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Man in Swindon, South West, UK

... "SO nice to be back in my own bed after a week in a crappy hotel bed!". yesterday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 hours ago

If I wink, I’m interested. If you wink back I will message you x

First off, I have the pleasure of being Neurodivergent: ADHD and Dyslexic

This means that on occasions, I might come across like an attention seeking puppy and seem needy. This isn’t the case, it is the fact that “ADHD-ers” can sometimes hyper-focus on people that they have newly connected with in a very positive way. It is a compliment not a threat!

As good as auto correct is, the dyslexia means that my written communication isn’t always perfect and it can take longer than most for me to write a reply to your message.

I am a creative, degree educated, successful business owner but sometimes I just make lots of smelling pistakes! :-) Before you ask, I have never sold my soul to Santa, neither have I bought a warehouse or wanted to see Rhianna and mistakenly bought Ryan Air tickets etc etc etc. I’ve heard them all ! ;-)

I am a very, genuine, polite, respectful, easy going, fun guy looking for Ladies and Couples for flirty, dirty fun ;-)

The majority of my Veri’s are from socials, I am not a man whore !

I LOVE kissing! It is such a turn on for me and a very intimate way to connect with someone.

Love to give oral as much as receive, apparently I do it quite well. I also love giving sensual/erotic massages with no expectation or need to return the favour.

There has to be be a mental and physical spark with any potential playmates and I always prefer to socialise before playing.

I love a laugh, good banter, some good old fashioned flirting and maybe a cheeky song if I’m lucky ! :-)

I do play with guys but only in a couple MFM situation.

I am respectful of rules and preferences and am more than capable of playing straight and keeping my hands to myself as required.

I am very chilled and am very comfortable with couple’s where Mr is intrigued and wants a non judgemental, easy going guy to experiment with whilst Mrs watches /supports.

I have been many “partners” 1st bi experience. Very low key, nothing scary.

Disclaimer: I was given my the nickname “kinda sexy paul” by the staff at Angels in Melksham. I’m not that egotistical to come up with it myself ;-)

I travel a lot with my job and am always looking for social meets to avoid the “Billy no mates” scenario.

Happy Fabbing!

Paul

48 years old, Bisexual

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 25 to 55
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*urvyUnicorn (44), Woman on 19 April 2024 by Meeting in person:
My partner and I met this handsome chap at the hmw social this week. He’s lovely to chat to and one of the genuine guys on here. Hope to see you again soon x

*mmatitties (26), Woman on 18 February 2024 by Webcam:
Sexy Paul indeed ….. we had a great chat last night and Paul is everything a woman needs xx Can’t wait to meet you sexy !!!

*icked Intentions (45), Couple on 15 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to play with and spoil this wonderful chap yesterday! Lots of fun to be with, both when playing and chatting! We very much look forward to more times like that! Xxx

*n2cpl (48), Couple on 21 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
Wow what can I say, first of all it helps that Paul is incredibly sexy, secondly the massage was absolutely amazing and very erotic. Paul is also so funny, caring and very very talented at everything sexual. Great meet and hope we can repeat it time and time again xxxx

*iss_D_returns (43), Woman on 25 September 2023 by Meeting in person:
I have known this handsome guy for a number of years now. He is funny, cheeky, charming and great company. He also very much knows his way round a woman's body, some of the best sexual experiences i have ever had have been with him. Ladies if you get chance to meet him, take it, you won't be disappointed!!

*_yeahParties (44), Couple on 20 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Sure he is determined to win the ‘most miles travelled to come to our Socials’ award but we’re glad he made the effort to come to another event. Super friendly, happy to chat to everyone and just be a super nice bloke. You’d be in safe hands here ladies I’m sure :-)

*urora1912 (42), Woman on 5 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Briefly managed a chat with Paul at the social, was lovely meeting you Looked like he was getting on well with people and joining in

*idsmilf80 (43), Woman on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this cheeky chappie at the F_Yeah social after chatting for a few weeks. Funny and has loads to chat about will keep you entertained for hours. He's a gentleman when he wants to be and knows when not to be. I look forward to keeping in touch and seeing him again.

*irenOfPassion (54), Woman on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
It was great to meet this kinda sexy fella at the Lincoln social. Very easy to chat and have a laugh with. See you at the next one x

*leasure for you (45), Woman on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
What an amazing man. We met at the social after messaging back and forth and he knew I was new to this world completely put me at ease. He’s kind and thoughtful and the perfect gentleman. He’s absolutely amazing and very handsome. Looking forward to seeing him again.

*atty and Ratty (54), Couple on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Great to catch up again at the lincoln social. Even better that Ratty was allowed to keep his shirt on this time.. Look forward to the next one x

*akeyFunTimesCouple (47), Couple on 4 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Paul is a really nice guy. Dead easy to speak to and very friendly. Good lucking chap we met at the Lincoln Social. We'd love to see more of him in the future.

*exifairy (37), Woman on 15 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Was awesome to meet you again at HMW social and have a catch up! Such a lovely friendly guy and I look forward to seeing u again soon xxx

*ampshires Most Wanted (37), Couple (FF) on 13 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
It was great to meet ksp at his first Fleet social, hope you enjoyed yourself! Seen you again soon. HMW x

*urvykat (55), Woman on 12 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met P fir the first time at the HMW social last night, what a lovely guy! Friendly, chatty and got a great sense of fun. I hope to bump into you again soon x

*nicornHeels (52), Woman on 12 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely human! He's handsome, hot & friendly....it was my absolute pleasure meeting you tonight at HMW albeit a brief encounter I will not forget your your beaming smile!.. Thank you for the hug of love ..Heels! Xxx

*D2015 (49), Couple on 11 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy at the Hants social, very easy to get on with and talk to. Nice genuine and polite, look forward to chatting again.

*_yeahParties (44), Couple on 25 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Very glad to have been able to facilitate this friendly guy's first veris through attending our recent Social. Wasn't shy to get stuck in with the chat and have a good giggle with people. Would always be welcome at anything else we host if he's up in this neck of the woods again!

*ap-scar (30), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Well this chap was a barrel of laughs came over to us to chat as he was new to the social and from that moment he was a pleasure to talk to and someone you can sit down and talk have laughs and have a bloody good evening!! We hope that you enjoyed the evening and even though you down south you come back up for the next f_yeah social soon!! S&L xxx

*rMrsDuck (39), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
This guy!! Unexpectedly got talking to him at the F_Yeah Lincoln social and wow it was just a laugh a minute right until the end, honestly such a great time with you and no doubt we’ll be meeting up again!x

*orny.coupleX (27), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
We met P last night at the FYeah social in Lincoln. He is so down to earth and has a great sense of humour. He flew the nest to socialise but always circled back to us and we were happy with that! Hopefully see you again soon ;) x

*BiGirls (22), Couple (FF) on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
So lovely to meet P last night, such a genuine, down-to-earth, handsome guy with a cracking sense of humour. So glad that you were introduced to us as you meet us feel at ease straight away, thank-you for such a lovely night, and for making us so comfortable. All our love, C&J xx

*heVonMatterhorns (34), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
We bumped into P at the F_Yeah social last night and he is a super friendly guy, easy to talk to, and a genuinely interesting and interested person.