Man looking for women, couples

Man in Cardiff, Wales, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 18 hours ago

Thank you for scrolling down to my profile. It took f**king ages to write, so I would be super grateful if you would read it all (or at least to the bit where you realise I’m not for you).

I’m looking for:

Interactions with females (no shit, there’s a surprise you think)

A long-term partner (you’ll need to have your shit together and be drama-free) for lifestyle and vanilla stuff (yes, I know they’re called unicorns for a reason, but I’m an optimist).

Interactions with couple - both as a couple and scenarios/role plays with the female solo [did anyone say hot wife…]

I’ve been in the lifestyle for about 8 years. The first 6 as part of a full swap bi-female couple (so can completely empathise with males and females; just a quick heads up to the men, I’m gonna talk you a lot. I need a connection with you; I wanna know what you like). The last 2 as a solo guy which has been fun and is certainly a different (and harder) play than being in a couple.

Modestly aside, my veris will tell you I’m a kind, funny, charming gentleman with great conversational skills in a self effacing way.

Outside the lifestyle, I guess I’m a regular guy that likes doing normal stuff - holidays; gym, bars, restaurants etc.

I’m lean/slim, more than athletic - a bit of a butter wouldn’t melt, but with a confident manner and a rather filthy streak.

Been to lots of clubs. LB, xtasia, chams, LE, for example.

Love spending time in cap d’adage (it’s my happy place) and PDI.

I am ALWAYS clean, shaved, fresh (sauvage and l’homme are my go-to OdP, presently) and well dressed.

[it amazes me that one has to write that and that it’s not just a complete given on here…or indeed in life in general, really]

There’s not much off limits for me, but I’m not into excessive pain (some spanking, choking, hair pulling, held-down/restraints/tied is fine), dom/sub or play. Great if that’s yours, but it’s NMK.

Some of my likes:

A drink and sexual build up before play

Well presented people

Great chemistry with both male and female

Slow gentle kissing

Laughing

Flirting outrageously in a bar

Teasing

Public games/dates

Commando; you and me

Voyeurism

Giving head until you cum

Rimming; you and me

And, of course, all the other sex acts

Sydney Uni - knock yourself out. I really couldn’t give a toss.

Be great to hear from you.

Jack

47 years old, Straight

5'10" 178cm
Slim
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 25 to 55
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*aughtyYorkshireCouple (45), Couple on 14 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
We’ve met this lovely guy a few times now and class him as one of our Fab friends. Great company and very funny. Had some great naughty fun in Libs. He really knows how to pleasure the ladies. If you get the chance to play with him you won’t be disappointed xx

*otwife Sharer (43), Couple on 1 January 2024 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy last night .. Girls he is so hot and great company .. can hold a conversation along with a lovely cock .. can’t wait to meet him again to have more fun .. thanks for a great night P .. T&B x

*andm2105 (58), Couple on 10 September 2023 by Meeting in person:
We attended HWC and found this gent in the garden when we arrived. After we settled in our room we joined him with a glass of fizz. A real sociable guy who we instantly got on with. Lots of conversation great sense of humour, we hit it off straight away. Continued the conversation as the night started where he appreciated the outfit changes Tweety Pie had with her. Highly recommend his company. Hope to catch up with you at the next one.

*heHotWifeClub (37), Woman on 12 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for attending TheHotWifeClub at liberty elite on Friday it was a pleasure to have you there xx

*londieandbeastie (49), Couple on 10 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this guy last night in Liberty Elites Hotwife club night. He is charming self effacing a good conversationalist and fun to be around. A little hot tub voyeur action left everyone with big smiles and as it turns out big cocks as well. If you do get the opportunity to meet this guy do yourself a favour and grab it. A more genuinely nice guy with a dry sense of humour you’d be hard to find. It was our pleasure Vicky + Tony xx

*moothie4664 (55), Woman on 10 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met this guy at Liberty HWC last night. He is a friendly guy who is non pushy and knows how the scene works. We started to play alone but soon invited another male to join us, I was totally spoilt. I'm up for playing with him again, maybe in Cap D'agde.

*hetwoofus. (46), Couple on 18 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely man at xtasia last night for the hot wives event. Dressed so well and knows how to hold the chat. I'm still thinking about the dare lol. See you very soon hopefully J and T xx

*aughtyYorkshireCouple (45), Couple on 18 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
We were introduced to this gorgeous guy in Xtasia last night and wow what a fantastic night. He joined us back at our hotel room for more fun. Very naughty night with a lovely guy. Can’t wait to do it again xx

*aughty kittens (54), Couple on 18 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
This guy came to the new Hot Wives event at Xtasia on Friday and we’re so glad he made the choice to join us for this new event. Great conversationalist and lovely personality which is a rare match nowadays. Certainly hope to see him at the next event in April.

*tasia (64), Couple on 18 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
Happy to verify this gent as exactly that, a gent. Well spoken, well presented and no attitude. A pleasure to have around the club

*lassywench (59), Woman on 1 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met up with this absolute gorgeous gent last night with a mutual friend . Hopefully meet up again. Once we get back xx

*tagAndVixen18 (53), Couple on 30 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this gentleman last night for a quiet drink. Wow did that change quickly. Do not be deceived by the ‘butter wouldn’t melt’ look - he definitely has a very naughty side and we thoroughly enjoyed him. Funny, charming and ever so sexy. All boxes well and truly ticked xxx here’s to round 2