Stimulate the mind, the body will follow

Man in Byfield, West Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 4 weeks ago

Hi, I’m just a regular kind of guy with a healthy attitude to life seeking like-minded company for plenty of banter and occasional but regular company. Quality and familiarity outweighs quantity every time. I’m lucky enough to have found some amazing friends in this lifestyle but that doesn’t mean there isn’t room for more lovely people.

I can string a sentence together and use an apostrophe. My sense of humour is dry and I am a huge flirt. My cheeky smile can get us both into trouble - so watch out.

Functionally I’m in full working order, jabbed up (for those who care about those things) and have a physique somewhere between gym fit and dad bod.

For me it’s about attitude over looks. The inexplicable quality that lights the spark. So long as you take pride in your appearance and avoid Bridget Jones’ pants we’ll probably click.

Happy to meet for a social or at a club, take it from there.

I’ve been here for a while now but wouldn’t claim to be a hardened swinger and of course totally discrete. So I’m probably more suited for the cautious, a FWB or the extra treat for a couple.

That’s plenty for now, happy to chat here or elsewhere. I don’t do copy and paste so if I say hi I’m genuinely interested and have read your profile. I’m not offended by a polite rejection either. I don’t mind a wink if you’re stuck for an opening line.

Safe photos here - I like to leave a little for the imagination (or second message at least!). Happy to swap a face pic on request.

Just me

51 years old, Straight

5'6" 168cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Women
Aged from 30 to 57
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Oral, Group Sex, Blindfolds, Adult Parties

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*idsmilf80 (43), Woman on 28 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
What can I say....meeting this utter gentleman has changed my world completely. He's taken me to levels that I never knew existed. Ignited a passion that only grows everytime we meet. Very pleased to have met him and hope to see him many more times. :)

*angerousCurvesParties (43), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Thank you so much for attending the first DC of 2023. We couldn't do this with you, our fabulous guests. You helped make it such a special night. The club was buzzing! Hope to see you again when we're back on 17 February for Red Hot. Until then, happy fabbing R&Z xx

*dnRu (48), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
At last! This gentleman answers to the call of a lady! What a lovely time we had. Smiles a million! Thank you ??

*aucy and Busty (50), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
So finally got to meet this gent in person at DC on Friday night. It's been too long in coming after chatting online for months. He is a down to earth, respectful and funny guy and we can't wait to spend more time with him in the future

*aughtycp1 (48), Couple on 22 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Had a real giggle with this hot guy in the Hot Tub at Liberty Elite. A very charming man with a great sense of humour. What a wonderful night. Can't wait to see him again x

*r and Mrs A Horny (40), Couple on 21 January 2023 by Meeting in person:
Always great to catch up. This guy is a true gentleman catch up at the next Dc or online xx

*dnRu (48), Couple on 7 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Got to know this lovely guy via discord and he didn’t disappoint in person. Enjoyed some time in the hot tub. Until next time…

*r and Mrs A Horny (40), Couple on 3 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
We finally got to meet at Dc what a lovely guy even if we got in his way and tried to trap him on the big bed xx see you soon

*hybustybbw69 (42), Woman on 3 December 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this true gent at Libs last night. He is quite cheeky underneath tho. Definitely looking forward to our paths crossing again xx

*edhead00 (48), Woman on 22 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Dinner and chat with this lovely man was a great few hours. The food was a little iffy but that's my fault for choosing the place! It didn't matter though as we chatted easily about anything & everything! Looking forward to meeting again and take things further hopefully x

*D of fun (51), Couple on 14 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
A cheeky start of the week Social.. that went well. Looking forward to seeing more and having some fun next time x

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