Looking for friendship with benefits.

Man in Boston, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: over a year ago

Hello and thank you for looking.

I have just moved up here to the Spalding / Boston area, and looking to make new friends hopefully. Im looking for long term friends with hopefully benefits if we all get on well, to share the fun side with, as well as maybe the normal every day stuff. and both have fun along the way. Or just some nsa fun in the interim.

I am completely single now,but have been swinging for well over 20 years as a couple.so if you want someone to push your boundaries, or lead you into temptation.im very much a giver and get enjoyment from this.

I have a good life with great friends & family and a great work /life balance. I dont need a partner, it would just be great to have a regular friend.

I think my friends would say I am a clean, discrete, fun, well mannered and well groomed,(except for when I'm doing the horses and alpacas ) tactile, openly affectionate, confident dominant cheeky guy but not arrogant,and a very sociable person, I am caring and loyal with friends and family and like to meet new people and see new places. Enjoy spoiling and being spoilt, young in attitude, Enjoy spontaneity, I'm happy with a night out or cuddled up in the hot tub. My interests include Horses,Sailing, film, theatre, diving, walking my dogs, love a good discussion.

I love getting away for weekends, love the coast or countryside.

I love music of all types, and like seeing a good live band. I love a night out with friends. But have no interest in football.

In looking for a woman or a couple. I am not looking for perfection (that would be so boring to have to live up to) but I am attracted to open intelligent people who also know how to laugh.

I work strange shifts but get weeks off, Im also able to work round your shifts! if you work shifts.

I only ever meet socially first time, if no connection no sex. It works both ways and I never assume or presume I'm your cup of tea. If I'm not your type please just say. I'm not going to get offended or throw a wobbly its life, I'd rather you say, then it saves my time which is pressous and yours on something that is never likely to be.

PS. I have a straight male friend who is thinking of moving up here who is also a swinger, so if you are looking for a MM. say. I have been on Fab over a year with few reviews there’s probably a good reason for that! Yes there is laughing I'm busy saving and rescuing greyhounds and have friends not on here.

the horseman

63 years old, Straight

5'7" 170cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Women
Aged from 20 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Oral, Rimming, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

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*nnie888 (68), Woman on 4 December 2018 by Meeting in person:
Horseman very kindly chaperoned me to my first club visit and was the ideal companion with his cheek, support and encouragement. I think I have found a good friend and hope to thank him one to one very soon. ;-) x

*nnie888 (68), Woman on 27 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Well that was a fun way to spend an afternoon and to explore possibilities and stuff. Think I may need further instruction and to have another look at my boundaries....very happy to see that cheeky glint in the eye again while doing so.

Friends

Puff (59), Man
D (68), Woman