About me, it gets interesting

Man in Burnley, North West, UK

... "Think it's time to head home :) daylight an all". 5 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: online now!

Easygoing, genuine, and a little bit intriguing once you get to know me. I’ve been part of the kink and swinging scene for over a decade, and I take pride in doing things properly — always **safe, sane, and fully consensual**.

I’m the kind of person who can hold a good conversation just as easily as I can take control in the right setting. I’m approachable, grounded, and value real connections — not just ticking boxes or collecting experiences.

By day I’ve got a busy professional life; outside of that, I make time for good company, good energy, and people who know what they want. I’m also a bit of a geek at heart — sci-fi, curiosity, and conversation go a long way with me.

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### What I’m Looking For

Women (and couples) who are open-minded, respectful, and know how to communicate. I’m not here for endless messaging or time-wasting — I’d rather build something genuine, whether that’s friendship, chemistry, or more.

Not into one-night, meaningless meets — connection and mutual vibe matter.

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### My Kink Side

I have broad tastes and enjoy exploring with the right people. I lean toward a confident, dominant energy — playful, controlled, and always respectful of boundaries.

Particular interests include:

* Power dynamics & control

* Restraints, sensory play & teasing

* Exhibition-style energy (in the right settings)

* Creative kink & photography

I’m also passionate about **BDSM photography**, and I’m always open to working with like-minded people who want to create something unique and artistic.

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### The Non-Kink Me

There’s more to me than the scene. I enjoy good conversation, shared humour, and actually getting to know people. If we can talk as easily outside the bedroom as inside it, we’ll get on well.

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### A Few Ground Rules

* Honesty is essential

* No time-wasters or games

* Be upfront about your situation (especially couples)

* Respect goes both ways

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### A Little Extra

I’m also involved with a local swingers club in Rochdale, so I’m well-connected within the scene and always happy to help people feel comfortable and welcomed if they’re newer.

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If you’re genuine, open-minded, and like the sound of me, come say hello. Let’s see where the conversation goes.

Dan

32 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Adult Parties, Anal, Blindfolds, Cuckolding, Dogging, DP, Group Sex, Making Videos, Oral, Rimming, Role Play, Safe Sex, Same Room Swapping, Separate Room Swapping, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs, Taking Photos, Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports

Verified Genuine Profile

*unSquirty69 (39), Couple on 30 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
We Met Dan at Decs yesterday and had a great experience. He’s very friendly, welcoming and a great host. Easy to talk to and made everything feel relaxed from the start. A genuine guy and a credit to the club. Happy to verify. C&C xx

*unSquirty69 (39), Couple on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for hosting us at Decadence. Always good to see someone who takes pride in creating a safe, organised and welcoming environment. You kept things running smoothly and made sure everyone felt comfortable throughout the night. It’s appreciated when hosts are present, approachable and genuinely care about the atmosphere C&C x

* n A (29), Couple on 29 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We’ve had the pleasure of spending time with Dan a few times now, and every experience has been genuinely positive. From the start he’s been open, welcoming, and incredibly knowledgeable about his passions. He took the time to talk us through his impressive collection of toys, answering every question with humour, clarity, and a few great stories along the way. Most recently, we watched him demo chest knots in the dungeon, and it was both informative and undeniably sexy. He explains things in a way that’s easy to understand while still keeping the energy fun and engaging. His confidence and enthusiasm really come through, and it’s clear he enjoys sharing his skills with others in a safe, respectful way. Overall, he has been nothing but friendly, approachable, and genuinely enjoyable to spend time with. We’re looking forward to seeing him soon, and everybody should visit Decadance just to meet him.

*toryofA (34), Woman on 16 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We've met twice, once for a drink & a chat, and again at an event. He is knowledgeable, respectful, and smart. He'll make you feel comfortable in his presence and is a good laugh to be around. Always keeps things safe, sane & consensual - I look forward to our next meeting!

*unglikehorses69 (47), Man on 8 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great guy great host treat this guy with respect

*abydoll777 (34), Woman on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Ive had the pleasure of playing with this absolute gem his knows his stuff in bdsm and very educated about it also down to earth and a great laugh L x

* n T (57), Couple on 27 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Have known this lovely guy for a few short months. He is funny, is a great singer on the karaoke. Respectful, with a bit of a kinky side…. An all round good egg. Xx

*osiesnowy94 (37), Couple on 23 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Bumped into this friendly chap and many others at Decadance and enjoyed an evening making great memories together. Genuine, polite, great host, and respectful.

*couse newbies (47), Couple on 20 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Luvly guy.. made us feel welcome as our first time.. hopefully get back to c u again. Thanks

*ubhubby4her (45), Couple on 9 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy in decadance last night, for the first time in a few years, it was like meeting an old friend and we had a great laugh.. this guy is genuine, funny, good looking, and a real charmer.. do not miss out ladies ??

*itch78 Q.O.N (48), Woman on 9 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Known this guy yrs he's such a good friend of mine always have such a good laugh together and never fails to cheer me up thanks for being an amazing person ladies if you ever get chance to meet him your a lucky lady xx C

*otrcouple (33), Couple on 15 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Wonderful man, don't let the innocent face fool you though! Real gent and is always a pleasure to meet

*ouble AA (50), Couple on 1 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this really nice gentleman in decadance night had some good chats with him when he wasn’t behind the bar

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