Experience is as much about giving/doing as receiving/being

Man in Dublin Belfast, Northern Ireland, UK

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I often think how lucky I am, at this moment, to be alive, to be fit and healthy, attractive and able. At some stage, I will be not be here, I will not be fit and healthy, I will not be attractive and able. I project forward and imagine the experiences I have had/will have as lingering as traces of existence. Things that happened and mattered and the meant something in the there and then of the happening. Sex, intimacy in the broadest sense, is a big part of that. I hold on to all those experiences in particular. I carry them with me through hours and days.

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I am poetic.

I thrive in the idea of ‘having an experience’.

If you *just* want to be ‘fucked hard’, I’m probably not for you.

Over the past few years, having lovers as friends and friends as lovers—sexual friendship—has been a revelation. Couples/singles and I, being fully available to each other in the time we have together. This has been the space in which I have explored. Sharing who we are in both a physical *and* psychological/intellectual/emotional sense to the point thar you reach the edge; coming to know the other person, just enough, just that much that you can understand and celebrate what they need/want with you, at that moment. At times it has been incredible.

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SH:24 all clear Feb 26. It’s a great service. Use it.

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What I am interested in:

Real bi male mostly looking for couples here… but also open to chats with single women and sometimes men.

As above, my key interest in all cases is helping to create and being part of incredible experiences.

I want connection. Tell me a bit about who you are. Knowing who you are and what you want turns me on. Let’s get excited by possibilities.

I find socials are great. They help establish attraction and kick start anticipation. Anticipating great sex is so much fun and helps to make the real thing great too. If we meet I smile a lot. I love holding eye contact (see below). And, through conversation, coming to understand what excites you.

With MF couples I love it being about everyone enjoying each other in a proper three way but can focus exclusively on the woman no problem. DVP a real focus for me!

With men, if it comes it, I’m top only.

Important and can’t be stressed enough: Can play straight no problem.

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Who I am:

I’m a professional, PhD-educated and well-rounded intellectually. I really enjoy conversation. I love to challenge and be challenged. Poetry and philosophy are constant reference points.

I’m in great shape too. I love my body (we all should love our bodies). Moving it. Testing it. Pushing it to its limits. I look pretty good too. I’m dark with grey streaks, clean shaven/stumbled and very tall (6ft 2”). Think of a youngish George Clooney or a greying Jamie Dornan (when the angle is right).

I’m a confident leader in life but not loud, brash or aggressive. I’m interested in other people’s lives and always empathetic. Respect is key in all relationships I have.

I’m sensual and work with energy. Not into performing. Just want to be real, which generally means being present and subtly dominant. Love eye deep contact, careful touch and mindful connection with the body. Being in the moment is key. I can fuck hard too but we need to work up to that.

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**Again… Yes, I’m bi but very much masc. Very happy to play 100% straight, so no need to worry guys**

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Sydney University or any one else that wants pictures, no permissions are given to share or distribute. This is high quality material right here, I don’t just give it away. I maintain copyright at all times.

Sam

43 years old, Bisexual

6'2" 188cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Spanking, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*alon13 (47), Woman on 24 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
So I'm just a little behind in writing this, life's been a tad chaotic but I cannot exaggerate what a genuine pleasure it was to meet this truly beautiful man at a party in April. He just oozes sex appeal with disarming ease and as yet there's not an inch of him I wouldn't like to run my tongue over however..... I'll settle for a kiss if you aren't worried about your pumpkin carriage next time our paths cross, hopefully sooner rather than later x

*elly08 (42), Woman on 22 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
I shall never be able to put into words what I think of this man.. especially after such a verification he gave me :o but to summarise. I am gonna climb that man mountain like me life depended on it hahahaha, he is sexy,engaging,smart,charming, funny and charismatic . The eyes,body,chat and just all around aura has me intrigued for what could have been and what is yet to come :) nails sharpened and get ready.. ladies and gents *chefs kiss* xx

*urvyging (51), Couple on 28 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
I had the pleasure of being involved in a ffm with this absolute gentleman. He is respectful and lovely. Easy on the eyes too. We all had a magical connection. He gave myself and the other f our time together, and yes we did get lost in each other. I am very happy that I got to a part of this and hope to have the opportunity to repeat it. It's amazing when everyone feels relaxed and comfortable from the start. Until the next time x

*mmortalValkyrie (48), Woman on 28 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
When moments of deep sensual pleasures and threeway connections happen, they leave a lasting impression and our Ffm was one of thoes moments. Another desire for more exploration with this stunning Gentleman, brought us all to a place where He got to observe, as I was lost to the beauty of Her and where we played forgetting He was there...until we beconed him to us and what transpired transcended mear play... The connection between us three in thoes moments had no words, it just was pure, passionate, hedonistic and extremely intimate. He is deeply enthralling and with a body, face and every part of him sculpted by The Gods, the privilege to know him intimately and as a friend is immense. Beautiful moment in time... with a beautiful soul x

*ena and Josh (51), Couple on 12 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Well, what can I say about this charming handsome man…an absolute pleasure to look and chat to. And a very sexy conversation too. I cannot wait to meet up again and hopefully have longer time in your company!! Until next time. Lx

*iboybelfastgym (29), Man on 11 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I’ve been lucky enough to share a handful of meets with Irishmanabroad now, and the chemistry is just effortless. He is a strikingly handsome man with a lean, muscular build that is quite frankly a work of art—it’s clear he takes incredible care of himself. What I love most is that he isn't just a 'total stud'; he’s someone who truly listens and engages with the moment. He’s been a fantastic partner for exploring new scenarios and pushing boundaries, always bringing a sexy, super-charged energy that leaves me counting down to the next time. A genuine gent and a total powerhouse. Big fan here! ;)

*mmortalValkyrie (48), Woman on 4 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
After our coffee, where the connection was undeniable...our Meet was nothing short of spell binding...I can not adequately describe our beautiful, unique and perfect moment in time, nor do I want too, as some things are just too special to share. To say that this Gentleman is handsome, fit and intelligent is a disservice to what lies beneath the surface of this magnificent male...sexy, powerful, passionate, sensual and oh so utterly captivating, I am relishing the tantalising promises of what is to come and am looking forward to exploring more with this kindred spirit... absolute pleasure x

*aagirl (38), Woman on 11 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of finally getting my lips on this man as part of a group meet, his body is just as amazing in real life as in pics and vids and his lips are just amazing, eyes that stare into your soul in a hot way, it was lovely to spend some time with him, see you soon xx GG

*lonskeagh guy (46), Man on 11 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
This man attended a recent group play at mine. He has a sexual energy that immediately fills a room. Tall, handsome, built like a greek god, and to top it off, is extremely charismatic and an absolute gentleman to the core. Line up Ladies and gents. You will not be disappointed.

*ohnandMary (45), Couple on 17 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Incredible fuckable gentleman , I was dying to unwrap. I know what I want for Christmas x m

*mmortalValkyrie (48), Woman on 14 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Enthralling and captivating....just two words to try to describe my coffee meeting with this Gentleman today..Every message from our first, has led to insightful and imaginative correspondence, so when coffee was arranged..it was so refreshing to see that he was as captivating in reality...This Man is easy to describe as the epitome of Tall,Dark and Handsome...but beyond that attraction is an insightful, intelligent and very interesting Gent. The conversations flowed very easy between us..nothing hidden..nothing off limits..A totally sexy and totally attractive Guy, who dresses impeccably and smells amazing.. and yes...that kiss... a promise of what lies ahead.... xxxx

*heBlowins (43), Couple on 13 October 2024 by Meeting in person:
Fucking hell this guy... We can't properly express how rare it is for us to find a guy who ticks every single one of both of our boxes. He's gorgeous, charming, super smart, and everything we hope for in a play partner.. and we only met him for a social! XD MORE RESEARCH NEEDED ;-) xx

*ihorn49 (47), Man on 11 September 2024 by Meeting in person:
Know this stud a while and meant to verify him already. But after our most recent meet, I have to say he is one of the most sexually charged people I’ve met in a long time. To see him walking towards me on the street made me hard. He’s that sexual!!!! Chemistry is key and with him it’s off the scale…he can be sensual, yet strong and in control. He is always fun and often filthy. His body is like a human climbing frame that you want to grab on to and explore. I also did some stuff with him that I don’t normally do but whilst he pushed me past my boundaries, he made sure our ecstasy was mutual. And like it’s been said, he’s great fun with a great personality! He really has it all.

*orny-dick-30 (34), Man on 31 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
Well, what can I say, him is a gentleman with a great personality. He'll have you laughing from the moment you meet. We hit it off straight away. And wow he is an amazing sexy horny guy, which led to some very naughty fun, he has amazing talents... I just love partying with him with some hot ladies... look forward to a catch up soon you sexy mother fucker Xoxo J

*StudyInScarlett (37), Woman on 20 June 2024 by Meeting in person:
I have been on fab for what feels like a lifetime, and never have I met someone quite like this gentleman. Different and unique are often used when there is a dearth of other positive descriptors, however in Irishmanabroad this is very much not the case. This man is extremely smart but is kind enough to still be grounded enough to have a giggle. And my goodness, those striking looks!! I'll stop here and leave some things to the imagination but my interest is definitely tingling for this gent.

*ammyones (49), Couple on 27 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
What a pleasure it was to spend the night with Sam. From the moment we met we just knew it was going to be hot! He's extremely handsome with an absolutely gorgeous body. In-between great conversation and several outfit changes from Mrs Jammy we had an extremely passionate and horny experience together. We'd jump at the chance of another night with him..he's has it all. Thanks Sam x

*ddieWouldGo (42), Man on 13 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this one at recent MMFF, sound and sensual, looks great and fucks great, a winning combination!

*tarbuck_1 (42), Woman on 12 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this handsome and intelligent one on Friday night when he was invited round for some fun with myself and a couple of friends. Sam is someone that definitely puts his best foot forwards, is extremely comfortable in the group sex scenario and has the right tools to deliver all the goods! Thank you for joining us Mr! K xx

*hor and Freya (50), Couple on 5 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
So we met this very good looking, respectful and genuine guy at one of our arranged Gang Bangs during this week. He produced the goods for Freya who definitely enjoyed herself in taking his hard dick and cum…oh Thor also got in on the fun…. Definitely looking forward to our next encounter very soon with this gorgeous man! T & F xx

*an4guys_belfast (69), Man on 3 May 2024 by Meeting in person:
Sam attended a recent gang bang,,,ladies and gents,,,this guy is a real porn star,,,goodlooking fit hung,,,preforms like a porn star. Do not pass this guy up,,,hes the real deal.

*utterfly and the Bee (42), Couple on 4 March 2024 by Meeting in person:
We had a very enjoyable Saturday night in the company of this gentleman… he’s charming, intelligent and very attractive. It was clear from our previous chats that we all had very similar personalities and filthy minds. We met for drinks and the conversation was effortless… actually felt like we knew each other for years. In the process of planning a very intimate night soon. 3 is the magic number… xxx

*iGymStud (53), Man on 20 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
can I say.l: met this guy last. Night with. 2 other HotStuds If you can envision. A high end. Possibly. Falcon or. Bi guys. Fuck porn. This was it. Everyone was horned up in gym shape hot. eager got right down to business ?? and the man juice shoot all over the hotel room. A definite.

*uscled33 (40), Man on 17 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
Nice guy and hot, until next time

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