Singer, Barman, DJ, Dominant

Man in Burnley, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 19 minutes ago

Easygoing, genuine, and a little bit intriguing once you get to know me. I’ve been part of the kink and swinging scene for over a decade, and I take pride in doing things properly, always **safe, sane, and fully consensual**.

I’m the kind of person who can hold a good conversation just as easily as I can take control in the right setting. I’m approachable, grounded, and value real connections, not just ticking boxes or collecting experiences.

By day I’ve got a busy professional life; outside of that, I make time for good company, good energy, and people who know what they want. I’m also a bit of a geek at heart, sci-fi, curiosity, and conversation go a long way with me.

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# What I’m Looking For #

Women (and couples) who are open-minded, respectful, and know how to communicate. I’m not here for endless messaging or time-wasting, I’d rather build something genuine, whether that’s friendship, chemistry, or more.

Not into one-night, meaningless meets, connection and mutual vibe matter.

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# My Kink Side #

I have broad tastes and enjoy exploring with the right people. I lean toward a confident, dominant energy, playful, controlled, and always respectful of boundaries.

Particular interests include:

* Power dynamics & control

* Restraints, sensory play & teasing

* Exhibition-style energy (in the right settings)

* Creative kink & photography

I’m also passionate about BDSM photography, and I’m always open to working with like-minded people who want to create something unique and artistic.

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# The Non-Kink Me #

There’s more to me than the scene. I enjoy good conversation, shared humour, and actually getting to know people. If we can talk as easily outside the bedroom as inside it, we’ll get on well.

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# A Few Ground Rules #

* Honesty is essential

* No time-wasters or games

* Be upfront about your situation (especially couples)

* Respect goes both ways

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# A Little Extra #

I’m also involved with a Decadance swingers club in Rochdale, I sort out the music, sing, and work behind the bar, and also available foe bdsm demonstrations. I’m well-connected within the scene and always happy to help people feel comfortable and welcomed if they’re newer.

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If you’re genuine, open-minded, and like the sound of me, come say hello. Let’s see where the conversation goes.

Future Meets and Events

Club meet on Friday 24 July 2026 in North West: Decadance Swingers Club, Rochdale
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF TV/TS
For all the curvy girls and their admirers. Cum join us with the fab B & T hosting from 8pm, normal entry prices, and amazing facilities

Club meet on Saturday 1 August 2026 in North West: Decadance Swingers Club, Rochdale
At this meet looking for: F M MF MM FF TV/TS
OI OI, YOU GLITTERY GROOVERS Grab your flares, squeeze into those jumpsuits, fluff up the afro and prepare to get funky hosted by agadooevents xx

View meet listings, add yours at the Meets & Events pages.

Dan

32 years old, Straight

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Looking For

Women
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Watersports, Voyeurism, Toys, Threesomes, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, DP, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties

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*JCOUPLE60 (63), Couple on 1 June 2026 by Meeting in person:
We’ve had some really great nights socialising with this really interesting man … he’s helped us by easing us into the lifestyle and we are thoroughly enjoying ourselves. He’s made me .. Mrs, feel more confident about what I want from this experience but also including the Mr into the interactions. Looking forward to many more nights and his singing isn’t too bad either & he’s got a few tricks up his sleeve xx

*ollycouple71 (58), Couple on 31 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Glad to see this young man again last night always great to talk to see you soon

*arriedcouple1407 (45), Couple on 31 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Meet a couple of times now a decadence. Good conversation and is always welcoming. Lovely guy. Thanks for always making us feel comfortable. See you soon b and j x

*gadooevents (46), Couple on 31 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
What a lovely guy he is. Always welcoming, friendly, polite, helpful. An all round bloody good egg and welcome to any of our events xx

*ous nights in (39), Couple on 31 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
Met this gent when we did a take over night as decadence. Really helped on the bar and sorting the music. No job was to big or to small. Real gent and someone who is a credit to the scene

*urnleyBiSlut (32), Woman on 30 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
What can I say about this guy, was an absolute pleasure to finally get to meet you and visit the club for my first time. Enjoy watching the magic show and hearing the karaoke song, was keen to show his bag of toy and BDSM gear. Deffo well experienced swinger. Thanks again for making us all feel welcome at decadance and can't wait to visit you again soon Lesley x

*udding888 (48), Woman on 25 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
After plans not going where they were originally going singing swinging dominant picked up the gauntlet and traveled to me. The conversation was flowing even before he arrived. Foreplay of the Mind is always a great start! Met me outside a pub for a quick drink so that we could see that we were who we said we were. I started my draining him for knowledge and then back at the room we drained him of…… Did not go down the kink road on the first meet but believe me I wasn’t complaining. Off and on all night. Complaining, No. Moaning, yes! Thank you for a great night. Xxx

*L Kinky Tourists (47), Couple on 4 May 2026 by Meeting in person:
A genuinely lovely chap. Kept us entertained and well looked after on an extremely quiet night. Hopefully see you again soon

*unSquirty69 (39), Couple on 30 March 2026 by Meeting in person:
We Met Dan at Decs yesterday and had a great experience. He’s very friendly, welcoming and a great host. Easy to talk to and made everything feel relaxed from the start. A genuine guy and a credit to the club. Happy to verify. C&C xx

*unSquirty69 (39), Couple on 22 February 2026 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for hosting us at Decadence. Always good to see someone who takes pride in creating a safe, organised and welcoming environment. You kept things running smoothly and made sure everyone felt comfortable throughout the night. It’s appreciated when hosts are present, approachable and genuinely care about the atmosphere C&C x

* n A (29), Couple on 29 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We’ve had the pleasure of spending time with Dan a few times now, and every experience has been genuinely positive. From the start he’s been open, welcoming, and incredibly knowledgeable about his passions. He took the time to talk us through his impressive collection of toys, answering every question with humour, clarity, and a few great stories along the way. Most recently, we watched him demo chest knots in the dungeon, and it was both informative and undeniably sexy. He explains things in a way that’s easy to understand while still keeping the energy fun and engaging. His confidence and enthusiasm really come through, and it’s clear he enjoys sharing his skills with others in a safe, respectful way. Overall, he has been nothing but friendly, approachable, and genuinely enjoyable to spend time with. We’re looking forward to seeing him soon, and everybody should visit Decadance just to meet him.

*toryofA (34), Woman on 16 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
We've met twice, once for a drink & a chat, and again at an event. He is knowledgeable, respectful, and smart. He'll make you feel comfortable in his presence and is a good laugh to be around. Always keeps things safe, sane & consensual - I look forward to our next meeting!

*unglikehorses69 (47), Man on 8 November 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great guy great host treat this guy with respect

*abydoll777 (34), Woman on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Ive had the pleasure of playing with this absolute gem his knows his stuff in bdsm and very educated about it also down to earth and a great laugh L x

*osiesnowy94 (37), Couple on 23 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Bumped into this friendly chap and many others at Decadance and enjoyed an evening making great memories together. Genuine, polite, great host, and respectful.

*couse newbies (47), Couple on 20 April 2025 by Meeting in person:
Luvly guy.. made us feel welcome as our first time.. hopefully get back to c u again. Thanks

*ubhubby4her (45), Couple on 9 March 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy in decadance last night, for the first time in a few years, it was like meeting an old friend and we had a great laugh.. this guy is genuine, funny, good looking, and a real charmer.. do not miss out ladies ??

*otrcouple (34), Couple on 15 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Wonderful man, don't let the innocent face fool you though! Real gent and is always a pleasure to meet

*ouble AA (50), Couple on 1 February 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this really nice gentleman in decadance night had some good chats with him when he wasn’t behind the bar

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