Experimental and new to ENM looking for women or couples

Couple in Colchester, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 weeks ago

We're a geeky, intellectual, fun, creative, martial-artsy couple, who've been together for 21 years and are still crazy about each other. We're looking for friends and/or playmates (women or couples; sorry, no single guys).

We're big on connection and flowing conversation. Enthusiastic consent is a must, and effort is sexy. Family life makes getting away logistically tricky, so we tend to chat online/WhatsApp for a bit to see if there's a vibe, then progress to meetups (socialising or play) once we know there's a connection there.

Social drinkers and smoking/420 friendly, but not regular smokers ourselves.

Him on her: Tiny, sexy, ridiculously open-minded and far smarter and funnier than she realises. Insightful, empathic and kind, but also tough as nails and will kick your arse if you deserve it. X-D

Her on him: Amazingly attentive and thoughtful mind and body, with a focus on self improvement, and an incredible drive to never give up on something he believes in or anything that is important to those he cares about. He can turn his hand to almost anything, sometimes with wonderfully bruising results ;-p. Smart, sexy, and safe.

She's a vibeosexual; fitness and athletic looks are nice, but a connection and easy, flowing chat are essential. Very good at sussing out dynamics and personalities, and pretty quickly gets a read on things.

He's more visual; loves active people who keep themselves in shape, but also softer, curvy, feminine figures. Chatty and will happily talk to anyone about anything, but really loves hearing people talk about stuff they're passionate about while he soaks it all in.

This is very much an "us together" thing rather than an "either of us" thing, so not interested in separate play or classic "swapping"; foursomes/moresomes or FFM are more our bag, baby.

You: Good looking and fit/curves in the right places, please (not yucking anyone else's yums, but that's what we're into). Classiness is sexy, and discretion, a sense of humour and an accepting attitude are a must. Effort is sexy - if we have to make all the running in conversation, or if you're focusing on one of us and ignoring the other it makes it weird and things quickly fizzle out.

Face pictures on your profile or first message, please - we understand discretion but we like to know who we're talking to; you're not just a collection of body parts, and a nice face is a huge turn-on. Obviously we're happy to return the favour!

M46/fit/caucasian/straight

F40/fit/asian/bisexual.

47 years old, Straight

6'0" 183cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings

40 years old, Bisexual

5'3" 160cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
More than 5 piercings

Looking For

Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women
Aged from 28 to 48
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Blindfolds, Group Sex, Oral, Safe Sex, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*olly and Troy (54), Couple on 16 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Wow, what an afternoon we’ve just had with this gorgeous couple. We clicked with Rose and Orchid the moment we started chatting at the lockers. They joined us in the hot tube and then for further conversation on the patio. These guys are seriously attractive and sexy, she has a stunning figure and is certainly no beginner when in action. He is slim, strong looking and has an arse most men would be jealous of. Thoroughly enjoyed hot, sensitive, fun, and totally awesome play with these two. I really hope we meet again, hopefully for a night event because we’d love to get dressed to impress for these sexy beauties.

*att1987300 (39), Man on 1 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met these guys last night at a monkey business party. Very attractive couple and were so easy to talk to. Looking forward to seeing you again soon

Friends

Troy (54) & Holly (54), Couple
matt (39), Man
Jaydee (70) & Tracy (63), Couple