Come and say hello. I don’t bite. Unless you ask me to!

Man in Shepperton, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 days ago

I enjoy meeting women and couples who appreciate good chemistry, a bit of confidence, and someone who knows how to take their time. I’ve been in the lifestyle long enough to know the best experiences come from connection, not rushing the outcome.

I’m in a strong relationship, and we play both together and separately with complete trust — it keeps things exciting and honest.

My style leans towards calm dominance — more about subtle control, reading the room, and building anticipation than anything over the top. I enjoy the slower pace, the teasing energy, and letting things develop naturally.

I also have a soft spot for voyeurism and exhibitionism — there’s something about that shared awareness that adds an extra edge.

I’m straight, discreet, and easy to get along with. I tend to connect best with confident solo women and grounded couples who know what they want and enjoy the journey getting there.

If you like someone who listens, takes his time, and enjoys the build-up just as much as anything else — say hello.

Graham

45 years old, Straight

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 21 to 55 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*hat the hell (47), Couple on 29 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
Graham is always brilliant fun to be around, couldn’t ask to meet a more honest and genuine gentleman. Very easy on the eye as an added bonus x

*URORA FESTIVAL (62), Couple on 26 August 2017 by Meeting in person:
We have known graham a while and can honestly say you won't find more genuine ! Really GETS the lifestyle and great sense of humour , he will always put a smile on your face :-)

*p2001 (51), Couple on 23 September 2015 by Meeting in person:
We met this polite, entertaining gentleman and the end of a very active evening when all our energy was sapped!!...we're sure we'll meet at Abfabs in the future xx

*1968 (57), Man on 5 July 2014 by Meeting in person:
Genuinely a good guy and a good laugh.. Not sure if I was his wing man or he mine on the night at abfabs but either way, together with 3 of the ladies there on the night, we managed to have a good laugh and build the foundation of some good friendships