging lessons, (he’s getting there). Apologies to Ophelia for the face full and unexpected hair wash! We love these guys, they are easy going, so much fun, and also sexy as… always a pleasure, never a chore, until next time. xxx

*eeshells (48), Couple on 23 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Having previously met Hamlet and Ophelia for a relaxed and enjoyable social, we had everything crossed that a date night would be hot. Anticipation was high and we’re delighted to report the evening exceeded our hopes. Easy conversations over dinner led to a cheeky and much appreciated offer to help with SheShells stocking malfunction. ;-) Taking things to the room raised the heat far more efficiently than the radiators! Wine, toy comparisons and a card game later we were honoured to pop Ophelia’s bi play cherry. Hamlet explored SheShell sub side… H&O have a cheeky glint in their eyes and kinkiness in their veins. We look forward to round 3 with this intelligent and fun couple.

*eeshells (48), Couple on 20 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Hamlet and Ophelia immediately made us feel at ease and our Sunday afternoon social flew by. They are charming and attractive and so easy to chat with. We wish we could have spent longer talking with them, but that just opens up an opportunity for round two...

*xfordSocials (48), Couple on 12 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Always a pleasure spending time getting to know these two Truly lovely and slowly becoming more confident - looking forward to the shackles coming off - or in her case gong on ;-)

*implyCJ (45), Woman on 4 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Sometimes you just click with people and this gorgeous couple were delightful at the SDB Oxford social this weekend. Articulate, witty and absolutely right up my street. Wish I’d had more time with them x??

*outhwest.triptych (44), Couple on 3 November 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met these gorgeous people at our Sparkly Duck Bucket social in Oxford, and when we say gorgeous we mean gorgeous!!! And then they had the cheek to be funny and intelligent too… rude really for two people to be so lovely!!!??

*sabellaMax (43), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had a great time chatting to this lovely couple at a social event. They’re very genuine and great company, hoping to catch up with them again soon to continue the conversation. X

*ereHavingSuchAGoodTime (40), Couple on 12 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely couple at an Oxford social. Didn't get to talk to them as much as we'd of hoped to. Look forward to another opportunity to meet them socially.

*p4fun60 (55), Couple on 12 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this genuine, sincere & loving couple at the Oford social where the time just flew away, this fun couple are articulate & so easy to talk to & it obvious they have embraced this lifetyle in addition to their own relationship - we enjoyed learning about the finer points of the kink side of this lifestyle & anyone who gets to meet them will not be disappointed x

*xfordSocials (48), Couple on 12 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Can’t get enough of this couple - always so lovely to spend time with them The quiet shy type - who you know just have a real naughty side

*abuedo (53), Couple on 29 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
On a beautifully sunny June evening it was great to finally make it along to our first Oxford social & meet friends old and new including this delightful duo. A great mix of people, a busy pub beer garden, the sharing of stories and giggles well into the evening & plans afoot for future shibhari-specific shenanigans. Many thanks for your sexy company guys & a thoroughly enjoyable Friday night. Ali & James xx

*xfordSocials (48), Couple on 29 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
Always a joy to have these two at a social Excellent company and a joy to know And Hamlet just has to live with the the fact that Ophelia is just gorgeous

*xfordSocials (48), Couple on 10 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Had been lucky enough to meet this couple in a more private setting previously But was so glad to see them again when they came to the oxford social Just a lovely couple who are very much enjoying exploring the swinging world Would recommend anyone to tie her down ;/)

*hunderAndLightningX (42), Couple on 10 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met this friendly, intelligent and genuine couple at a social event last night. They are a lovely pair, attractive and charming, with some interesting stories to tell!

*armapussycat (43), Woman on 12 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this great couple for drinks. Both really engaging and intelligent, felt really relaxed in their company. Helped hubbie and myself understand better what experiences we desire and looking forward to sharing these experiences with this lovely couple in the future.x

*ure Gold nights (45), Couple on 15 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Was great seeing this lovely couple again at Liberty elite having lots sexy fun in the Jacuzzi and playrooms, They are such a sexy naughty couple who definitely know how ti have fun. Mark & Isabel xx

*ure Gold nights (45), Couple on 4 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Was great to see lovely Sexy couple at our Fun at 40 night at liberty elite, they are a great friendly couple who know how to have fun and enjoy themselves. Looking forward to seeing them again Mark & Isabel xx

*ure Gold nights (45), Couple on 4 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
Was great to see this lovely sexy couple at our Fun at 40 night.at Liberty elite, they are the perfect party guests and look forward to seeing them at future Fun at 40 night's. They are friendly fun couple. Mark & Isabel xxx

*inxx-Master (52), Couple on 8 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another lovely meeting with this fantastic couple that are exploring bdsm. We are very much enjoying helping them on the journey and we are very quickly counting them as friends. Looking forward to all the fun this will bring.

*inxx-Master (52), Couple on 1 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
We have recently had the pleasure of meeting this couple, he is a very nice guy and and experienced Dominant, she is very nee to the world of bdsm but will do very well with some help. A fantastic and very genuine couple x

*DSM4FUN (60), Couple on 27 March 2021 by Webcam:
Spent an hour chatting to this interesting, engaging and attractive couple via zoom. Easy to talk to, open and honest. Looking forward to meeting in person as soon as lockdown rules allow. B & L