A firm hand, a curious heart, and a suitcase half-packed.

Man in Scotland & Brazil, Scotland, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 hours ago

Brains first, bodies later. But ideally, both at altitude.

After years spent crossing time zones for work, I now travel for pleasure, and perhaps, if stars align, for connection. It would be a rare joy to share new corners of the world with someone who sees beyond borders and believes freedom is more than a destination. Your location isn’t important—just be near an airport and open to the idea that adventures are better when shared. A fellow nomad in spirit or practice would be ideal: someone with a flexible life and a liberal mind.

As for me, I’m tall, confident, and carry myself with the ease of someone who knows who he is. I’ve lived on five continents and carry the scents, sounds, and textures of each within me. A professional by day, but beneath the suit lives a playful, slightly deviant soul who believes that pleasure is a slow conversation, not a fast transaction.

I cycle, run, row, or swim most days, not just for the endorphins but because motion keeps my mind sharp and my body tuned. Broad shoulders (yes, twice mentioned), blue eyes, and a firm hand, for those who want or need it.

I value time, experience over everything, and connection far more than possessions or performance. I live across three places and juggle a sometimes, chaotic life, so when I offer my attention, it’s never casual. Life’s too short for small talk and shallow touch. I’m not interested in fast or disposable encounters. I prefer connections that unfold: a voice, a message, a meeting, a spark… the kind of slow burn that ignites when minds and bodies both say yes.

If you've ever browsed under Her name was Lola, that’s our couple profile. Lola and I shared many adventures, but sadly, she finds British weather too bleak and now spends most of her time in sunny Rio. She’s still very much part of my life and fully endorses these solo explorations.

I bring respect, humour, and just enough kink to keep things interesting. I like to get to know people before play, a long look over wine, a teasing message, a late-night call. There’s something delicious about anticipation, don’t you think?

Five continents, one craving: depth.

Seeking someone who knows the difference between desire and distraction.

Conversations that linger. Touches that learn.

So if you’re a woman, or a couple, who values curiosity, conversation, and connection, and you’d enjoy talking to a gentleman who listens, laughs, and occasionally leads with a wicked grin… I’d love to hear from you.

Thanks for reading. I wink with purpose, if I send one, it's because you intrigued me. If you return it, I’ll take that as a cue to step a little closer.

51 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 25 to 55
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*dicouple4fun (45), Couple on 8 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had another great meet with A. Had booked day hotel and he arrived on time and after a quick catch up, had another relaxed, sexy meet. We had communicated the story of how we all envisaged it unfolding which built the anticipation. We all had a great time with all 3 of us fulfilled and spoiled. A is polite and respectful and knows how to complement a couple when indulging in a threesome. Exactly how we like it.

*azzle99 (43), Woman on 8 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Bhartirhari 43 - “WISE MEN : In this shallow fickle world, wise men choose two courses. For a time they keep the company of minds steeped in the ocean of wisdom. They spend the rest with nubile woman whose full hips and breasts glow with the pleasure of hiding men’s impatient hands in the depths of their thighs” (thought you’d appreciate the poetry) Thanks for attending our get together and being a great guest! Rx

*dicouple4fun (45), Couple on 23 May 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met A today after a fortnight of chatting and writing erotica, outlining how the meet would go to each other. The meet was really comfortable from the outset as a result, and it was like meeting a friend. A was charismatic, respectful but with an undercurrent of sensuality and sexiness too. We both had a great time in his company, and managed to surpass the excitement of the story and concluded with a mutual shower to cool off. Would recommend to any couple considering inviting a third as you wouldn’t regret it.

*ildbanana (53), Woman on 13 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
I always enjoy our meets, respectful, sexy and always makes me feel super special. Maybe there is a space to take it to the next level. Show me the way

*luebell888 (60), Woman on 6 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
Known A for a good few years now and every time we get together we have a blast. Many funtimes have been had and many filthy moments have been shared. A very likeable man who I am happy to have as a friend.x

*reatSexpectations (32), Couple on 5 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
He was next to us on a bed at CJs and I saw the hunger for him in my girlfriend’s eyes. Hence tgey played for a bit while I played with his date for the night. After she told me how good he was. Then later when we were playing with another couple I could see she wasn’t enjoying it, and Mr Handsome was across the room. She got up without saying a word and went straight to him and proceeded to have a long session which ended with her screaming orgasm ringing across the room. It’s the first time in a long time she’s wanted to meet someone again after meeting them at a club. He’s got charm and skills and according to her a fantastic hard cock.

*r bump and miss naughty (51), Couple on 10 July 2022 by Meeting in person:
We had the pleasure of this gent’s company at a sexy little gathering last week. He was the only one we hadn’t met previously but the perfect addition. Great chat, very respectful and considerate both in and out the bedroom and definitely has a naughty, kinky side! He ensures the lady is pleasured and has a way of knowing exactly how to do that…. We’ll certainly be hoping to meet again ;)

*herriesandcream (43), Couple on 21 November 2021 by Meeting in person:
A is a handsome, sexy charming gentleman, we met A for pre drinks prior to our first visit to CJ's and he was instantly welcoming and put us at ease, he is great fun and very easy to have a conversation with. Once it was playtime we were very happy that A joined us for some fun and he did not disappoint, Mrs left a very happy lady, will def meet again x

*urple-lust (48), Woman on 15 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent at club play last night, he's a horny devil very respectful and I must add if generous size is what your looking for, this is definitely where you'll find it xx

*oritoast (31), Woman on 28 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
Broke my fab social meet virginity with Al here. He was a perfect gentleman - respectful, patient and generous with his rich insights into the world of swinging/fabbing. When I feel ready to explore further, Al's on the top of my hit list ;) I'd happily recommend him to fab babes for a meet up x

*ust Peachy (56), Woman on 24 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
Sadly there aren’t many truly eclectic men on fab - but Mr Devil is one of them! We met for lunch and discussed everything from sex to politics and back again! I look forward to an in-depth discussion of 19th and 20th century literature - either before or after an in-depth shag! Thanks for a delightful lunch - and I look forward to examining your tan lines - however faint - after your holiday! Peachy:-) xxx

*unshine123 (51), Woman on 13 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
After a social meet a wee while back, the planets finally coincided to allow us to have some pretty damn fine exploration, playing and pleasing. Also a true gentleman should always come armed with a decent bottle of red wine. A is indeed a true gentleman and knows how to treat a lady. Looking forward to seeing what the new year brings.

*atEvolution (53), Couple on 4 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this absolutely gorgeous couple at atlantisEVOLUTION, Stoke and they are exactly that . . . gorgeous! Genuine, charming, friendly, interesting and all that in a hot, sexy package. You don't often get couples who are both hot, but you do with these two! An absolute must meet :)

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