Feeling very happy to be back in Cornwall

Man in West Cornwall, South West, UK   TickPhoto VerifiedOn mobile site

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 59 minutes ago

Hello All.

Thanks for stopping by and checking out my profile. You might be that lady or couple who helps to bring me out of my shell, so please read on.

'have had some great times through fabs (and other sites). Reserved at first, but once comfortable, I’m broadminded, versatile and enthusiastic for new adventures.

As well as a lady and gent couple for mutual fantasy fulfilment, I’m looking for a like spirited lady partner for sharing good times out of the bedroom as well as in - a 'friend with benefits' if you like.

Sense of humour, mutual attraction are more important than age, race, creed or colour. Oh, and no jaded cynics please-‘ don’t wanna be a notch on anyone’s bed post thanks. I’m happy to respect boundaries, enjoy the thrill of anticipation and seduction and hope you do too.

So, have a look at my pictures, read my interests and look up my forum posts. If you like what you see then drop me a few lines with a little about yourselves. No interest in camming, Skype, Facebook or KIK etc. - Let’s exchange here, enjoy a social meeting or two and take things from there.

Happy swinging everyone! ;-)



49 years old, Bi-curious

5'10"  178cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Not looking for single guys
Couples (MF) Women TV/TS
Aged from 30 to 60
Will meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Adult Parties, Oral, Phone Sex, Role Play, Safe Sex, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Watersports

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*urvycarly (45), TV/TS on 8 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
Great guy warm and wellbeing section bgood body. Nice looking xx

*ust Stella (46), Woman on 22 November 2019 by Meeting in person:
Sometimes Fab brings you wonderful surprises and that's what Paul is to me. Absolutely a gentleman, who treated me like a queen at all times during our meet. Thank God for the company of such quality person that I am proud to call my new friend. Thanks Paul, hope to see you very soon. Muchas gracias!!

*mma J Tgirl (45), TV/TS on 9 November 2019 by Meeting in person:
Definitely a sociable guy, easy to chat to, good looking and very eager once things turned hotter. Made sure he left with a big smile and happy to meet up again anytime honey. Xx

*sGivesWood (52), Woman on 19 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
A pleasure to have this lovely gent attend Swingles social tonight. Lovely to finally put a face to a name of a forum legend. Hopefully see you at the next one. Xx

*aidfromkernow (56), Woman on 18 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Lovely to see my gorgeous Fab friend without benefits, who's currently visiting Cornwall. Looking forward to a night out in Falmouth with him... Come and say hello... He's worth your attention x

*ubbyand wife (52), Couple on 11 October 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met Paul on number of times now he can hold conversation. but when he gets going he don't stop. We all had a fab time. l don't by pass this man by. We are looking forward to next time X

*ot Wife Becky (54), Couple on 15 September 2019 by Meeting in person:
We had been in touch for several months before we finally got to meet Paul at a beach side bar in Spain. A pleasant afternoon discussing life and the universe played out while strolling along the sand before deciding that we were actually all on the same planet and shared many of life's dreams. This in turn lead to a cunning plan to get together soon and entertain Becky to the fullest extent. We're looking forward to the next time when things will be a bit more intimate.

*iceness (53), Woman on 5 July 2019 by Meeting in person:
What to say about Paul? He is an amazing man. See you again hun. Stay cool x

*lymouth Socials (44), Woman on 3 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this very very sexy guy at the Plymouth social. He is very polite and got a very sexy bum (not that I was perving it all night Lol). Hopefully our paths cross again soon as there is a cream tea at stake lol xx

*aidfromkernow (56), Woman on 19 May 2019 by Meeting in person:
Paul is a genuine friend, who I met through the site. So pleased we did and what a day we had yesterday, involving me picking him up at the dock gates, driving him to the countryside, enjoying naughty food, encouraging him to come to my hotel room in and joining him later at the Plymouth social... All as friends. XX

*ama6163 (59), Couple on 13 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
What a great night we had with the guy at our first social. Lots of laughter chatting and dancing. Looking forward very much to meeting him again. X

*oxy2004 (53), Couple on 13 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this fab guy socially with friends last night. Very sexy, friendly and genuine guy. Had a great time in his company. Keep in touch x

*oneypenny2018 (58), Woman on 12 February 2019 by Meeting in person:
Well ladies this guy is the perfect gentlemen. Polite, courteous and so very hot. What started off as a pot of tea for two somehow ended up in a hotel room where it got very hot. This guy certainly knows how to please and I can't wait for round 2 to begin xxx

*ouiseSA (58), Woman on 8 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
I had a lovely meet this afternoon with this interesting man, turned up on time and was easy to chat to with very pleasant manner. So I am happy to verify him as genuine.

*urplepony (60), Couple on 4 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
Friendly,well groomed, punctual and brought biscuits to have with the coffee! The 3 of us had a fab time, and he got to tick off some of his bucket list as well. Happy to oblige, such a nice guy xxxx

*oobyloulou (50), Woman on 21 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Had a 2nd meet with this lovely guy for mmf fun . Very attentive to both me and Richy, a great time had xx

*oobyloulou (50), Woman on 7 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Wow, had a great meet with Paul tonight, he joined me and my fb for a bi mmf. A fantastic time had by all. Looking forward to our next meet xx

*aidfromkernow (56), Woman on 20 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
What a fantastic end to Falmouth week I had. To enjoy the company of Paul, enjoying dinner, watching fireworks, The Bohemians gig and our own special after-hours show. Perfect. Definitely a new FAB friend. And I'll be delighted to see him when he's ever in port. Xxx

*ockbun (62), Woman on 7 June 2018 by Meeting in person:
Just spent an evening talking this lovely, attentive, good looking and respectful man under the table!!! Sorry you didn’t get the opportunity to say much. It was a bit public to talk fab especially with an old friend on the next table. Like to say I chose the venue for the spectacular sunset but I forgot to order the sun :-( Perhaps next time I can show you some ‘weird’ and wonderful secluded areas of this island. H x

*.Bootylicious (51), Woman on 10 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Well Paul is one of the nicest men I have met on the scene...He smiles all the time, looks great and his social skills are second to none... He ALWAYS makes an effort to mix with everyone and is just really really genuine... See you soon Paul... Much Love Booty xxxxx

*teve1001 (53), Man on 26 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
Meeting in person. Random meet. Easy going genuine bloke. No nerves .felt very comfortable. Quick meet but well hot

*etite50 (56), Woman on 14 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
Oh wow we supposed to meet up for a meal and ?? then get carried away. He is such a gentleman, respectful, polite manner and very kissable. We will meet up again soon xxx

*ubbyand wife (52), Couple on 14 March 2018 by Meeting in person:
Wow what an afternoon, as always no holds barred, a perfect gentleman exceptional orally and we don’t mean the chatting variety, can’t wait for the next time x

*airly Naughty (41), Couple on 8 March 2018 by Meeting in person:
I had a most delightful birthday yesterday thanks to this lovely gentleman. Extremely respectful, lovely to talk to and a pleasure to spend time with. And boy does he know his way around a woman's body!! Fabulous oral skills , I'm still throbbing ??. Hope to see you again soon x

*cedbuns (42), Woman on 14 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Paul and myself have exchanged messages for quite awhile before actually getting a brief evening to meet. It was a truly lovely evening with no agenda. Very relaxed and looking forward to seeing you next time you’re local

*ubbyand wife (52), Couple on 2 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Meeting in person: for 2nd meet Met Paul at a Hoteal . Nice genuine guy. Polite and mindful. Could not wish to meet a nicer guy spent time going down and making sure Mrs was happy , great sex definitely knew how to use his mouth. And try new things ?? definitely going to meet again xx

*ig Jism (45), Man on 1 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
Paul is genuine, fit, and has great stories to tell of past experiences. Then he gets to work, this man can deep throat! Cheers mate!

*s.silk (52), Woman on 5 September 2017 by Meeting in person:
Recently met up with Paul again and had a lovely afternoon at eurekas. This guys pussy licking skills are fantastic......ladies you must try him Nice seeing you again my old friend xcx

*laaaah (36), Couple on 2 September 2017 by Meeting in person:
We met Paul for a drink last night. He's handsome and very charming - a perfect gentleman. He's got a great sense of humour (he laughed at my jokes), but he needs to brush up on his knowledge of castles on the Isle of Wight :) Cheers!

*elstonman (41), Man on 14 May 2017 by Meeting in person:
Great guy who loves to suck cock at length, and is extremely good and experienced at it, my kind of chap

*ubbyand wife (52), Couple on 30 April 2017 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely guy good time had by all look us up next time your this way would love to spend more time with you. A & S

*weetypie2010 (55), Woman on 5 March 2017 by Meeting in person:
a last minute arrangement to meet as not usually free on a sat but had spare time for a social . have met paul a couple times b4 and always nice to spend time with one to one . had a gd chat and will do it again soon ,, thnx hun xx

*weetypie2010 (55), Woman on 21 February 2017 by Meeting in person:
well im back again , met this guy again yesterday for something more than a drink. he did nt let me down in the fun dept. gd tongue which kept me flowing for ages. was well worth meeting again , had to plan it due to me being busy .just an all round nice guy , had a lovely time and more than happy to do it all again ..thnx hun xx

*weetypie2010 (55), Woman on 28 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
met this very sweet guy for a drink this evening b4i went home from shopping , gd chat and easy to get on with , hope to meet again . I don't often get free time on a sat so was nice to have some for a change , defo real and worth meeting x

*exyredhed (61), Couple on 12 December 2016 by Meeting in person:
We met this genuine friendly man just recently. He arrived on time and had certainly made an effort to look smart and smell nice! . After chatting for a while we moved to the bedroom and had lots of fun. Very nice guy. Xx

*aughty giggles (57), Woman on 5 December 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met this beautiful soul over a water chocolate bar and chipstix at a bbw night Had an amazing aura about him,totally respectful non forceful caring and chatty. We learnt to twerk together which was hilarious and then the Conga all good fun of the evening Never laugh so much Totally genuine caring and one amazing person Girls be patient little shy but your get there if your wait

*oyhunter (47), Woman on 2 April 2016 by Meeting in person:
Well....I didn't really expect someone will to come...but He came..He is a good looking gentleman...good partner to talk and have some fun....I am really glad we met with Him xxx

*otlills (49), Woman on 12 March 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met with Paul last night, turned up with wine, always a plus, conversation flowed and evening turned into a very fun time.... Ladies he is the perfect gent and not pushy in anyway and will wait for you to make the move and it's well worth it...... Don't let this guy pass you by and don't be fooled by the quiet exterior...... Looking forward to meeting this lovely man again.

*zzywizzy (50), Woman on 14 November 2015 by Meeting in person:
I have recently spent some fabulous times with Paul. He is a truly generous gentleman in all senses of the word. We spent lots of time having interesting conversations and laughs. He has some exceptional skills going on behind that polite exterior - exceptional kissing through to extraordinary oral and delicious sex. A fab playmate x

*zzywizzy (50), Woman on 18 October 2015 by Meeting in person:
I'm still grinning like a Cheshire Cat after today's meeting with Paul. A sunny afternoon of eating, mooching, culture and talking led to kissing and a little teasing. A taster of spectacular things to come methinks. Smashing. Just smashing xx

*ross123 (46), Couple (MM) on 13 September 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met him Saturday afternoon. As soon as I open the door, could not wait to strip him. He look so hot can't believe hes single.but give others a chance to treat their self with his body. Don't miss out and try him. A guy that you would love to meet often.

*oney 777 (48), Couple on 14 June 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met again after having a social really nice man had fun with him great conversationalist great fun we both enjoyed hopefully we will meet again :) xx

*iSTARess (44), Woman on 30 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
An absolute gent. Met me at my gig in Soho, we went to the fabulous Roma party and saw me home safely too. Sweet and genuine guy x

*oney 777 (48), Couple on 4 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
Well thankyou sir was really nice meetin you an we WILL MEET again :)

*ndyandi (55), Couple on 3 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
After sifting through the usual Saturday night time wasters we came up trumps with this guy. Joined in like a true gent. Respectful and certainly no prude. Defiantly pencil him in for a return visit.

*it4MMF (44), Man on 18 November 2014 by Meeting in person:
We had a lovely time with Paul and a lovely MF couple the other weekend. Hope to repeat soon! Nice genuine gentleman, who knows how to have fun.

*cd and scruff (58), Couple on 10 November 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met with paul for round two. Excellent evening, great fun and yet again he was very attentive to ocd's needs finaly rewarding her with a mouth full of cum

*s.silk (52), Woman on 26 October 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met Paul a few times and can recommend him to anyone. He is a keen group player and likes to join in as much as possible , however ladies should you find yourself alone with this gentleman I can honestly say he is very attentive to a woman's wants and needs great oral received and can literally lick cunt for hours ...... Thanks for the fun XxX

*cd and scruff (58), Couple on 22 September 2014 by Meeting in person:
We met paul on sunday at his hotel and had a great time. Good company. Good conversation and good sex.