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Man in Cheshire, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 hours ago

Back after a few weeks away — intentionally.

I’m unapologetically genuine, confident, intelligent, and very much my own man. A mature Scandinavian bear by nature: grounded, disciplined, quietly intense. Think true Viking energy — calm strength, sharp mind, strong body, and a presence that doesn’t need to perform.

Former special forces, now fully civilian. The career changed, the standards didn’t. I’m discreet and fiercely private. I have a professional life and value a low-key on here / off here presence. Discretion isn’t optional — it’s instinctive.

Energy matters. Standards are high. I’m selective by design.

I’m here for connection, not collecting bodies.

I value intelligence, presence, and conversation that has substance. I’m not drawn to noise, ego, or empty posturing — I prefer authenticity, self-awareness, and people who know who they are and where they’re going.

I appreciate women who carry themselves with confidence — classy, self-aware, and unapologetic. Manners matter. Boundaries matter. Respect is assumed, not negotiated. Disrespect or laziness gets deleted without discussion.

I’m playful, sharp, and very much alive. Calm in the day-to-day, controlled under pressure — but never boring. I enjoy slow-burn intrigue, mutual fascination, and chemistry that builds rather than rushes.

Ideally, I’m looking for something deeper than casual: trust, intimacy, shared adventures, and moments that actually mean something. Attraction matters, but chemistry and intelligence matter more.

Relationship-wise, I’m open to someone who is emotionally available — whether fully single or consciously stepping away from something that no longer fits. Honesty and intention matter far more than labels.

No instant meets. No faceless profiles. No blurry photos.

If you’ve made it this far, you likely recognise intention when you see it.

If my tone resonates and my calm confidence intrigues you, perhaps we’re aligned enough to start a proper conversation.

— M

Matthias

48 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

I don't fill space for the sake of it. I'm here for connection that f

Man in Cheshire, North West, UK

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