Exploring…with caution. Bigger lady, seeking to explore my desires, in

Woman in Hertfordshire, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 week ago

Now 40, want to explore my sexual and sensual desires - but it has to be safe…non negotiable!

In a long term relationship, and my sex drive can be pretty high at times; I love the thrill of new connections, and gaining in confidence (which also means being more selective) I’ve got to be attracted to anyone I’m going to have contact with - that includes being attracted to a personality and their values! It’s meat more than “just sex” for me to feel relaxed enough to have a connection, chat etc.

Love intimacy, passionate kissing and touching, really gets me excited! Foreplay is short so often, we need to work on that at home. I’m happy to be shown a little more erotic play but ultimately, I want to be able to feel sexy, safe and stimulated.

A curvier lady, (size 20) who wants to feel pleasured and confident in asking for and getting my needs met. That’s what led me to first signing up, I always ensure my partners’ needs are met and often rely on my toys to reach my pleasure goal! But there’s way more to the journey, diversions, extra stops and speed changes essential.

I miss good old fashioned romance too, I want to feel respected, but with the wave of excitement as a social develops with flirtatious, sexual energy.

Orgasms are like buses…. I can enjoy / endure hours of play and usually get quite wet!

My partner (m, 53, straight) is very keen, to watch me as a Hotwife with a guy, so for the right guy, committed to making me relaxed, raunchy and exceptionally horny, reach out.

We have done this a few times years ago, but I felt it started becoming all consuming in our own intimacy, apparently it just gets him way too excited as I look sexy when being pleasured.

Would prefer to meet for social before making any promises of more. On the rare occasion that we hit it off chatting, it may be the case of meeting sooner.

Respectful, clean, well mannered people are welcome, but messages with direct request to f{}(k will ignored / deleted. That also goes for just d1ck pics - in fact, smart, intellectual, sexy people get my attention way more.

There has to be some connection over and above the physical naughty stuff. Persistence borderlines obnoxiousness and is huge turn off!

Will need to send face pictures, to establish mutual attraction to properly fire me up.

Clean shaven and smooth is preferred.

Good hygiene and safe play is a must.

Testing is required by any sexual partners, and will always ensure I am regularly STI / HIV tested - please don’t be pushy, it’s not cool! Have self respect and care.

Cannot accommodate. Happy to travel a bit for social meet.

Please no: Text speak, “babe/hun”, first message dick pics.

Please do: give a brief intro and face pic

Boundaries: no taking of photos/videos, anal, watersports, extreme pain, marking, humiliation etc.

No smokers, drugs, taking or being around.

Happy Fabbing, Be Kind, Be Safe!

40 years old, Bi-curious

5'5" 165cm
Fabulous
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings