Soiree Hotwife Host

Man in Billericay, South East, UK

Joined: 4 months ago
Last on: 3 weeks ago

Hi all,

I’ve been in the lifestyle on and off for around 20+ years, originally with my first wife and now with my second. I’ve been involved in the BDSM scene and was even a pro-Dom for a time, although in honesty I spent more time assisting female Domme colleagues and friends.

I’ve previously undertaken security and close protection work for some prestigious individuals, as well as assisting with lifestyle, BDSM, and club events when necessary.

I now find myself as one of the co-hosts at H0twife S0irees, which is a private members’ club. Due to medical reasons, I rarely play at these parties — partly because of the crowds (stage fright), but also because I can’t fully relax around large groups due to my security background.

If any of these parties interest you, I’d suggest contacting another co-host, such as Sexy Minx123, who can put you in touch, or simply reaching out to one of her verifications from couples, ladies, or gents that she and the rest of the HWS team have helped arrange. Alternatively, visit the website (one word, no spaces, ending in .co.uk), but please ensure you read the T&Cs, as certain conditions must be met.

Joe

46 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Ample
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Oral, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

Verified Genuine Profile

*ssexUnicorn (38), Woman on 27 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Mr Soiree! A true gent! As a single lady on the scene he makes you feel safe. He's also a great laugh and genuine guy. Much love and hope to see you soon. X

*onkeyBusiness1 (49), Woman on 26 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I have know this wonderful couple for a long time now and they really are genuinely such a lovely couple - it is always wonderful to touch base with them. Welcome at Monkey Business Lifestyle Parties anytime xxx

*he Mufffin Man (54), Man on 13 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I rarely leave verifications for guys but happy to for this wonderful man,cool good looking fella with a twinkle in his eye,always got others joy at heart which makes him top man when organising the event which is Hotwife Soiree ...not to be missed by the Honour to call u a friend

*icarious Vixen (49), Couple on 10 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I met this gent again at last nights FREE networking Essex Social, arrange by Joe and Jade of hotwife soirees. So, can once again confirm he's well mannered but more importantly genuine and reliable for a meet xx

*icarious Vixen (49), Couple on 25 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
The second time I've met this gent and both he and his wife's parties they help host with Hotwife Soirée are a blessing. Thank you again Vikki Xx

*ssex ID Party Couple (46), Couple on 25 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met this legend at a recent couples gangbang party called Hotwife Soirees and found him polite, genuine and courteous, which is a bit of a rare find on FAB these days. So we have no reservation in recommeneding him or Hotwifesoirees,co,uk parties that we found on the internet and who came highly recommended from our mutual friends. Great Party and night all around.

Friends

Zac (54), Man
s (51), Man
BBW&SSBBW LOVER (38), Man
Michelle (49), Woman
Mr (37) & Mrs (40), Couple
Vikki (49) & (), Couple
Charlotte (46) & Joseph (46), Couple