Pleasure with respect

Woman in Llanelli, Wales, UK

Joined: 8 months ago
Last on: online now!

A bit about me

I am not married. I don't mind if you are. I am not here to judge. However, I am not interested in meeting anyone who is attached to a partner who doesn't know that they are on here.

I am here as a very risk averse person and I require absolute discretion and privacy. If I see you after we meet I will completely ignore you not because I am being rude but because I don't want any drama, including not having to explain to anyone how I know you. It's just got to be like that in the big wide world.

Having said that I am not a cold person and I don't want to be with a cold clinical man. I am less interested in you having a helicopter and more interested in your taste in music, or if you can write poetry. I love both.

The human body is designed for pleasure, not to be shamed for our sexual needs, and they may be very different. So perhaps it may be helpful if I say some of mine ... I would also like to hear yours. My mind is a very sensitive erogenous zone, so stimulate me there first, but only if you can deliver in reality.

My breasts are very sensitive. No nipple twisting or pulling or tweaking, or even hard sucking or flicking. It just shuts me down completely.

I adore kissing, but not excessive amounts of spit. And I actually like feeling a man's body weight on top of me. I like spoons where your hands come around me and you are gently playing with my clit as your cock moves slowly inside me, your hands holding me against you so you control my sensations.

I want you to vary my sensations by slowly licking my pussy, with your arms around my body so you are Holding me firmly. Long slow licks. And after a while you stop. And move your cock inside me just past the tip, and move slowly in and out so I get to feel your hard masculine energy inside me. And then you stop. You go back to holding and licking my pussy slowly. So I can feel your soft sensual masculine energy. Delicious power for me to respond to over and over again. And then you stop this time your cock goes in a little deeper. And this continues until you are completely inside me. As a woman I want to surrender to your masculine energy and feel safe in equal measure. It's rare to have that level of integrity and trust in this realm.

Can you do that?

Tell me random stuff about yourself as I want to be with a person not just a functional body. It's a human thing we are doing here right? Let's be open with one another.

And I want this to be equal. So giving and receiving is essential for me to feel connected, even if it's temporary. It needs to be personal for me.

If I don't reply I instantly I am not being rude. I only have a limited number of messages I can send every day. Already been blocked by an aggressive man who had no patience and jumped to conclusions about why I had not responded.

I like politics, travel, books, poetry, music, be able to have a conversation about life not just fuck and go. It's a human experience as well. I don't think sex is dirty or shameful. And language is delicate and sensitive. It doesn't need to be vulgar. I love hearing a man's voice during sex, especially when he is about to lose control. And I like to hear what a man actually wants. It's a 2 way thing. I love giving massage. Can bring oils. And I love getting lost in the sensations of my body, feeling a man holding me as his mouth gives me pleasure slowly. I like 69 with me on top. Your tongue licking me slowly. No fingers. So I can yearn for your cock. I want to explore having a g spot orgasm. So I want a cock that can move in and out of me slowly and build up pleasure. Do you have the patience for that?

Also not into the following...

No drugs. Or 420. I want your masculine energy in its pure form not supplemented by substances. Just not my thing.

And no smokers either. I am sensitive to chemicals and can taste the nicotine on a man's cock and if he goes to down on me I can feel it afterwards in my sensitive pussy.

I consider myself to be hetrosexual, but happy to explore giving and receiving pleasure with women . Not into toys. I want human skin, not silicone. I tried anal beads years ago. And found them boring. It's just not my thing.

I have other fantasies that I would like to explore doing if we get on and want to continue.

Late night meeting are not possible. I have a dog who has epilepsy and his seizures are always at night, so I am a bit of a Cinderella sadly. I prefer meeting during the day or if at a hotel that I am home by 7pm to make sure my pup is doing ok.

Last minute meeting. Unless we get to know one another really well and it's an ongoing thing, it's fairly pointless asking me to hook up without a plan.

Not into voyeurism. I am not really interested in watching. I like a physical experience with a human being. No . No filming at all as I am a private person.

And unless we form a relationship I will not swallow. Same with safe sex.

Life is short. So I hope I have answered some of your questions.

And if I say I will meet you, I will turn up. Unless some emergency crops up. I am not a game player and that's a part of respect for me.

I am not ignoring anyone and trying to reply as quickly as I can. But I also have things to do. So I will get back to you as quickly as possible. Even if it's a no thank you. Again just a part of being respectful.

I turn up in very ordinary clothing, shorts t-shirt and sandals. I don't want to draw attention to myself.

Hope that lets you know a bit more about me.

60 years old, Straight

5'1" 155cm
Curvy
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Men Women
Aged from 36 to 65 only
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, Soft Swing, Swingers Clubs, Threesomes

Verified Genuine Profile

*eltic Wanderer (44), Man on 14 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gorgeous lady today, beautiful inside and out, very easy to talk to, cany wait for another coffee and a chat x

*ichbrecon (42), Man on 10 April 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely lady today for a cuppa and a chat.very sweet and loveliest person I have met in a long time.

*outhernGuy99 (56), Man on 8 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
What can I say about this wonderful lady. She’s a truly remarkable woman — beautiful in every sense, not just in appearance but in the depth of her mind and spirit. Every conversation with her feels effortless and meaningful, as though our thoughts naturally align. There’s a quiet grace in how she speaks and carries herself, commanding respect without ever asking for it. She deserves to be treated with nothing less than admiration and respect.

*onkey 2023 (55), Man on 2 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met for a chat over coffee (a social), and what a truly wonderful lady she is.

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