Gentleman

Man in Guildford, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 6 days ago

Ideally I'd like to find a like minded female to form a friends with benefits type relationship with and meet on a regular basis to explore each others sexual desires, as well as enjoy dinner/drinks and nights out/in together. The social side is as important as the sexual side for me. I like to build a connection with someone and have fun along the way, making each other smile inside and outside of the bedroom.

I don’t have any particular type, and whether you're blonde/brunette/red head or small/tall, slim or curvy...it's your brain I'm more likely to be attracted to and how well we connect. I firmly believe that connection transfers into the bedroom and makes the sex even more amazing!

I've 'swung' on and off for a number of years and I therefore know how to conduct myself and the etiquette involved in this lifestyle. You'll not find me calling you in the middle of the night pissed or bombarding your phone with messages asking to meet. It's not my style. I'll leave that to the majority of desperate guys on here just looking to get laid and then move onto the next. The same guys that believe a copy and paste message or a one liner with a cock pic attached asking if you want to meet now will grab your attention. I prefer to stand out from the crowd and do things differently.

I am a laid back professional gentleman in my everyday/work life, who also just happens to have a naughty side. A nice balance I find.

If I've piqued your interest and you're a single female or a couple looking for a tall athletically built guy to join you for some fun, please feel free to contact me, and let's take it from there.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Exhibitionist

99% Voyeur

94% Rigger

91% Non-monogamist

91% Dominant

82% Experimentalist

77% Sadist

75% Master/Mistress

72% Primal (Hunter)

72% Brat tamer

James

45 years old, Straight

6'2" 188cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 18 to 55 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Webcams, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Safe Sex, Rimming, Group Sex, Gangbangs, Cuckolding, Anal

Verified Genuine Profile

*rettylittlevice (22), Woman on 12 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gentleman a few times, he’s always so nice and always shows me a good time x

*ineapple_turnover (44), Couple on 1 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
We met James at Studland, he was very polite and engaging before kindly offering to help out with sun cream duties. And he provided an awful lot from his own supply! Thanks James and hopefully see you down there again sometime x