Open intelligent guy open to couples and singles (NOT LOOKING FOR IMME

Man in South West/south Wales, Wales, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 weeks ago

After a conversation with two people in one evening saying "Are you on fab?" I decided I needed to get on fab!

So hi! I’m a sexually open, bisexual, single guy on a continuous journey. I'm a progressively minded, thoughtful, well-grounded person who enjoys life, and by "life" I don't mean travelling the world and jumping out of planes and orgies but just having a nice cup of tea and a cake (I'm not against a bit of travelling and I would jump out of a plane, and I do like orgies but I don't think "life" has to be full of those things). I probably seem quite quiet some times, but I definitely have a bit of a wicked side which comes out eventually.

Like a lot of us I'm evolving and learning all the time, about sex and kink, emotions, my own body and soul, what I like and don't like. I'm really enjoying the journey.

I'm a hairy guy (not the very hairiest guy in the world (I've seen pictures on the internet of hairier!), but pretty hairy), and I embrace the identity of being an otter. Otters are cute and hairy and good at juggling. I generally also enjoy body hair and pubic hair in others (men and women and everyone).

I believe sex should be fun more than serious and I don't take any of it too seriously. I want friendly connections based on people I enjoy spending time with, having a laugh with, and having sexy times with.

I'm interested in ethical connection where there's agreement of expectation and good communication - though I think we're all learning all the time, aren't we, and I'm not saying that I always get it right.

THINGS I'M LOOKING FOR:

Parties/clubs/events when of course a sexual encounter can be fleeting and momentary. That's fine in that context, but what I find doesn't work for me is one night stands /"no strings".

I'm much more interested in regular play partners/fuck buddies/friends with benefits ("friend" is a meaningful word for me in this context). I want some kind of a relationship with people, even if it's not a "relationship". I know there's nothing that is totally uncomplicated, and nothing that is without emotions, but we can only keep an eye on these things and try to keep communicating.

So, more specifically I'm looking for:

Couples for threesomes. Any gendered couples are cool. Ideally I'm looking for a bisexual/pansexual dynamic when everyone is into everyone else, or at the very least people who are super comfortable around other bodies. I have enjoyed MMF threesomes, but would also explore with a MM couple, or even a FF couple (ha ha - I know that's unlikely, but a boy can dream), or yes, like I said, any genders. Trying not to talk in too binary a way but it's hard not to. (Also if this leads to bigger groups for group sex, yes please to that too).

A man, person with a penis, or person who wants to peg me to help me explore bottoming more. I've never really got into it, but never had a trusted regular partner to explore it with.

Women into watersports, giving or receiving.

People who are submissive for me to explore being dominant with. I'm trying to work out what kind of a dom I am. I think I really feed off the energy of the other person, which is why this stuff really needs a good connection to start with. I think I'm more an affectionate dom, enjoying passionate animalistic connection. I also really like the visual and to tell someone to masturbate with verbal domination, fingers in the mouth etc. But also kind of degradation, slapping, spitting, spanking, name calling (not actually mean stuff, more like “dirty slut”).

What turns me on as a dom also turns me on as a sub so I’m also looking for people who are dominant for me to explore being submissive with. I like degradation, some pain, I'm unsure about bondage as I tend to panic a bit so that's a learning curve for me. But I really like being treated like a piece of fuck meat, a dirty slut etc.

Men (and then some more men, and then some more) who would be interested in getting together for some circle jerks. No fucking, no sucking, maybe some touching but mainly just looking and raw masculine energy of like 5+ guys wanking off together.

Online friends just to chat to about this crazy world, kink, sex, and whatever.

If that sounds interesting, say hello!

ALSO IMPORTANT INFO:

A hard limit for me is anyone playing without a partner's enthusiastic approval/knowledge.

I am on PREP and regularly test.

42 years old, Bisexual

5'9" 175cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (MM) Couples (FF) Men Women TV/TS
Aged from 21 to 60
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cybersex, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Rimming, Role Play, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*lueeyesdirtyguy (39), Man on 15 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Have known Jack for sometime now. And I look forward to every time we get a chance to play, such a genuine and handsome man who very much has a naughty streak. Xx

*inkyBlueEyesCouple (40), Couple on 12 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Jack has been a play partner of Katlix and Blueeyes for a while! We're so glad he has joined the world of Fab! He's great in a bi MMF. Intelligent, funny and doesn't take group sex too seriously ;) If you want a sensual and joyful evening, then get in touch with him xx

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