Older guy here just looking to enjoy the frisson of something sexy!

Man in Bedford, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 13 hours ago

Time to ‘fess up that a milestone birthday looms but I am still in reasonable shape. Up front I should say my marriage is loving but entirely sexless and I need to be discreet. I am a sociable person, moderate drinker and definitely a non-smoker. I am semi-retired so have a good amount of free time and an excuse to be out of the house alone, especially during the working week and sometimes evenings and weekends too. If accommodation is a problem, I would be very happy to find a good hotel.

I am sane and sorted and some folk are kind enough to say I am good company. I am also genuine, and would be happy to prove it; maybe by meeting up for a coffee or glass of wine. So, when you have finished reading if you have any suggestions or ideas, or just want to chat, then get in touch.

I am happy with vanilla fun but have my adventurous side too. I would describe myself as basically heterosexual and bi-curious. Dressing in fetish or femme gear and being an exhibitionist is enjoyable for me, mainly because of the frisson of doing something ‘naughty’. I have been lucky enough to play with a MF couple two or three times and I have visited a couple of pro-dommes on a few occasions. But I am not a natural submissive, and although I am willing and able to contribute financially the transactional nature of these encounters tends towards feeling ‘sleazy’.

I do occasionally watch porn, wank of course, sometimes cam online and if opportunity allows get dressed up – panties, stockings and so forth. I also am happy if you have limits and I will not pressurise anyone to go beyond them – for example, maybe you are a lady who likes having her pussy licked but does not want to feel you have to fuck in return. Just an example.

Basically, it is all about having fun in the company of liberally-minded folk of all persuasions – oh yes, and getting your rocks off one way or another is always nice too!

Nesh

70 years old, Bi-curious

5'8" 173cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Men Women
Aged from 45 to 75
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Cross-dressing, Cuckolding, Cybersex, Dogging, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Webcams

Verified Genuine Profile

*spanking6 (62), Man on 24 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
Meet up yesterday with this very lovely gentlemen . And have a very lovely time together. It’s very genuine, and definitely like to meet again.

*hecarpenter (81), Man on 24 July 2023 by Meeting in person:
Very nice meet at a very special space , i left happy